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Poppyfun1 · 26/01/2025 10:32

I don’t know why I’m so bothered about it but is anyone else disgusted by it, I’m more disgusted by the men who actively went there to have sex with her. I have no idea why it’s annoyed me so much but everytime I see something about it it gets my back up!

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Sneezeless · 26/01/2025 13:07

I have seen a few clips online where OF "models" have been absolutely roasted by men for doing OF or their dates have walked out on them after finding out they have done OF. Rightly or wrongly men view sex workers as damaged goods and many do not want a relationship with them.

Pinckk · 26/01/2025 13:11

I can’t bare the ‘She needs help, she’s got MH issues due to some underlying trauma, I feel sorry her’ brigade!

No, you do realise that not everyone that does crazy things has underlying issues or trauma?!?!

Shock horror you can have a perfectly reasonable childhood and still behave like an idiot!

Some people are so motivated by money (and attention) and will literally do anything for it. Most people would have a line and her barr is below most women’s.

She’s vile imo and what she’s done is disgusting and I don’t think many women would do that. So save your pity for those deserving of it, like the homeless, those with disabilities those who live in dire poverty and don’t have access to fresh water, not some attention seeking wannabe.

User757373 · 26/01/2025 13:17

Pinckk · 26/01/2025 13:11

I can’t bare the ‘She needs help, she’s got MH issues due to some underlying trauma, I feel sorry her’ brigade!

No, you do realise that not everyone that does crazy things has underlying issues or trauma?!?!

Shock horror you can have a perfectly reasonable childhood and still behave like an idiot!

Some people are so motivated by money (and attention) and will literally do anything for it. Most people would have a line and her barr is below most women’s.

She’s vile imo and what she’s done is disgusting and I don’t think many women would do that. So save your pity for those deserving of it, like the homeless, those with disabilities those who live in dire poverty and don’t have access to fresh water, not some attention seeking wannabe.

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Agree with this. She's most likely a narcissist and loves the attention. She's doing classic rage baiting where she knows she can put something out there and trigger thousands of people to react. Their reactions generate a huge amount of income and attention for her, both directly and indirectly. That's literally a dream business model.

Many women think that calling her a tart or playing the MH/pity angle will teach her a lesson. I honestly don't think she doesn't care at all. This is her business and she's doing fantastically well at it. Why would she stop?

Toottooot · 26/01/2025 13:18

Rolling around naked on the floor covered in used condoms - skanky as fuck.

HornyHornersPinger · 26/01/2025 13:19

And why is she always so shiny? 🤣

Pinckk · 26/01/2025 13:19

HornyHornersPinger · 26/01/2025 13:19

And why is she always so shiny? 🤣

Polished up for the next one?!….

Youngheartsalittletogetherness · 26/01/2025 13:19

Toottooot · 26/01/2025 13:18

Rolling around naked on the floor covered in used condoms - skanky as fuck.

🤢🤮

ConstanceM · 26/01/2025 13:21

Butterfly292828 · 26/01/2025 10:35

She’s a tart, her parents must be so proud- imagine when she has to explain to her children what she did for a living-
much more different to women who genuinely have to work the streets to make money to put food on the table to feed the family

They are proud, the family actively endorse it as they enjoy the kick backs which include several holidays abroad and nice Xmas presents. That's what values some people have I'm afraid.

Wintersgirl · 26/01/2025 13:22

Cloney · 26/01/2025 10:46

She's a business genius. All these people writing articles about her are just selling her to more customers.

"Oh no this terrible woman is having sex with any man who asks and you can see everything online, don't look!"

Oh yeah genius indeed, she said she didn't care if she caught HIV...

Reetpetitenot · 26/01/2025 13:22

baileys6904 · 26/01/2025 10:41

I'm sorry, I couldnt get past the 'she's a tart'.

I though that language about women went out in the 90s.

So much for women empowering women...

She's empowering no-one. There is so much nonsense talked about 'empowering'. Much of what is described as empowering women is doing no such thing.

PeggyMitchellsCameo · 26/01/2025 13:23

The media are giving her plenty of oxygen. Her latest trick is ‘I don’t mind if I get HIV’ which is absolutely appalling.
Sending that message out is vile and her and the other ones on the same bus are ramping it all up.
The whole thing makes me sick.

Astrabees · 26/01/2025 13:25

I have zero feelings about this. Her behaviour is so extreme I don’t think it says anything about expectations of other women at all. It is a sexual freak show. She might be a perfectly nice person and I hope she finds happiness with someone able to fully understand her.

MinnieCauldwell · 26/01/2025 13:33

Katie Price jiggled her tits for money, made millions once, but look at her now. There was another well known porn girl, Mary or Mandy Millington? Her end was tragic.

Kimmeridge · 26/01/2025 13:33

Who could judge a woman who willingly puts herself through that physical and mental trauma? Not me. She needs sympathy and a mental heath team, not judgement and condemnation

Rubbish. She's absolutely loving the publicity and the money. She knows what she's doing

Save your sympathy for someone who needs it. Not an attention seeking prostitute

FishOnTheTrain · 26/01/2025 13:34

I think for me it’s because she’s so selfish. She clearly only cares about herself and the money she’s earning. She has no regard for anyone else, what example she gives to young women and girls. And how she happily would break up marriages and sleeps with barely legal teenagers. She’s doing it all to get media attention = more money.

Nanny0gg · 26/01/2025 13:35

Zebedee999 · 26/01/2025 11:35

Precisely. I'd not want to be involved in anything like this but as an adult doing legal stuff it's up to her/them. There are plenty of people doing illegal stuff that get a free pass on MN (shop lifters, drug users etc).

I object to that too

WilfredsPies · 26/01/2025 13:38

OneLemonGuide · 26/01/2025 12:56

I’d be happy to give her sympathy and support once she recognises how destructive her behaviour is, but for now she’s revelling in it, so judgement and condemnation are appropriate.

We don’t do women any favours if we infantilise them and assume they have no agency or capacity to act morally… and that they can never be blamed for their actions, because anything wrong they do is the fault of someone else.

And we don’t do victims any favours by condemning them until they start acting how we think a victim should act. Why on earth would she stop revelling in it? It’s her armour. The second she shrugs that off, she has to face what she’s done and what made her take part in something so horrific.

Obviously the whole thing is vile. Utterly vile. And if that doesn’t demonstrate that self hatred is at the bottom of her decision, rather than a sound moral compass, then I don’t know what else you need.

It’s not about infantilising women. It’s about recognising a victim when you see one, irrespective of their sex.

Nanny0gg · 26/01/2025 13:39

ThatCoralShark · 26/01/2025 11:52

A dictionary could have helped you, but a prositute engages in sex with a partner for payment. She does not do this. The men do not pay her.

i understand you wish to be derogatory, but it’s better to be correct.

Yes they pay her - she doesn't do OF for free. And she's earned money for having sex with all those men

a person, in particular a woman, who engages in sexual activity for payment.

It doesn't say WHO pays her. Just that it's done for money

Yoheresthestory · 26/01/2025 13:44

Butterfly292828 · 26/01/2025 10:36

Yep 💯

You're pretty disgusting in your own way too with what you said.

ThatCoralShark · 26/01/2025 13:48

Nanny0gg · 26/01/2025 13:39

Yes they pay her - she doesn't do OF for free. And she's earned money for having sex with all those men

a person, in particular a woman, who engages in sexual activity for payment.

It doesn't say WHO pays her. Just that it's done for money

I think you’re arguing semantics, but honestly if it makes you happy then that’s fine, I can’t say I care what you wish to call her, I was simply pointing out the error.

Choccyscofffy · 26/01/2025 13:48

I think we live in a society and we should try and be good role models for girls.

We are all interconnected and people like this need to consider how they’re impacting young minds.

WilfredsPies · 26/01/2025 13:50

Overtheatlantic · 26/01/2025 13:02

She’s beyond a tart. She’s done something that has a pathological element. The human body might might accept it but the mind, the spirit? No way.

You’re so, so close to getting it.

She’s either a sociopath (around 1% of the population for women) or she’s a deeply traumatised little girl, in the body of a woman. Now I don’t have the stats for that, but I have a sneaking suspicion it’s considerably higher than 1%. So what do you think is most likely?

Ihopeithinkiknow · 26/01/2025 13:57

Lol at business genius. Must have took some thinking to come up with that business idea as it's totally unique isn't it?
Have you seen her on tiktok lol she addresses women as Karen's as if she is the only forward thinking female and the only woman in the world willing to sleep with a shit load of men and every single wife on the planet just aren't giving their husbands what they deserve so in steps bonnie the hero to relieve them lol she also uses the word bonk too which is fucking weird to me lol, nobody says that anymore and when they did (back in the day) it was mainly people who were uncomfortable with using explicit words.
She always looks so proud of herself but I reckon any woman could lay there and be poked by a line of dicks but there's a reason that most women don't lol
She isn't doing anything spectacular that involves talent so I honestly don't know why she even thinks she is being controversial

chattyness · 26/01/2025 14:01

I think I they are all bloody disgusting, her for encouraging this sleazy behaviour in the first instance and all sides for taking part in this filth. It's not ok

Lavenderfarmcottage · 26/01/2025 14:05

DonutCorleone · 26/01/2025 12:30

It's not backward, it's an appropriate and visceral reaction to her behaviour. She clearly needs psychological help to safeguard her wellbeing but she needs to choose to engage with that, but while she and her team continue to flood the internet with clickbait people will continue to voice their true feelings about her.

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Unfortunately mental health isn’t that simple and psychiatry is a developing and relatively new area of modern medicine with many pitfalls, not to mention the mental health system.

I think you don’t want to accept that in many ways she is a victim & clearly making decisions from a place of being vulnerable. It might seem she’s a profiteering boss babe but the set industry and the people in it lure and prey on workers and women like this. Many of these women do have a history of sex abuse.

I think this desire to see BB as a villain and an evil sex worker is just your inner misogynist wanting to blame and cast her as a “bad whore”.

people & life are complex and she probably doesn’t appreciate the impact on her psychologically or understand why her past traumas have lead her to this.
She seems numb and detached

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