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Bonnie blue

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Poppyfun1 · 26/01/2025 10:32

I don’t know why I’m so bothered about it but is anyone else disgusted by it, I’m more disgusted by the men who actively went there to have sex with her. I have no idea why it’s annoyed me so much but everytime I see something about it it gets my back up!

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Wintersgirl · 26/01/2025 14:13

The thing is even if she woke up one morning filled with self revulsion and wanted to get married and have a family, it's too late because any man now will always think she's fair game, she'll never get away from her past...

SlapTheMelon · 26/01/2025 14:13

Cookiecrumblepie · 26/01/2025 11:02

I don't really care about her either way. It's just another form of adult entertainment. Some people want her services, fine, if you don't just don't watch/engage?

Surely there's a limit still. Are we going to normalise people shagging sheep too? She Is a slag. Say it like it is. I don't want to empower women to be just a hole to use. I'd rather empower them to be doctors, engineers, teachers, etc.

lovemetomybones · 26/01/2025 14:16

Life for women can be extremely dangerous. He stunts have just amplified the danger, objectifying women as sexual objects. Objects which can be treated however men wish. Some of the comments those men made about her in the queue was disgusting.

I think if anything she has sadly demonstrated how 1000 men and all the men who will watch her video hate women, or that women are to be used and abused.

This has not made women safer in the 21st century.

FoxtonFoxton · 26/01/2025 14:30

Wintersgirl · 26/01/2025 14:13

The thing is even if she woke up one morning filled with self revulsion and wanted to get married and have a family, it's too late because any man now will always think she's fair game, she'll never get away from her past...

And sadly, there lies the problem. It's the men. None of this would be an issue if there were not thousands of men wanting to degrade women and seeing women as holes to use.
Part of her interviews that I find interesting is that she thinks (genuinely) that men are lining up to fuck her because she's attractive. She's kidding herself. If you give away sex for free, men will fuck anything and anyone. Fat, thin, ugly, old, young. The person advertising this stunt could have been anyone and the line would have been as long.
We sadly seem to be going backwards rather than forwards with regards to equality and women's safety. You only have watch social media for a small time to see the way women are viewed by men.
These stunts don't help. While I don't give a shit what she does with her own fanny, let's not kid ourselves and say it's about empowerment. It's not. It's about money and making as much of it as possible. Men thinking she actually enjoys herself during this stuff are delusional -it's all an act. Everything she says is preplanned -rage bait and pretending she finds it all really horny adds to her audience and her participants for the next stunt.
I'm not going to blame her for the way men treat women. It was shit before and will continue to be shit unfortunately. It certainly hasn't helped though, and with her "success" I've no doubt she will spawn a whole load more like herself who see the money and the designer handbags and the big cars and decide its worth it. Very sad.

Ihateboris · 26/01/2025 14:38

Pinckk · 26/01/2025 13:11

I can’t bare the ‘She needs help, she’s got MH issues due to some underlying trauma, I feel sorry her’ brigade!

No, you do realise that not everyone that does crazy things has underlying issues or trauma?!?!

Shock horror you can have a perfectly reasonable childhood and still behave like an idiot!

Some people are so motivated by money (and attention) and will literally do anything for it. Most people would have a line and her barr is below most women’s.

She’s vile imo and what she’s done is disgusting and I don’t think many women would do that. So save your pity for those deserving of it, like the homeless, those with disabilities those who live in dire poverty and don’t have access to fresh water, not some attention seeking wannabe.

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Well said. I absolutely, completely agree with this. She's just a bloody big headed attention seeker who loves money more than anything else. I'll also bet she has to take cocaine to do what she does, hence why she looks older than she is.

She's just utterly vile, as are the men who shag her.

As an aside, I was listening to a group of guys talking about her in the gym, and all of them said "they'd have a go!" However, when I directly ask any males I know, they all said they're repulsed by her and wouldn't touch her (or Lily Phillips) with a barge pole. Makes you wonder....

Ihateboris · 26/01/2025 14:41

For all the people saying her body, her choice, its empowering blah, blah, blah....how would you feel if it was your daughter?

Nanny0gg · 26/01/2025 14:51

Ihateboris · 26/01/2025 14:41

For all the people saying her body, her choice, its empowering blah, blah, blah....how would you feel if it was your daughter?

Sick. Distraught. Worried to death. Angry

And deeply embarrassed.

Ihateboris · 26/01/2025 14:52

Nanny0gg · 26/01/2025 14:51

Sick. Distraught. Worried to death. Angry

And deeply embarrassed.

Exactly

ChristmasPudd1990 · 26/01/2025 15:03

baileys6904 · 26/01/2025 10:41

I'm sorry, I couldnt get past the 'she's a tart'.

I though that language about women went out in the 90s.

So much for women empowering women...

There's absolutely nothing empowering about Bonnie Blue 🤮🙄🤦‍♀️

WilfredsPies · 26/01/2025 15:04

I can’t bare the ‘She needs help, she’s got MH issues due to some underlying trauma, I feel sorry her’ brigade!

No, you do realise that not everyone that does crazy things has underlying issues or trauma?!?!

That’s understandable. I struggle equally with the ‘Let’s not look beyond the end of our noses’ brigade, especially when they have an apparent aversion to critical thinking and see a woman laying back to be used by a queue of men as a ‘crazy thing’ rather than internalised trauma that needs psychological intervention.

Scammersarescum · 26/01/2025 15:06

Butterfly292828 · 26/01/2025 10:35

She’s a tart, her parents must be so proud- imagine when she has to explain to her children what she did for a living-
much more different to women who genuinely have to work the streets to make money to put food on the table to feed the family

Look at you with your misogynistic language.

ChristmasPudd1990 · 26/01/2025 15:09

ThatCoralShark · 26/01/2025 11:52

A dictionary could have helped you, but a prositute engages in sex with a partner for payment. She does not do this. The men do not pay her.

i understand you wish to be derogatory, but it’s better to be correct.

She may not be getting paid by those "men" but she's generating revenue so is getting paid,just in a different way. She's a prostitute. Just a modern day version 🤮

ChristmasPudd1990 · 26/01/2025 15:14

HornyHornersPinger · 26/01/2025 13:19

And why is she always so shiny? 🤣

That'll be all the jizz 🤦‍♀️🙄👍🤮😂

Ihateboris · 26/01/2025 15:19

ChristmasPudd1990 · 26/01/2025 15:14

That'll be all the jizz 🤦‍♀️🙄👍🤮😂

Ha ha ha ha ha. That's hilarious 😂 😃

MermaidEyes · 26/01/2025 15:53

@FoxtonFoxton totally agree with everything said there

Nanny0gg · 26/01/2025 15:57

Scammersarescum · 26/01/2025 15:06

Look at you with your misogynistic language.

I don't think it's misogyny to call something out that a woman is choosing to do

torreli · 26/01/2025 16:09

ThatCoralShark · 26/01/2025 11:41

I find the men more abhorrent and wonder how she can do it. However I also note she’s making close to a million a month from it. Personally I couldn’t, even for that sort of money, however I don’t have the sort of visceral reaction some do. I just find myself bemused and wonder what caused her to be ok with this,

I also disagree with language like calling her a tart. We can express our views without resorting to this sort of abuse.

Companies house would disagree

ThatCoralShark · 26/01/2025 16:16

Nanny0gg · 26/01/2025 15:57

I don't think it's misogyny to call something out that a woman is choosing to do

No it’s not, but the poster was reffering to the language being used. We should be better than that. Resorting to mysogynistic name calling.

Ihateboris · 26/01/2025 16:28

torreli · 26/01/2025 16:09

Companies house would disagree

Yes, Companies House isn't showing anywhere near that figure.

ThoroughlyModernNotMillie · 26/01/2025 16:29

ThatCoralShark · 26/01/2025 16:16

No it’s not, but the poster was reffering to the language being used. We should be better than that. Resorting to mysogynistic name calling.

I'd be interested to know which words you would use to describe a woman who behaves like her. Tart and slag perfectly describe a woman who has willingly had sex with over a thousand men on camera. Which "non misogynistic" words would describe that type of woman?
On MN it seems that many people are over keen on labelling any criticism of women as misogynistic, and keen to spout all the women empowering women crap. Women make up half the population and as a woman it doesn't mean that I'm automatically going to ally myself with any particular one of them.
Of course as a class women have been and are underrepresented and discriminated against. But that doesn't mean that all of us are equal or should be supported. I'm equally likely to dislike any particular woman, or disapprove of her attitude or behaviour, as I am of a man.

ThatCoralShark · 26/01/2025 16:39

ThoroughlyModernNotMillie · 26/01/2025 16:29

I'd be interested to know which words you would use to describe a woman who behaves like her. Tart and slag perfectly describe a woman who has willingly had sex with over a thousand men on camera. Which "non misogynistic" words would describe that type of woman?
On MN it seems that many people are over keen on labelling any criticism of women as misogynistic, and keen to spout all the women empowering women crap. Women make up half the population and as a woman it doesn't mean that I'm automatically going to ally myself with any particular one of them.
Of course as a class women have been and are underrepresented and discriminated against. But that doesn't mean that all of us are equal or should be supported. I'm equally likely to dislike any particular woman, or disapprove of her attitude or behaviour, as I am of a man.

I and others don’t feel they are acceptable and we can’t complain when men use them if we do the same.

and I won’t and do not use abusive terms to describe her or any other woman. I will discuss the behaviour. But I feel no need to sink so low as hurl mysogynistic abuse.

Lavenderfarmcottage · 26/01/2025 17:04

ThoroughlyModernNotMillie · 26/01/2025 12:50

What a load of bleeding heart rubbish. I can't believe this is someone's genuine reaction to the woman's behaviour. She is a tart/slag/ prostitute/ sex worker.
Yes she can make her own life choices but her actions are absolutely nothing to be proud of or to be inspired by or empowered by, no example to anyone at all.
It's normal to be sickened by a woman ( or man) behaving like this, and perfectly normal to judge. It's hardly narrow minded to think that a woman having sex on camera with over a thousand men is something that shouldn't be admired.

Ohhh this thread angers me so much. The three groups left that it is okay to hate -
fat people, sex workers & the mentally ill.

Blueeyedmale · 26/01/2025 17:12

I think she's a tart comment is a bit harsh she's clearly being influenced but someone or more then someone and this puts her in a vulnerable position,the men taking advantage of her vulnerability well they should be on some kind of register

Maybe I just try to see the good in people but hearing other women call other women tarts beacuse that person might have mental health issues or being coerced into this behaviour I don't think that's being a tart personally and feel quite sad for them.

My anger would be directed at the men clearly taking advantage

Butterfly292828 · 26/01/2025 17:42

Scammersarescum · 26/01/2025 15:06

Look at you with your misogynistic language.

Absolutely- young impressionable girls will be looking up to her 😩

ZiggyZowie · 26/01/2025 17:43

Wouldnt her foof. be awfully sore. ??

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