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Bonnie blue

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Poppyfun1 · 26/01/2025 10:32

I don’t know why I’m so bothered about it but is anyone else disgusted by it, I’m more disgusted by the men who actively went there to have sex with her. I have no idea why it’s annoyed me so much but everytime I see something about it it gets my back up!

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Darlingx · 28/01/2025 04:39

I watched a podcast on a women who was trafficked her country was at war she survived just but knows she won’t live a full life span her body is holding so much trauma. It was the soldiers without boots that trafficked her that was the difference that indicated the bad soldiers they wore trainers. The next level would have been organ harvesting once her body was no longer sexually applicable luckily she managed to escape with a very strong message of helping others. Every time she escaped and thought she was safe she would get trafficked again yet she faced her community and abductors. When all resources crumble rape becomes the weapon so I find it so sad that this woman Bonnie Blue is encouraged by her family when people with no home, food ,security and free will wouldn’t be selling their own daughters

Hufflemuff · 28/01/2025 04:52

lavendarwillow · 26/01/2025 10:53

I've found myself feeling very low this past week, factor of various things but this Bonnie Blue story has played a part. She's disgusting, her family are disgusting and the scum that visit her. There's a special place in hell for all of them. It could be fake but it's still absolutely vile. It's very handmaiden, women are nothing but objects to be used and abused.

You sound deranged.

Imagine feeling low and part of that is because you've read a story about someone you've never met, who has slept with people you will probably never meet. You don't have to agree with her morals, but this has zero affect on your life, unless you caught your husband there?!?

Also wishing them to go to hell? Bit much isn't it? Is what she's done that bad that they deserve to be tortured for all eternity in a fire pit? I'd reserve something like that for rapists, murderers and pedos personally.

You and OP are unreasonable for letting this get so under your skin. It's rage bait for people easily raged. Case and point.

TreacleTarcleSparkle · 28/01/2025 06:52

OP- why do you let it bother you? You don’t have to pay a second of your attention on this girl. She is choosing to do this, the guys partaking are choosing and even her mother is choosing to be part of BB’s ‘business’.

No one is forcing her. She’s eloquent and sharp minded enough in her interviews so she knows exactly what she’s letting herself in for.

She definitely (IMVHO) has some type of personality disorder /detachment and even a tiny bit of an ‘emotional chip’ almost missing BUT she’s using her ‘quirks’ and her strong personality and demeanour as well as her youth and ‘beauty’ (she’s more attractive , super sure of herself , very well groomed .. blow dries /natural make up ) she knows she is very unlikely going to make millions as a ‘popstar’ 😆 or in her past recruitment job so she’s selling literally herself her SOUL ..as money is her god and while she’s not hurting you op then just wish her well and ignore her press stories

Sceptical123 · 28/01/2025 08:06

DaisyChain505 · 26/01/2025 10:50

It’s so “annoying” as you say because it’s literally confirming and supporting the on going narrative that men own and control women and can do as they like with their bodies. We are mere objects to them to use as they wish to fulfill their sexual needs.

It is desensitising violence against women and making it seem perfectly normal for men to line up and use a woman’s body over and over and over again for their pleasure.

Hear hear.

Women like this are the reason a growing number of men and boys see women outside of their family and perhaps partners as sexual OBJECTS - it shows women not only willingly accepting this role but celebrating it.

Welshwhales · 28/01/2025 08:46

Hufflemuff · 28/01/2025 04:52

You sound deranged.

Imagine feeling low and part of that is because you've read a story about someone you've never met, who has slept with people you will probably never meet. You don't have to agree with her morals, but this has zero affect on your life, unless you caught your husband there?!?

Also wishing them to go to hell? Bit much isn't it? Is what she's done that bad that they deserve to be tortured for all eternity in a fire pit? I'd reserve something like that for rapists, murderers and pedos personally.

You and OP are unreasonable for letting this get so under your skin. It's rage bait for people easily raged. Case and point.

I have found this depressing too, to think society has been allowed to get this low whilst Bonnie Blue is raking in millions . This seriously needs to be stopped on the grounds of obscenity.

Butterfly292828 · 28/01/2025 08:58

Sceptical123 · 28/01/2025 08:06

Hear hear.

Women like this are the reason a growing number of men and boys see women outside of their family and perhaps partners as sexual OBJECTS - it shows women not only willingly accepting this role but celebrating it.

Absolutely 💯 this! This BB woman isn’t bad, she is just such a sad person really. I can guarantee it will come back to her bite on the arse, when she is a little older, maybe struggling to have kids because she’s picked up some STI, & really when her looks have long gone, what decent bloke is going to want her. She will look back in her older age & think, why the F did I do that.
I know personally knew someone that only slept with a handful of guys due to having bi-polar, when their high moods turned into a deep, dark depression, they couldn’t believe that they could have done that & ended up taking their own life, due to the fact they felt they had made an arse of themselves. 😩

Butterfly292828 · 28/01/2025 09:09

HallieM93 · 27/01/2025 23:21

It’s probably complex about yourself not being able to open up sexually

Says more about you HallieM93 tbh, if you think this is normal behaviour. A lot of women on here probably have young daughters & sons, who think this is ok-imagine them having look up to this sad, pathetic individual, for sexual guidance 😩

berightorbehappy · 28/01/2025 09:10

One woman makes a bad decision . 1000+ men make a bad decision…mmm seems about the right ratio ? And everyone is still talking about the woman . She’s foolish but there’s no way that in this day and age any woman should be calling another woman a “tart” that’s weaponised word men use .

Yogaatsunrise · 28/01/2025 09:11

berightorbehappy · 28/01/2025 09:10

One woman makes a bad decision . 1000+ men make a bad decision…mmm seems about the right ratio ? And everyone is still talking about the woman . She’s foolish but there’s no way that in this day and age any woman should be calling another woman a “tart” that’s weaponised word men use .

^ this a million %

Butterfly292828 · 28/01/2025 09:14

berightorbehappy · 28/01/2025 09:10

One woman makes a bad decision . 1000+ men make a bad decision…mmm seems about the right ratio ? And everyone is still talking about the woman . She’s foolish but there’s no way that in this day and age any woman should be calling another woman a “tart” that’s weaponised word men use .

Good god, hardly! Least nasty word I could think of! She is a tart, a sad one at that!

Butterfly292828 · 28/01/2025 09:16

Childminder60 · 27/01/2025 18:41

Look at it a different way ; she is getting paid for her gift. I could have never done this as physically my body couldn't do it and mentally it would repulse me. We are all made differently and she is meant to be on a million a month using her talent.

Would you even want to?

Butterfly292828 · 28/01/2025 09:18

LalaPaloosa2024 · 27/01/2025 20:55

Her parents do her Only Fans accounts and handle her money. It takes a certain kind of parent to raise a child like this.

Yes it does. sick ones- truly F-up!

Butterfly292828 · 28/01/2025 09:19

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Butterfly292828 · 28/01/2025 09:20

Butterfly292828 · 28/01/2025 09:19

Wrong post

For the Madonna thread

Butterfly292828 · 28/01/2025 09:25

berightorbehappy · 28/01/2025 09:10

One woman makes a bad decision . 1000+ men make a bad decision…mmm seems about the right ratio ? And everyone is still talking about the woman . She’s foolish but there’s no way that in this day and age any woman should be calling another woman a “tart” that’s weaponised word men use .

its way worse, only her & thousand odd (if true) of men 😩

Butterfly292828 · 28/01/2025 09:28

Yogaatsunrise · 28/01/2025 09:11

^ this a million %

Of course they are going to be talking about the woman (that’s what she wants).

XWKD · 28/01/2025 09:29

I haven't read anything about this woman except here. To me the most disturbing thing is that her family is part of the whole thing -if it's true.

Feelinghurt2 · 28/01/2025 10:28

DaisyChain505 · 26/01/2025 10:50

It’s so “annoying” as you say because it’s literally confirming and supporting the on going narrative that men own and control women and can do as they like with their bodies. We are mere objects to them to use as they wish to fulfill their sexual needs.

It is desensitising violence against women and making it seem perfectly normal for men to line up and use a woman’s body over and over and over again for their pleasure.

You have summed up how I feel about this perfectly. It worries and saddens me that there are men who would actually do this. What type of man would go through with this? One who has no consideration for the woman's emotional state, even if she has consented to it. Consent doesn't stop how shit she must feel about herself to volunteer for this. It makes me wonder how many of these men have perpetrated or will go on to perpetrate violence against women because they think this kind of thing is normal. I've never heard of a hundred women queuing up to have sex with one man. Or of women having more than one husband at a time, in comparison with some religions or cultures that allow men to take several wives. You're right, it propagates the idea that women are basically a slab of meat to some men.

Feelinghurt2 · 28/01/2025 10:34

dottydodah · 26/01/2025 11:21

The article the Mail ran seemed to take a fairly kind view of her , Doing Jigsaws with her family ,and somehow they all seem to be aboard this rather grubby gravy train ! She apparently earns 600k PM. I cant see how this is anything but being a prostitute though.Her husband is divorcing her unsurprisingly!long term if she has children what will they think?.I think she is enjoying the publicity ATM.She and the porn industry are doing women a huge disservice ,

She's married?! WTAF.

lavendarwillow · 28/01/2025 11:30

Hufflemuff · 28/01/2025 04:52

You sound deranged.

Imagine feeling low and part of that is because you've read a story about someone you've never met, who has slept with people you will probably never meet. You don't have to agree with her morals, but this has zero affect on your life, unless you caught your husband there?!?

Also wishing them to go to hell? Bit much isn't it? Is what she's done that bad that they deserve to be tortured for all eternity in a fire pit? I'd reserve something like that for rapists, murderers and pedos personally.

You and OP are unreasonable for letting this get so under your skin. It's rage bait for people easily raged. Case and point.

I think you are the one who sounds deranged. There are news stories every day that are awful and as a human being you naturally feel anger, disgust, empathy or whatever. You don’t have to personally know who the people in the news are to have those feelings. It doesn’t make this story any less disgusting or sad.

I’ve got past the anger now and hoping she’s ok, I don’t think anyone in their right mind would do what she is doing. Something isn’t right.

Hufflemuff · 29/01/2025 07:19

lavendarwillow · 28/01/2025 11:30

I think you are the one who sounds deranged. There are news stories every day that are awful and as a human being you naturally feel anger, disgust, empathy or whatever. You don’t have to personally know who the people in the news are to have those feelings. It doesn’t make this story any less disgusting or sad.

I’ve got past the anger now and hoping she’s ok, I don’t think anyone in their right mind would do what she is doing. Something isn’t right.

No I don't think it is "natural" to feel so much anger about Bonnie Blues 1000 man challenge. Disgust - absolutely, but if you're go to reaction is anger then that's a red flag.

Exsugarbabe · 29/01/2025 19:55

What a horrible thought

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She is a human being that has lost her way maybe, but don’t speak about her like that.

MrsSkylerWhite · 30/01/2025 00:00

Yogaatsunrise · Yesterday 09:11

berightorbehappy · Yesterday 09:10
One woman makes a bad decision . 1000+ men make a bad decision…mmm seems about the right ratio ? And everyone is still talking about the woman . She’s foolish but there’s no way that in this day and age any woman should be calling another woman a “tart” that’s weaponised word men use .
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^ this a million %

A bad decision? It was a very deliberate, calculating, provocative and shocking decision arrived at purely to make money.

If the woman in question has no self-respect, why would you expect anyone else to have any respect or sympathy for her? Tart is a very polite way of describing her.