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Poppyfun1 · 26/01/2025 10:32

I don’t know why I’m so bothered about it but is anyone else disgusted by it, I’m more disgusted by the men who actively went there to have sex with her. I have no idea why it’s annoyed me so much but everytime I see something about it it gets my back up!

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Bonsaitree7 · 26/01/2025 12:17

Butterfly292828 · 26/01/2025 10:35

She’s a tart, her parents must be so proud- imagine when she has to explain to her children what she did for a living-
much more different to women who genuinely have to work the streets to make money to put food on the table to feed the family

"She's a tart" and "much more different". You sound like such a smart cookie! I haven't heard anybody use the word "tart" since the 90's!

Lavenderfarmcottage · 26/01/2025 12:23

What saddens me the most is how narrow minded we are about life and people. The reactions on here about how she’s a tart - it’s so backward.

I would put money on this woman having unresolved complex trauma or being molested as a child of having some sort of mental illness & being detached as a result.

I feel genuinely concerned for her and the narrow life path available to her after this and also a lifetime contending with people that are quick to judge & judge inaccurately.

Scorchio84 · 26/01/2025 12:23

Apparently Only fans won't even screen this content & (I hope you're sitting down for this) she doesn't care if she contracts HIV

As a PP said "what a time to be alive"

Thisisthemomentforchange · 26/01/2025 12:26

Dorisbonson · 26/01/2025 12:12

Because it's revolting on multiple levels.

She appears to have mental health issues, no one sane does what she has done and is doing.

I'm not disputing that it's revolting.

But there have been multiple threads on both her and Lily Philips on MN.

What is there left to say?

We are just feeding in to what these women want: they don't give a damn about other women. They care about money. And publicity is what feeds their bank accounts.

butterflysandrobins · 26/01/2025 12:28

She's a dirt bag!! And the men that go to stick their dick in it for 45 seconds are just as bad. The world has gone fucking crazy

notacooldad · 26/01/2025 12:30

I'm sorry, I couldnt get past the 'she's a tart' I can, that's exactly what she is. It's not like she's had a bit of life expierence and slept with a few blokes along the way, like most of us have she has gone and done 1057 in one go. She's already done a hundred for a warm up in Freshers week.

I though that language about women went out in the 90s. if the hat fits........

So much for women empowering women... what is there to empower here? Absolutely nothing. I wouldn't want to be associated with her.

DonutCorleone · 26/01/2025 12:30

Lavenderfarmcottage · 26/01/2025 12:23

What saddens me the most is how narrow minded we are about life and people. The reactions on here about how she’s a tart - it’s so backward.

I would put money on this woman having unresolved complex trauma or being molested as a child of having some sort of mental illness & being detached as a result.

I feel genuinely concerned for her and the narrow life path available to her after this and also a lifetime contending with people that are quick to judge & judge inaccurately.

It's not backward, it's an appropriate and visceral reaction to her behaviour. She clearly needs psychological help to safeguard her wellbeing but she needs to choose to engage with that, but while she and her team continue to flood the internet with clickbait people will continue to voice their true feelings about her.

MermaidEyes · 26/01/2025 12:31

I wish people would stop believing the narrative all the men wore condoms and were tested. She recently did an event with another OF 'star' who apparently left that event in disgust when it became clear, no, the men didn't all have proof of testing and didn't all consent to wear condoms. According to her BB didn't give a crap and cracked on. At least this other girl seems to have some concern for her own health.
And anyone who seriously believes she's empowering women is an idiot.

mowthegrass · 26/01/2025 12:32

The worst thing that could happen to her is for everyone to just ignore her. Let her at it. She’s making money from people’s interest in this.

notacooldad · 26/01/2025 12:33

"She's a tart" and "much more different". You sound like such a smart cookie! I haven't heard anybody use the word "tart" since the 90's!
It's still in common use in many parts of the country.
I'm hearing it from the latest generation of young people now and again. I do challenge it but in this case I think it is justified.

WilfredsPies · 26/01/2025 12:36

I feel desperately sorry for her. No little girl dreams of growing up to be used like that. And I don’t think that you could put yourself through something like that without it having a significant impact, no matter how many Birkin bags you can afford. Who could judge a woman who willingly puts herself through that physical and mental trauma? Not me. She needs sympathy and a mental heath team, not judgement and condemnation.

HappyToSmile · 26/01/2025 12:40

She's doing it for attention/publicity/money
The men on the other hand..... just what on earth posseses them to fo it??? one of them every 41 seconds....

Pamelaaaaarrr · 26/01/2025 12:47

BeardofHagrid · 26/01/2025 12:16

She is the most mid porno star I have ever seen in my life and does not deserve the hype she’s getting 😂 She would look right at home pulling pints on Corrie.

I wonder if she’s on the Melanotan injections. It would explain the leathered skin, risky sexual behaviour and possibly the enlarged weenus ego 🤭

When I saw a picture of her I actually thought she was mid-40s.

ThoroughlyModernNotMillie · 26/01/2025 12:50

Lavenderfarmcottage · 26/01/2025 12:23

What saddens me the most is how narrow minded we are about life and people. The reactions on here about how she’s a tart - it’s so backward.

I would put money on this woman having unresolved complex trauma or being molested as a child of having some sort of mental illness & being detached as a result.

I feel genuinely concerned for her and the narrow life path available to her after this and also a lifetime contending with people that are quick to judge & judge inaccurately.

What a load of bleeding heart rubbish. I can't believe this is someone's genuine reaction to the woman's behaviour. She is a tart/slag/ prostitute/ sex worker.
Yes she can make her own life choices but her actions are absolutely nothing to be proud of or to be inspired by or empowered by, no example to anyone at all.
It's normal to be sickened by a woman ( or man) behaving like this, and perfectly normal to judge. It's hardly narrow minded to think that a woman having sex on camera with over a thousand men is something that shouldn't be admired.

Boomer55 · 26/01/2025 12:52

infertilitychallenges · 26/01/2025 11:52

She’s not empowering women she’s endangering them. Making herself no more than a hole and an object. Giving men the message that it’s ok to behave the way she allows and dressing it up as a powerful choice .

This. 👍👍👍. She’s as empowering to women as blokes like Andrew Tate are.

They're all appalling, but how sad she and the men have such low self worth. 🤷‍♀️

missmollygreen · 26/01/2025 12:53

baileys6904 · 26/01/2025 10:41

I'm sorry, I couldnt get past the 'she's a tart'.

I though that language about women went out in the 90s.

So much for women empowering women...

Yea we should empowering women to take 1000 cocks in 24 hours to make money from online prostitution. Go feminism!

Sneezeless · 26/01/2025 12:54

I can't understand why OF prostitutes are being pushed as some sort of role model. Prostitution used to be a last resort for a woman to make a living, not a legitimate career option.

IsawwhatIsaw · 26/01/2025 12:54

I think this is tabloid driven. The extensive coverage is simultaneously outraged and titillated by it all.

HRTQueen · 26/01/2025 12:55

WilfredsPies · 26/01/2025 12:36

I feel desperately sorry for her. No little girl dreams of growing up to be used like that. And I don’t think that you could put yourself through something like that without it having a significant impact, no matter how many Birkin bags you can afford. Who could judge a woman who willingly puts herself through that physical and mental trauma? Not me. She needs sympathy and a mental heath team, not judgement and condemnation.

I agree

what loving and protective parent would support their child in the way her mother has, I am not sue about her father if he is around

Parents that stand by and allow and encourage their child to be exploited for money and fame how do we expect the child to feel any sense of respect and dignity for themselves

what has gone wrong for her, it’s sad and horrifying

Tigergirl80 · 26/01/2025 12:56

I saw a TikTok of a mum dragging her son out of the queue. I can’t say I blame her.

Cattery · 26/01/2025 12:56

A whole new level of seediness for the dirty raincoat brigade

OneLemonGuide · 26/01/2025 12:56

WilfredsPies · 26/01/2025 12:36

I feel desperately sorry for her. No little girl dreams of growing up to be used like that. And I don’t think that you could put yourself through something like that without it having a significant impact, no matter how many Birkin bags you can afford. Who could judge a woman who willingly puts herself through that physical and mental trauma? Not me. She needs sympathy and a mental heath team, not judgement and condemnation.

I’d be happy to give her sympathy and support once she recognises how destructive her behaviour is, but for now she’s revelling in it, so judgement and condemnation are appropriate.

We don’t do women any favours if we infantilise them and assume they have no agency or capacity to act morally… and that they can never be blamed for their actions, because anything wrong they do is the fault of someone else.

Americano75 · 26/01/2025 12:59

It's interesting how many of the male participants chose to cover their faces.

Overtheatlantic · 26/01/2025 13:02

She’s beyond a tart. She’s done something that has a pathological element. The human body might might accept it but the mind, the spirit? No way.

Sneezeless · 26/01/2025 13:03

@Americano75
Exactly

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