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Circumcision should be banned.

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ArabellaScott · 24/01/2025 14:44

https://www.secularism.org.uk/news/2025/01/judge-and-parents-call-for-boys-to-be-protected-from-circumcision

Article describes an upsetting case of two doctors performing these ops without anesthesia, and with sometimes serious side effects. One boy nearly died.

The National Secular Society is running a concurrent campaign to ban all 'religious cutting' - that includes both FGM and male circumcision. I wholeheartedly agree that no baby or child should suffer in this way. More info:

https://www.secularism.org.uk/religious-surgery/

YABU - circumcision for religous reasons is fine
YANBU - circumcision should be banned (unless there is a medical reason)

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Ponderingwindow · 24/01/2025 16:26

An example of cultural relativism is acknowledging that the animals different cultures choose to consume is often arbitrary.

Avoiding cutting a child’s genitals without medical need is a moral absolute.

ArabellaScott · 24/01/2025 16:27

Joystir59 · 24/01/2025 16:24

Because there is a significant difference between removing a foreskin from a penis and scraping a girls clitoris away and sewing her labia together so tightly she cannot part with menstrual fluid or enjoy sexual pleasure

That is one specific type of FGM, infibulation. Agree, of course, that it's horrific and extreme.

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Youbutterbelieve · 24/01/2025 16:27

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LefttheLeft · 24/01/2025 16:27

HolyGrailSeeker · 24/01/2025 15:26

Unfortunately it can cause very severe issues of pain and sexual dysfunction for men who were circumcised as young children. It’s rare, but it does happen.

Actor Tom Rosenthal has talked about the problems he has faced following childhood circumcision and how he is against the circumcising of children.

Its not rare for FGM though, is it? Its rather part of the point of mutilating girls. For male circumcision its a bug, for FGM its a feature.

Not justifying male circumcision, just pointing out that there are significant differences in purpose and scale.

Youbutterbelieve · 24/01/2025 16:28

The above was not antisemitic either, I find the influencing factors contributing to American culture fascinating!

ArabellaScott · 24/01/2025 16:29

A paper here looking at severity of FGM and changes over time in 22 countries:

'FGM is becoming less common over time, but it remains a pervasive practice in some countries: more than half of women in 7 of the 22 countries we examined still experience FGM. The severity of the procedures has not changed substantially over time.'

https://gh.bmj.com/content/2/4/bmjgh-2017-000467

Thirty-year trends in the prevalence and severity of female genital mutilation: a comparison of 22 countries

Thirty-year trends in the prevalence and severity of female genital mutilation: a comparison of 22 countries

Introduction Female genital mutilation (FGM) harms women’s health and well-being and is widely considered a violation of human rights. The United Nations has called for elimination of the practice by 2030.Methods We used household survey data to measur...

https://gh.bmj.com/content/2/4/bmjgh-2017-000467

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Combustivechicken · 24/01/2025 16:30

I’m Jewish and I feel very strongly that this practice needs to stop. How you stop it though I don’t know. How the sign of being a Jewish male relies on having a part of the body removed, I find ridiculous. A lot of religious rules and laws are hard for me to make any sense of, but they don’t cause physically damage . If you want to avoid eating dairy after meat, fair enough, Not drive a car or carry a bag on Shabbat, crack on. But cutting parts of the bodies of babies who have no voice or choice and which may leave them with lifelong problems - time it stopped.

Ponoka7 · 24/01/2025 16:30

namechangeGOT · 24/01/2025 16:06

I really don't care who this offends but if you cut your child's foreskin off for religious or cultural reasons or because it's 'the done thing' where you live, then you're a child abuser. Your sons foreskin is not yours to decide what to do with. If your 'god' or 'community' call for you to mutilate your child and you go along with it then you're brain dead.

If your son wants to remove his foreskin when he's 18 to impress his 'god', or because it's the cultural norm then that's up to him. But to do it to an infant with no say is abhorrent.

What I would say to that is in a country like Uganda/Nigeria, were the healthcare isn't good and expensive, you can see why it's best to do it as a newborn. Circumcision at a later age would be life threatening because of infection. Having a foreskin could be life threatening if it gets infected, STIs such as herpes is of less of a risk.
If it is banned this will be driven underground, then we have to decide punishment. Now do we remove children because of this, all (even the emotionally bonded older daughter) some (just boys)? Put people in prison? We'd have to have clear strategies.

Hoppinggreen · 24/01/2025 16:30

Any cutting bits off your child and/or making holes in them should be illegal unless a Medical professional has deemed it necessary for medical reasons

BeingATwatItsABingThing · 24/01/2025 16:30

Circumcision is a cruel and unnecessary procedure to put a baby or child through (medical reasons aside) and I would ban it in a heartbeat.

I was genuinely shocked to be asked by a nurse if we were going to get DS circumcised when he was only hours old. She was advocating for it and said it was part of her religion to do this (Christianity she told us). This was last year in an NHS hospital in England so maybe it’s a bigger ‘thing’ than I realise. It made me not trust the nurse to be caring for DS without DH or I present in case she took it upon herself to make the decision for us. Having just had a traumatic c-section after we both nearly died, why on earth would I then want to cut a perfectly normal, healthy part of my baby’s body off?!

ArabellaScott · 24/01/2025 16:31

BeingATwatItsABingThing · 24/01/2025 16:30

Circumcision is a cruel and unnecessary procedure to put a baby or child through (medical reasons aside) and I would ban it in a heartbeat.

I was genuinely shocked to be asked by a nurse if we were going to get DS circumcised when he was only hours old. She was advocating for it and said it was part of her religion to do this (Christianity she told us). This was last year in an NHS hospital in England so maybe it’s a bigger ‘thing’ than I realise. It made me not trust the nurse to be caring for DS without DH or I present in case she took it upon herself to make the decision for us. Having just had a traumatic c-section after we both nearly died, why on earth would I then want to cut a perfectly normal, healthy part of my baby’s body off?!

The data I linked upthread said that 20% of UK boys are circumcised, although that didn't disaggregate for those who'd had it done for medical reasons.

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WiddlinDiddlin · 24/01/2025 16:33

Ponoka7 · 24/01/2025 16:30

What I would say to that is in a country like Uganda/Nigeria, were the healthcare isn't good and expensive, you can see why it's best to do it as a newborn. Circumcision at a later age would be life threatening because of infection. Having a foreskin could be life threatening if it gets infected, STIs such as herpes is of less of a risk.
If it is banned this will be driven underground, then we have to decide punishment. Now do we remove children because of this, all (even the emotionally bonded older daughter) some (just boys)? Put people in prison? We'd have to have clear strategies.

Why do you think a baby, who likely wears a nappy and soils himself, is at LESS risk of infection from an open wound on his genitals, than a grown man who ought to know how to wash himself?

BakedAlaska12 · 24/01/2025 16:34

Youbutterbelieve · 24/01/2025 16:28

The above was not antisemitic either, I find the influencing factors contributing to American culture fascinating!

Quack quack

CranfordScones · 24/01/2025 16:34

It would require politicians to take on both Jews and Muslims. So they'll give abhorrent genital mutilation an inexplicably fair hearing in the interests of multicultural harmony. Not to mention cynical political self-interest.

BeingATwatItsABingThing · 24/01/2025 16:34

ArabellaScott · 24/01/2025 16:31

The data I linked upthread said that 20% of UK boys are circumcised, although that didn't disaggregate for those who'd had it done for medical reasons.

I honestly don’t think I’d have guessed that high a percentage!

Whydoeseveryonewanttoargue · 24/01/2025 16:36

OurChristmasMiracle · 24/01/2025 15:09

for a child- not unless medically needed
for an adult able to consent- personal choice but not NHS funded unless medically needed.

While I agree this would also mean the NHS shouldn’t fund any non medically needed procedure such as ear pinning, cosmetic surgery, breast enlargement, weight loss surgery etc.

Again if these surgeries are medically needed then fine but the NHS do perform these surgeries that are not medically necessary

Fluufer · 24/01/2025 16:37

WiddlinDiddlin · 24/01/2025 16:33

Why do you think a baby, who likely wears a nappy and soils himself, is at LESS risk of infection from an open wound on his genitals, than a grown man who ought to know how to wash himself?

I don't think that poster was referring to men being able to wash themselves.
There are population clusters in Uganda for example with HIV rates of over 50%, circumcision is a significant protector against this. Infant boys grown into adult men. It could certainly be argued that infant circumcision might be the least worst in circumstances like that. The procedure is far simpler on babies than adults and adolescents.

IcedPurple · 24/01/2025 16:38

Agree.

Mutilating a tiny child who cannot consent for religious or 'cultural' reasons should not be allowed. The boy can undergo the procedure when he is an adult if he so chooses.

Beeloux · 24/01/2025 16:39

Should be renamed male genital mutilation.

XH is Muslim but no way in hell would I ever agree to circumcise ds until he is at the age to consent to such a medical procedure himself (16+).

namechangeGOT · 24/01/2025 16:39

What I would say to that is in a country like Uganda/Nigeria, were the healthcare isn't good and expensive, you can see why it's best to do it as a newborn. Circumcision at a later age would be life threatening because of infection. Having a foreskin could be life threatening if it gets infected, STIs such as herpes is of less of a risk.
If it is banned this will be driven underground, then we have to decide punishment. Now do we remove children because of this, all (even the emotionally bonded older daughter) some (just boys)? Put people in prison? We'd have to have clear strategies.

@Ponoka7 No, it's not best to do it as a newborn! It's best to not do it at all, now if I am adult male in Nigeria, Uganda or anywhere else in the world wishes to take the risk of infection then good for him! A baby does not. It is mutilation. STIs?! Stop fucking people with Herpes then and it'll be even less of a risk, or, I don't know, use a condom? No condom? Don't have sex.

And yes, we would have to have clear strategies, absolutely. Anything to protect babies being mutilated in the name of religion or culture. Again, as per my first post, it is child abuse and people doing it in the name of religion or culture are brain dead.

FoxInTheForest · 24/01/2025 16:40

It should definitely be banned. Absolutely sickening how common it is in the US, presumably for financial reasons with private health care as many Americans still seem to believe its needed for "hygiene reasons" as its pushed by doctors.

Beeloux · 24/01/2025 16:42

A paediatrician also told me how he had seen many poor babies in A&E with botched/infected circumsicuons. Foreskin is fused to the penis at that age so it’s like peeling off fingernails. An open would in contact with shite is a recipe for disaster!

Blueeyedmale · 24/01/2025 16:46

For everything except medical reasons ban it I had it done although I was only a baby when old enough to understand I asked my parents and was told it was purely for medical reasons.

The practice of doing it for religious reasons should be stopped

NoobieDoobie11 · 24/01/2025 16:46

Is it not quite popular in America and seen as more ‘hygienic’? I saw something about it before and gathered it was popular there

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