I dont disagree with any of what you've said
Yes MH services too easily opt out, however in their defence, how can you 'work' with someone who doesnt want to engage, what do you do, force yourself into their house and force therapy on them, how does that work?
So lets say they're face with this child, aged 13 or 14 or whatever. You know that his parents are worried because he obsessively collects information about killing and death and talks about it a lot. So they offer an appointment and even if he turns up, if he wont talk or wont meet with them, what do they do?
Theres no evidence of illness or disorder so what do they do?
Ive already said on other posts, we need to make a choice as a society that we start to limit peoples freedoms and take away liberty when there is no MH disorder AND they havent committed a crime
Or we accept that these things will happen.
Personally Im getting frustrated with the amount of impact anti social and disordered or disturbed people have on us as a society because we dont want to limit peoples freedoms. I getting tired of the majority needing to tolerate a minority who cause problems for the majority.