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To think we need to re-think security for children's schools and clubs following Southport

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caffelattetogo · 23/01/2025 13:57

Before I start, this is absolutely not blaming the victims or anyone who organised the holiday club in Southport. It's easy to be wise after the event.

But, I really think that we need new risk assessments for anywhere that children are, ones that look more at their safety. These monsters target children, so anywhere that children are needs to think about locked doors, video doorbell cameras, extra security measures, anything we can to keep them safer.

Mental health services are struggling and the early warning signs are being missed. We have dangerous people free to plan activities like this, and while we shouldn't need to, I think we need to be aware.

I have thought about this when planning my children's clubs following the attack, and chosen ones with better security measures.

Similarly, I'm concerned about the security at DCs' school and nursery, where doors are often left open.

I know these attacks are rare, but I would feel safer knowing that they were behind locked doors.

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helpfulperson · 23/01/2025 19:39

The logical extension of this is to ban all school trips, outdoor learning, football clubs, soft play centres, scout camps etc or anywhere groups of children gather together.

We need to start thinking more about risk benefit rather than trying to remove every small risk. And in doing so expose children to the far greater risk of the Internet.

Mollysay · 23/01/2025 19:42

helpfulperson · 23/01/2025 19:39

The logical extension of this is to ban all school trips, outdoor learning, football clubs, soft play centres, scout camps etc or anywhere groups of children gather together.

We need to start thinking more about risk benefit rather than trying to remove every small risk. And in doing so expose children to the far greater risk of the Internet.

That's not the logical extension, that's a hyperbolic reach to try and make a point.

Imo schools and clubs where there are lots of children to adults should have risk assessments anyway- OP feeling uncomfortable that her child's school doesn't seem to have any sort of protection isn't unreasonable. Risk mitigation also happens for those activities you have listed, do you think they don't?

helpfulperson · 23/01/2025 19:51

Mollysay · 23/01/2025 19:42

That's not the logical extension, that's a hyperbolic reach to try and make a point.

Imo schools and clubs where there are lots of children to adults should have risk assessments anyway- OP feeling uncomfortable that her child's school doesn't seem to have any sort of protection isn't unreasonable. Risk mitigation also happens for those activities you have listed, do you think they don't?

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I'm very well aware that they do. It's what I do for a living.

My point is that these activities require an acceptance that we can't guarantee that someone with a knife won't run onto a football pitch and start stabbing people.

I'm not against securing schools, I'm just saying we can't remove the risk altogether.

JaneBoleynViscountessRochford · 23/01/2025 20:02

Mollysay · 23/01/2025 19:42

That's not the logical extension, that's a hyperbolic reach to try and make a point.

Imo schools and clubs where there are lots of children to adults should have risk assessments anyway- OP feeling uncomfortable that her child's school doesn't seem to have any sort of protection isn't unreasonable. Risk mitigation also happens for those activities you have listed, do you think they don't?

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Exactly.

The other arguments put forward also ‘well kids are at bigger risk of x, y, z” are so reductive because it really isn’t a case of ‘well we should only focus on the biggest risk and ignore the rest’.

I’m not advocating locking children up to keep them safe from everything but children’s clubs should now add this threat to the already hefty risk assessments that they will have to carry out for H&S and insurance purposes.

Thankfully after Dunblane there didn’t seem to be the attitude of ‘meh these things are so rare so why should we bother doing anything to prevent another?’ or focus so entirely on the problems with the offender and ignore practical ways to keep schools safe. Yes there needs to be better MH support but people will always slip through the cracks.

Rachmorr57 · 23/01/2025 20:04

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Kitte321 · 23/01/2025 20:07

scatterolight · 23/01/2025 17:39

Instead of putting borders and security checkpoints around ever smaller areas of geographical space we need to put them back around our country.

The price we're currently paying for open borders and the liberal feel good factor of allowing any Tom, Dick or Harry in, is too high. I fear this is going to drag on and on for years still but the correction will come. And it will come hard.

The perpetrator was born In Cardiff. You are spreading dangerous misinformation.

There are so many things that we need to take away from this case as a society and learn from. Not least, the systemic failures of our mental health services for young people, a conversation around how someone so vulnerable accesses harmful material online, the lack of intervention when someone had been identified as being a risk and (maybe) what additional security should be implemented in settings where children frequent.

Frankly, the bollox you’re spouting doesn’t even form part of the conversation.

PigInAHouse · 23/01/2025 20:08

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The clubs my kids go already have pretty stringent security measures in place, I assume we pay for them as part of the fees.

Reugny · 23/01/2025 20:08

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The security measures that were put in place for my DD made use of the existing physical infrastructure. All it meant is that the sites which were schools and a leisure centre had suitable barriers already and it just needed sufficient adults to man them. It did mean that a minimum of three people including at lease one man had to be on the entrance/exit.

Brassbuda · 23/01/2025 20:14

Where do you draw a line with clubs ?
Secure the local football club or public park where the local kids team is playing ?

The rugby club on a Sunday ?

The cricket club in the summer ?

The events in Southport are truly horrific but very rare in UK.

Brassbuda · 23/01/2025 20:17

scatterolight · 23/01/2025 17:39

Instead of putting borders and security checkpoints around ever smaller areas of geographical space we need to put them back around our country.

The price we're currently paying for open borders and the liberal feel good factor of allowing any Tom, Dick or Harry in, is too high. I fear this is going to drag on and on for years still but the correction will come. And it will come hard.

Is that you Mr Trump ?

Mollysay · 23/01/2025 20:21

helpfulperson · 23/01/2025 19:51

I'm very well aware that they do. It's what I do for a living.

My point is that these activities require an acceptance that we can't guarantee that someone with a knife won't run onto a football pitch and start stabbing people.

I'm not against securing schools, I'm just saying we can't remove the risk altogether.

I don't think anyone (including OP) is suggesting the risk can be altogether removed, but that it should be considered to ensure clubs are 'safer'. Is that unreasonable?

Where do you draw a line with clubs ?
Secure the local football club or public park where the local kids team is playing ?

A risk asssssment and considering the risk is what OP is saying, seems reasonable? Obviously areas that can't be secured you'd hope would still have some sort of plan should something happen.

elozabet · 23/01/2025 20:21

The club I run is not secure. Without changing venue, it's not possible as it's used by multiple clubs of all ages. Putting security would be tricky and expensive.
Not sure what the answer is, but it's definitely something we discussed as a team.

Chuchoter · 23/01/2025 20:25

Private security with armed guards .

DreamW3aver · 23/01/2025 20:27

LuckysDadsHat · 23/01/2025 17:43

I pulled my child out of a summer holiday club last year after I was shocked at the security. It was a pain to arrange other childcare at the last minute but anyone could have walked in (this was before the Southport horrors) and caused a similar massacre. Also anyone could have gone in and taken a child and the staff really wouldn't have noticed.

When I signed her out I noticed on the register they hadn't completed the break snd lunch time registers either so they could have had no idea who was or wasn't in the room. I did complain to the leisure centre that evening and I have still had no response so I was right to pull her out.

I think schools are mostly secure, but holiday clubs etc.... really need to up the security.

How were you right? Nothing would have happened if your child had stayed there. Has anything happened at any club there since that day?

DinosaurMunch · 23/01/2025 20:36

These events are vanishingly rare. More kids get killed by cars every month than by this kind of attack in a decade. Why aren't we doing more to control car drivers?

TimothyIsNotAnArmardillo · 23/01/2025 20:37

Security measures are all well and good but I would imagine in most schools anyone buzzing to come in holding a package under their arm would be given entry.

missmollygreen · 23/01/2025 20:41

caffelattetogo · 23/01/2025 14:38

Absolutely, and prevention is vital, but takes time - keeping doors locked (and having secure doors in the first place) would be a step we can do now.

If the door had been locked it would just have happened somewhere else.
You just cant legislate for that kind of act.

Prevention is the ONLY way. Police and security services need better resources to follow up all these leads.

Reugny · 23/01/2025 20:44

TimothyIsNotAnArmardillo · 23/01/2025 20:37

Security measures are all well and good but I would imagine in most schools anyone buzzing to come in holding a package under their arm would be given entry.

They would because it would be thought to be a delivery.

Schools in the UK are considered targets of terrorism.

There as I've worked in office buildings were you weren't allowed personal deliveries due to the hassle involved in checking them before they gave them to you.

porridgebath · 23/01/2025 20:44

NoDragons · 23/01/2025 14:14

Many schools are still not fenced in. My local primary was only fenced in 2009 and my senior school still isn't

2009 was 16 years ago!

intrepidgiraffe · 23/01/2025 20:47

The issues that need addressing are how people become radicalised online and how radicalised people can slip through the net.

Not focusing on locking our children away. If there are people determined to cause these atrocities they will find a way.

I don't want my children growing up terrified without any freedom. Violence like this is incredibly rare.

Jk987 · 23/01/2025 20:47

Nope don't want it. They'll always be a risk but I don't want to be reminded everyday of it. Being hyper vigilant and making kids the same is conducive to anxiety.

The chances are still very minute.

My heart goes out to the Stockport victims and their families.

Showrr · 23/01/2025 20:48

peachystormy · 23/01/2025 18:39

Yes we can it's that simple keep kids locked up for the duration of a club then when parents come doors get unlocked. Or would you rather do nothing ?

Don't be so obtuse, I deliberately said what do you do on things like buses? In parks? In swimming pools? The list is endless of places that you can't lock them up in, it's the opposite of being 'that simple'?!

User32459 · 23/01/2025 20:48

I think everywhere needs round-the-clock security now.

Britain is lawless.

CharismaticMegafauna · 23/01/2025 20:54

My children’s primary school had a lot of security but there are times when anyone could have walked in, for example when it was the nativity play or school fair and the doors were open with parents queueing. Similarly, anyone can just walk into the leisure centre when there are loads of children there for gymnastics and swimming.

Gogogo12345 · 23/01/2025 20:55

MissRoseDurward · 23/01/2025 15:27

I think by law all schools/holiday clubs/childcare settings need high, locked anti-climb gates surrounding entire perimeter, plus video surveillance and an on-site security gaurd monitoring this.

And who is going to pay for it?

And for activities which take place in church halls, such as Brownies, Cubs etc, it just won't be feasible.

Hmm how would that work with places like forest schools. Where most activities are outside

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