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I put butter in the fridge, DH wants it on the counter. Who is right?

299 replies

MixedFamily · 21/01/2025 20:41

We don’t have a huge kitchen so it will always be at least 1 mt away from hob or window. Would a butter dish “protect” it enough from it? I have always assumed butter goes in the fridge but he says it doesn’t. What do others do?

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WellsAndThistles · 21/01/2025 22:17

A single day sized portion in the covered butter dish with the rest in the fridge.

Unless you get through a whole pack in one day?

bouncydog · 21/01/2025 22:17

Covered butter dish in the cupboard! In the fridge when its very hot but brought out to soften before use!

TheFatCatsWhiskers1 · 21/01/2025 22:18

It depends on how quickly you get through the butter and how warm the kitchen is. I've had the misfortune of experiencing the unique flavour of rancid butter on a couple of occasions where I'd had the butter on the counter for a week. I tend to get it out the fridge the night before now, and put it back after lunch.

Snugglemonkey · 21/01/2025 22:20

NeedthatFridayfeeling · 21/01/2025 21:18

Mines in a butter dish in a cupboard, i cut a chunk off the block, the rest lives in the fridge until the butter dish runs low.
If anyone has any butter dish recommendations?? Mine got dropped and glued back together so could use a new one

The le crueset ones are great.

Rainee123 · 21/01/2025 22:22

Proper butter in a butter dish on the side

IrisPallida · 21/01/2025 22:26

PersephoneSmith · 21/01/2025 21:50

Mayonnaise is stable at room temperature, even once it’s opened. Ketchup on the other hand very definitely needs to be refrigerated after opening, it used to have loads of preservatives added but not anymore.

Ketchup is preserved by its vinegar content, just like chutneys and pickles. I don't know what 'preservatives' you imagine it used to have.

Mayonnaise on the other hand will definitely keep its flavour better for longer by being refrigerated and it is recommended to do so.

Ciri · 21/01/2025 22:26

As others have said you need a french butter bell/crock. The butter sits upside down in a small amount of water and whether it''s the height of summer or the cold depths of winter it is always at perfect spreadable temperature. They are fab. You can get them for about £25 and it is a life changer for those who want to move away from ultra processed "spreadable butter" ( aka not real butter").

User19876536484 · 21/01/2025 22:26

Our is kept out of the fridge in a temperature controlled butter dish. It keeps it at the perfect spreadable temperature summer or winter.

BunnyLake · 21/01/2025 22:28

I put butter in the fridge in the summer (if it’s hot) and keep it out in the winter.

TriesNotToBeCynical · 21/01/2025 22:29

Newbie8918 · 21/01/2025 20:47

Does the argument change if it's spreadable? 🤣

Definitely; if it is spreadable from the fridge it isn't butter and therefore it doesn't matter what you do with it.

BlueMum16 · 21/01/2025 22:31

We have a butter dish for.the off times I buy butter. We have to keep in the cupboard the cats try to lick it.

Other spreads like margarine go in the fridge.

Fluff111 · 21/01/2025 22:33

Butter in a dish in the food cupboard. Just take out the amount you think you need that day and leave the rest in the fridge.

cardibach · 21/01/2025 22:35

IrisPallida · 21/01/2025 21:42

No.

Natural butter is enormously variable and depends on the breed of cow, what the cow was eating, what time of year, whether from the morning milk or evening milk, what percentage proteins and whey - lots and lots of other things as well.

What some companies do is make a butter using milks that NATURALLY create a butter that is NATURALLY softer and can be spread straight from the fridge.

But you did say that you don't google... Hmm.

Eh? When did I say I didn’t google?

BrightGreenTomatoes · 21/01/2025 22:37

The word 'butter' has gone weird for me now.

FindusMakesPancakes · 21/01/2025 22:38

I have an Aga. If I leave butter out it liquefies and/or goes rancid very quickly.

cardibach · 21/01/2025 22:39

FindusMakesPancakes · 21/01/2025 22:38

I have an Aga. If I leave butter out it liquefies and/or goes rancid very quickly.

I had an aga for years until I moved house. Never had that issue.

Whotenanny · 21/01/2025 22:39

Unrulyrabbit · 21/01/2025 20:44

Cut it in half, put half in each place, both happy

This is a pretty good compromise, actually.

I'm a butter dish on the side kinda woman.

coralsky · 21/01/2025 22:49

Butter bell on the side

niadainud · 21/01/2025 22:56

Newbie8918 · 21/01/2025 20:44

We always argue about where ketchup, eggs and chocolate goes 🤣.

My usual argument is 'where do you find it in the supermarket?'

For me.......butter=fridge (sorry) 🤣

That argument doesn't really work though, as with some things it's only once they've been opened that you need to refrigerate them.

DysmalRadius · 21/01/2025 23:05

Butter, tomatoes, eggs, and cucumbers - none of them should live in the fridge, yet whenever my mum comes, she will try and put at least two of the above in there!!

5moremin · 21/01/2025 23:12

do half in fridge
other half in fridge

andfinallyhereweare · 21/01/2025 23:15

Both are right- preference

boulevardofbrokendreamss · 21/01/2025 23:27

This time of year it's out of the fridge and still like a brick.

CherryFlan · 21/01/2025 23:33

Unopened packs of butter for storage - in the fridge.

Opened butter for use - on the counter.

Spreadable "butter" - in the bin.

user2848502016 · 21/01/2025 23:38

Butter dish, it's too cold to spread otherwise.
If it's very warm in summer I just put half a block at a time in the dish