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To think car seat safety groups on Facebook are absolutely mental!

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Busby88 · 18/01/2025 22:54

Not sure if many MN members are part of some of the car seat safety groups on Facebook but honestly can’t believe what a mad population they are (and I know MN can also be pretty bonkers!)

Joined for advice on high backed boosters as want to put my almost 5yo in one and all it is is comments about how they should still be rear facing. Seen comments similar aimed at people with almost six year olds looking to forward face.

I completely get the safety aspect and how much safer rear facing is, I really do. And will be rear facing my 4yo as long as possible in my car, but he’s reached the 18kg limit in the seat we have for grandparents to us and it would be nice to just be able to get some advice without just being yelled at for being unsafe.

Honestly can’t believe the negativity and unhelpfulness aimed at people who are even considering forward facing before the age of 6.

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grumpytoddler1 · 20/01/2025 19:09

heroinechic · 20/01/2025 15:18

The car seat safety group with Gabi as an admin (think her business is SimplySafeCarseats or something like that) is absolutely mental. I left after Gabi told a disabled woman (disabled due to lack of sight) that she was just choosing to get the bus and if she cared enough she could drive. The woman explained her condition and Gabi told her she'd googled it so she knew best and everyone who stuck up for the woman or even liked a comment was removed from the group.

According to the reviews on her business she calls customers bitches, threatens to go to their house and assault them (has their address from when they ordered), harasses people who complain on all of their social media accounts etc. I really cannot believe anyone buys from her!

I can't say I've been on any of these groups before or ever encountered this lady, but it sounds to me like she has other stuff going on. Perhaps she has developed an alcohol problem or something.

Twirlywurly2 · 20/01/2025 19:14

POTC · 19/01/2025 00:26

Halfords are far from being specialists in child car seats!

Yes I'd much rather trust random strangers on the internet.

Modernfamily2011 · 20/01/2025 19:34

@heroinechic - This is why I left the group! Apart from the fact that the page seems like a cult with all the little followers agreeing with every single post she makes and will abuse anyone who says differently
The page itself really isn’t helpful, they continue to shame mothers for asking a simple question!

Lumirubin · 29/01/2025 23:03

Well well well. It's all blown up now!! 😂 Apparently shes had an argument with someone on tiktok and involved police!

JandamiHash · 29/01/2025 23:07

I came to find this thread after seeing the Facebook post!!

I looked of Trust Pilot at Gabi’s reviews. My god - she’s actually really classist towards some people and basically an awful human with delusions of grandeur

JandamiHash · 29/01/2025 23:08

Lumirubin · 29/01/2025 23:03

Well well well. It's all blown up now!! 😂 Apparently shes had an argument with someone on tiktok and involved police!

The Facebook group is closed for comments while there’s a “police investigation” 🤣🤣I’m sure the police have nothing better to do than investigate someone being a bit mean to an absolute car seat nut job on social media. Sooo dramatic!!

Incakewetrust · 30/01/2025 01:11

Lumirubin · 29/01/2025 23:03

Well well well. It's all blown up now!! 😂 Apparently shes had an argument with someone on tiktok and involved police!

I haven't seen any of the comments and I really want to know what happened 😂😂

DancingOctopus · 30/01/2025 01:28

My children are old enough that rear facing seats didn't exist after the infant car seats.
I don't doubt that rear facing seats are safer. But doesn't the child get terribly bored looking at the fabric of the car seat,?
( Again, I am not saying boredom is a more important factor than safety, but am genuinely interested).

Lumirubin · 30/01/2025 08:40

DancingOctopus · 30/01/2025 01:28

My children are old enough that rear facing seats didn't exist after the infant car seats.
I don't doubt that rear facing seats are safer. But doesn't the child get terribly bored looking at the fabric of the car seat,?
( Again, I am not saying boredom is a more important factor than safety, but am genuinely interested).

Mine can see out the side window and the rear window because her seat is really high. So she doesn't get bored. She also doesn't know any different!

Yeah I 100% doubt the police are even involved 😂 she's a nutter

heroinechic · 30/01/2025 09:16

I hope they actually are involved so that they can address all the times Gabi has used customers information from booking to call them relentlessly, threaten to show up at their home, message them abuse across all their social media platforms and threaten to contact their workplace after they left a negative review!

Modernfamily2011 · 30/01/2025 17:09

@Lumirubin - What's happened with the FB group then? I came off it and can't even see the group anymore so potentially i've been blocked for some reason?! Why has it gone viral?

JandamiHash · 30/01/2025 17:37

heroinechic · 30/01/2025 09:16

I hope they actually are involved so that they can address all the times Gabi has used customers information from booking to call them relentlessly, threaten to show up at their home, message them abuse across all their social media platforms and threaten to contact their workplace after they left a negative review!

Not to mention, scam them out of money when she hasn’t sent the car seats

Busby88 · 31/01/2025 22:41

Lumirubin · 29/01/2025 23:03

Well well well. It's all blown up now!! 😂 Apparently shes had an argument with someone on tiktok and involved police!

No way!! Obviously not just me that thinks that way then, gutted I left the group now and missed all the drama

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