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Partner’s personal hygiene at my house…

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PeanutButter95 · 18/01/2025 13:38

I’ve been with my partner for a few months now but as we’ve spent more time together (overnight and days off in a row sort of thing), I’ve noticed a few things about their personal hygiene - especially whilst staying at my house.

When we stay at their house, they usually shower everyday, however I’ve noticed that when we stay at mine - they can sometimes go 2-3 days without showering at all.

I can’t really think as to why this could be, they have showered here before, have stayed here plenty of times so fairly comfortable using things in the house. I have a decent shower, a decent house, I’m fairly laid back about things being used in the house (not a neat freak or anything). It’s starting to bother me a little, especially during sex and intimate things like that, as it’s off putting for me.

AIBU and how do I broach this?

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DraigCymraeg · 01/07/2025 18:55

OP's partner doesn't even wash her face, or armpits, or genitals. Sorry but that isnt appealing.

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