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To think London is in a major decline?

642 replies

Phannyphart · 17/01/2025 12:07

I’ve lived in London (zone 2) for 10+ years. It’s always been pretty ‘real’ here but since the end of covid really everywhere just seems so, so awful.
Dog shit everywhere, spit everywhere, council owned parks closed and locked, people littering more than ever before. Get on a bus and it’s just people screaming in to a FaceTime on top volume, people blasting TikTok. Kids being stabbed in broad daylight, people shooting up heroin near the nearby primary school. The area has a lot going for it but it really seems wherever I go there is an awful decline.
Has anybody feeling the same actually moved out? Do you regret it?

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flutterby1 · 18/01/2025 13:13

Agreed. It's concerning re the numbers. Also super sewer will get a super fatburg soon 😂

EmeraldRoulette · 18/01/2025 13:23

@alseb blimey
is that a regular day at Charing Cross or had something happened?

I left London two years ago and ranted a lot on here about my specific part of it. But I didn't imagine Charing Cross had gone that way so fast.

HolyPeaches · 18/01/2025 13:36

Phannyphart · 17/01/2025 12:15

Is this country-wide then? I don’t often travel elsewhere

I live in a relatively small ex-mining town in Yorkshire.

It’s fire up here too. We’ve had murders, stabbings, shootings and gang violence (all drug related) over the past few years.

Most high-street shops are boarded up with charity shops, kebab shops, Vietnamese nail bars and Turkish barbers left. Nowhere for the elderly or disabled who can’t drive to do their food shopping. We used to have a supermarket, independent butchers, greengrocers, clothing shops, cobblers etc. all closed now.

The high-street is full of teenagers causing a nuisance on electric scooters and bikes, vandalising properties and shouting abuse at passers by.

The streets are constantly littered with dog shit and junk, takeaway boxes strewn away, sofas left in front gardens, scrap metal, fly tipping in country lanes.

A lot of kids round here are dragged up and not brought up. Small children roam the streets and their parents don’t give a fuck with havoc they cause.

There’s a lot of political division and racism. About 10 minutes away there’s a Holiday Inn that got smashed up and set on fire that was holding asylum seekers due to the “protests” and riots stemming from the awful Southport murders.

It’s fucking dire. Obviously I don’t speak for the majority or whole of Yorkshire. Just my hometown. A lot of Yorkshire is absolutely breathtakingly beautiful and the people are great. It’s just the awful ones that ruin it for the rest of us.

hampsteadmum · 18/01/2025 14:23

@Gogogo12345 Very true, but still... Hackney, Hoxton, Shoreditch, Brixton are much nicer and livelier now than they were in 1993. The Square Mile has for sure changed for the better -but my experience is as someone working there 5 days per week till Covid hit. I find that Covent Garden has improved greatly too.

I agree with the poster who said that we tend to view the past with rose tinted glasses.

The question was though if London is in decline and my answer is that no, I don't think it is. Has it changed? Of course. But in decline? No.

BoldBlueZebra · 18/01/2025 14:37

I’m a northerner who goes to london for work and quite frankly I hate it. It’s a scruffy miserable hole full of antisocial rude people who would walk past you if you were on fire

Ffjebrofw · 18/01/2025 14:43

Having said this. I most most of zone 1. I really like the big buildings and the scenery

Plantmumfailure · 18/01/2025 14:45

I'm near Reading and it's not especially lovely here either tbh. The vomit comet home from Paddington or Waterloo is probably the worst part of any evening out in London in my experience and the people on those trains are not likely to be Londoners.

I had to get the tube to Camden one evening recently to walk up to another area and it was pretty gruesome. But I think Camden was probably always horrible on a Saturday but I was just younger and didn’t notice 😂. Again though, that's less to do with londoners I think and more to do with visitors to London

BigSkies2022 · 18/01/2025 15:16

I'm not a north Londoner but is it true that Camden is where a lot of the street drinkers and drug users have been swept into from the King's Cross development (another amazing change for the better! - it's the equivalent of the central business district of Sydney being built in one corner).

28Fluctuations · 18/01/2025 15:47

I don't recognise the London the OP describes - my area has constantly improving parks, playgrounds and public spaces. Lots of building and home improvements happening (who can afford to move now?). Overall, schools are better, with strong results. But London is a constellation of very different universes, so I'm not saying the OP's view is wrong. My area has improved in many ways, but plenty have not.

Lots of the signs of decline are inevitable, though: the population is ever rising, both in London and on earth, and the pressure on space and services increases. Councils have less money and more to do.

Empty storefronts or businesses that provide services (nail bars, dry cleaners, etc) rather than goods - that's largely about internet shopping. I make well over 50% of my purchases online, and that's easily the norm now. It's little wonder that neighbourhood shops have disappeared. I am very impressed that our high street has 2 functioning book shops - and I'm sure it's because so many of us view them as charities rather than businesses - we shop there even though it's more expensive, to keep them open, like some sort of cultural relic.

Dog mess - more people own dogs, more dogs are on the streets pooing, and possibly the same % of arseholes don't clean up.

The UK is in economic decline post-Covid and post-Brexit, things are tight. There is a rise in poverty and the signs of that are evident in many many places the UK, including London.

Igavebirthtoabanana · 18/01/2025 16:57

I remember when Kings Cross was really grim. St Pancrass was in semi derelict state and boarded up. It wasn’t somewhere where you wanted to hang out unless buying drugs or finding prostitutes.

I do fondly remember going to the Church (club not the Christian kind) on Sunday afternoon, where you got five ciders and couple of water bottles for £25. It was a short walk from the Kings Cross station. I think it was in 2000.

bombastix · 18/01/2025 17:32

I think some posters are quite new to London. Kings Cross used to be wild. I would not have hung around there. Up until very recently it was full of prostitution and pimps. You had to be quite careful if you were a woman on your own.

Likewise Soho. That used to be very seedy with a lot of prostitution. Now it's mostly nice restaurants and clubs for cokeheads. A function of money.

VoodooRajin · 18/01/2025 17:44

BoldBlueZebra · 18/01/2025 14:37

I’m a northerner who goes to london for work and quite frankly I hate it. It’s a scruffy miserable hole full of antisocial rude people who would walk past you if you were on fire

Ah the friendly northerner cliche

Wintersgirl · 18/01/2025 17:46

VoodooRajin · 18/01/2025 17:44

Ah the friendly northerner cliche

I know it's such bollocks isn't it....

VoodooRajin · 18/01/2025 17:49

Gogogo12345 · 18/01/2025 11:47

Lol I don't even live in London and know Hampstead is a very posh bit. You may feel differently if you lived in Poplar

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The op was talking about london being in decline, not poplar

VoodooRajin · 18/01/2025 17:51

bombastix · 18/01/2025 11:58

It's the pattern of wealth that has changed. A lot of the centre has changed. Hackney's murder mile no longer exists. The crack houses of Brixton are now multi millions. Bethnal Green isn't full of gangs fighting each other over skin colour, and the street drinkers in Hammersmith have been mopped up and moved on. Elephant is now private towers, not public ones. Even the Walworth Road is starting to gentrify.

Whereas the suburbs are static or declining; they look really really scruffy to me. Look at Croydon 30 years ago compared to now. Horrible.

The other change is numbers. Another 3 million people. This does make much tougher to live in.

Does it? Cities absorb newcomers pretty well

SpiritOfEcstasy · 18/01/2025 17:51

I left with my DDs in 2016. They were 8 & 6 at the time, I wanted them to grow up in a safe place. I lived in what would be considered a nice neighbourhood - we were burgled. I was the victim of a bomb hoax in Trafalgar Square. I managed to thwart a mugging for my handbag. I’d just had enough … there were Met Police posters on bus stops showing someone wearing a gold chain/fancy watch/carrying a phone that said ‘He seen money, so he took it’. The message being if you’re robbed, it’s on you. I have to return to London pretty regularly…I’m just so glad I don’t live there anymore!

SereneCapybara · 18/01/2025 18:01

I don't see what you're seeing OP. DH and I went to Bethnal Green a few weeks ago to see a show in the crypt of a church. The dodgy flats opposite where I used to live had been demolished and there was a pretty park there instead. The boarded up railway arches that I used to hurry past are now a row of thriving wine bars and restaurants.

DS has recently moved into an area of South London that used to be so sketchy twenty years ago - I've visited a few times and it is all clean and quiet and very domesticated - at night the housing estates are peaceful, with just the smells of cooking or occasional people walking their dogs - no rubbish, no sign of gangs.

We went to Woolich too recently and were amazed that the area all around the docks is so smart now, with cafes and parkland walks and sculptures.

Maybe different areas rise and fall. Camden seems rough right now and I didn't feel totally safe in Shepherd's Bush recently. But I've never liked either area much anyway. Camden was always full of spaced out druggies begging.

But I have always loved East London, so am sorry to hear you say it's in decline.

littlebilliie · 18/01/2025 18:08

I was in Knightsbridge and Covent Garden's before Christmas and appalled at the rubbish and filthy streets - it looked a dump

Marchitectmummy · 18/01/2025 18:18

I think it depends where in London. Some areas are semi gentrified and those I think are undoing thr gentrification. We are in Islington and it's life as normal where we are. Some areas of Hackney are declining I would say. Although from your description it sounds like you may be in Tower Hamlets.

Evan456 · 18/01/2025 18:20

I was brought up in London but had enough 10 years ago, it’s changed so much and not fun anymore in fact I think it’s quite scary, I hate it every time I have to go to take my mother places, the people are just so unfriendly

MaddestGranny · 18/01/2025 18:22

As many have already said, it depends where you live. I'm a born Londoner. The other day I was over in NW10, where I was born & went to school. Parts of it are virtually unchanged, some parts are definitely scuzzier, other parts have gone decidedly upmarket. Now I live in west London and, like many of my friends, we think we are so lucky to live where we do. We have everything on our doorstep and excellent public transport to get anywhere we want to go.
Quite a lot can depend on your local council and how efficient/effective they are. Mine is really good, and is the ONLY council in the country which still offers free social care to residents.

bombastix · 18/01/2025 18:23

@VoodooRajin - it's the absolute numbers. London was about 5.5 million, now closer to 9. That does make it harder.

Truetoself · 18/01/2025 18:29

I live in West London and haven't experienced what you have ....

Nannylovesshopping · 18/01/2025 18:30

I love London, def not in decline, exciting, exhuberent but def expensive!

TunnocksOrDeath · 18/01/2025 18:36

London is definitely street-by-street. I used to about half way between between Kings Cross Station and Russel Square, which are about a 15 minute walk from eachother. In one direction there was a brothel three doors up, and I was walking past sleeping addicts on the shortcut to the station in the morning. In the other direction was an arthouse cinema and a load of homes I will never in my life be able to consider affording, and a few streets over again is the British Museum.

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