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Washing hands before eating

179 replies

Saurdaysarentwhattheyusedtobe · 11/01/2025 16:52

Do you do it?

Do you make your Dc do it?

OP posts:
Cremeeggtime · 11/01/2025 17:46

Letstheriveranswer · 11/01/2025 17:42

Your poopy hands will be touching the cutlery handles that the waiting staff will handle to clear it away, before they take someone else their food and handle /arrange their clean cutlery. Your poopy hands will also be opening the restaurant door, handling the salt and pepper mills, moving chairs etc.

Why would your hands be "poopy" if you wash after pooping?
In a restaurant, going to the loo to wash would also involve touching all the door handles that have been touched by other people who've just been to the toilet...

Didimum · 11/01/2025 17:47

No and no.

mathanxiety · 11/01/2025 17:48

Yes, I wash my hands after coming in from anywhere outside - train, bus, work, shops, other people's homes, church, library, putting petrol in the car, bringing out the bin, etc., and also after using the loo, plus before handling food to prepare it and before eating. I always made the DCs wash their hands before eating, after using the loo, and when they came in from outside.

Beamur · 11/01/2025 17:49

I wash my hands multiple times a day - anytime I am touching food, feeding pets, cleaning litter trays etc, using the toilet etc. i think they're pretty clean most of the time, so I probably wouldn't wash them again before eating.

whatisforteamum · 11/01/2025 17:49

As a person yes and encouraged my dcs too all the time.
As a chef I wash them
When I've got changed
After touching raw meat or fish
After putting deliveries away
After to loo in the loo area then when I come back into the kitchen
When I've touched my phone.
When I get home off the bus before I get a drink.
So much food poisoning or illness is caused by poor hand hygiene.

mathanxiety · 11/01/2025 17:49

MissDeborah · 11/01/2025 17:18

Always and throughout the day, if I come in etc
We have a massive outbreak of flu, RSV,HMPN and Noro at the moment with 25% of the population ill.
Hospitals are at breaking point.
Yes they are spread by droplets but Noro is mainly faecal oral route and you can transfer respiratory viruses by touch.
Wash your hands!!!

Hear hear!

picturethispatsy · 11/01/2025 17:50

Yes and yes. Always. It’s just basic hygiene.

I believe it’s the single most effective thing we can do to reduce spread of bugs.

Shocked to be honest by the amount of people saying no 🫠

Isthisexpected · 11/01/2025 17:51

Absolutely. We wash hands when we get home and again before eating. Basic food hygiene surely?

mathanxiety · 11/01/2025 17:51
  • and always after preparing food and dealing with Dcat's litter box.
whatisforteamum · 11/01/2025 17:52

Also wash them before food handling at home as I have cats and have definitely stroked them.😂😂

Neveranynamesleft · 11/01/2025 17:52

Yes. Am very aware that other people don't and we always wash hands when coming home after being out / after work / shopping. Bugs and germs lurk everywhere and anywhere, I would rather take a few minutes washing my hands than possibly being ill from something I picked up somewhere.

JLou08 · 11/01/2025 17:52

Depends what I'm doing. I wash them before preparing food and if handling raw meat again after I've done that so I wouldn't wash them again after serving food. If I went out to eat I wouldn't go to the bathroom to wash my hands unless I needed to use the toilet.

Dotto · 11/01/2025 17:53

Yes, because I'm not a fucking idiot with zero clue about food and hand hygiene

EvelynBeatrice · 11/01/2025 17:54

Yes and all members of household wash their hands when they’ve been out on coming into the home ( especially after public transport).

Greywarden · 11/01/2025 17:56

I'm really curious about this thread. I don't wash my hands before eating and never have. I wash them when I've used the toilet, changed a nappy, when I first come in from work or from an activity where my hands probably got dirty, and before starting to cook. Never specifically before meals.

I'd love to know what the handwashing fans expect when hosting people for dinner. Do you all expect guests to take it in turns in the bathroom before the meal is served? Do you give a 10 minute warning for this purpose? What about if you have casual guests round for crisps? What about when you go to a restaurant to eat? Genuinely would love to know what you do.

I also have the suspicion that the existence of mobile phones and indeed of door handles and taps makes most handwashing pointless, eg you go to the toilet, turn the tap on with hands which have touched toilet paper, toilet flusher etc, clean hands, turn tap off so reconnect with germs you had on your hands before, open door with handle you touched when entering bathroom in the first place and which has probably been touched by lots of people who previously used the toilet without washing their hands... touch your own phone screen which you previously touched with your own unwashed hands... So unless there's a specific mess to clean off, it all seems like an empty superstitious ritual at this point.

Gardenservant · 11/01/2025 17:56

Lovelysummerdays · 11/01/2025 17:05

I do at home but thinking about it I don’t tend to wash hands before I eat when out and about. So if I went to a restaurant I wouldn’t nip off to loo before I ate to wash.

I wish restaurants here were like Japan where they give you a hot wet cloth to clean your hands before serving the food.

Gorgeousfeet · 11/01/2025 17:56

LauraNorda · 11/01/2025 16:59

I don't wash my hands except after doing a poo.

That’s Mank.

And precisely one of the reasons why I don’t buy homemade cakes from the schools PTA cake sale.

I admire your honesty though.

RhaenysRocks · 11/01/2025 17:57

No and no. Between us me and DC have had about 3 instances of stomach upset in 15 years and once past babyhood I don't think any of us have ever been sick. (As in vomiting). Very occasional colds, COVID X1 each back in 2020.

MadameCholetsDirtySecret · 11/01/2025 17:57

No wonder norovirus spreads so quickly with the hand washing resistant brigade.

Wash your bloody hands.

Gorgeousfeet · 11/01/2025 17:57

MadameCholetsDirtySecret · 11/01/2025 17:57

No wonder norovirus spreads so quickly with the hand washing resistant brigade.

Wash your bloody hands.

Yep 👍

Gorgeousfeet · 11/01/2025 17:59

RhaenysRocks · 11/01/2025 17:57

No and no. Between us me and DC have had about 3 instances of stomach upset in 15 years and once past babyhood I don't think any of us have ever been sick. (As in vomiting). Very occasional colds, COVID X1 each back in 2020.

You are being boastful for being very unhygienic 🤢🤢🤢🤢

RockingLock · 11/01/2025 18:00

Greywarden · 11/01/2025 17:56

I'm really curious about this thread. I don't wash my hands before eating and never have. I wash them when I've used the toilet, changed a nappy, when I first come in from work or from an activity where my hands probably got dirty, and before starting to cook. Never specifically before meals.

I'd love to know what the handwashing fans expect when hosting people for dinner. Do you all expect guests to take it in turns in the bathroom before the meal is served? Do you give a 10 minute warning for this purpose? What about if you have casual guests round for crisps? What about when you go to a restaurant to eat? Genuinely would love to know what you do.

I also have the suspicion that the existence of mobile phones and indeed of door handles and taps makes most handwashing pointless, eg you go to the toilet, turn the tap on with hands which have touched toilet paper, toilet flusher etc, clean hands, turn tap off so reconnect with germs you had on your hands before, open door with handle you touched when entering bathroom in the first place and which has probably been touched by lots of people who previously used the toilet without washing their hands... touch your own phone screen which you previously touched with your own unwashed hands... So unless there's a specific mess to clean off, it all seems like an empty superstitious ritual at this point.

I don’t insist adult guests wash their hands but on play dates I tell the children to. Whether that’s a bag of crisps or a full meal.

I always wash my hands in restaurants, other peoples homes, out at the park at a picnic… always.

I use tissue or my sleeve to open door handles and the like due to the amount of filthy people out there who don’t want their hands.

I was in a public bathroom a couple of weeks ago and a lady pretended to run her fingertips under the water but no soap. Vile.

I was also in a supermarket once where a woman moved a pack of raw chicken breasts which had split open, wiped her hands on a tissue in her pocket and continued on her merry way, no doubt spreading salmonella around the shop.

people are disgusting therefore I am anal about my own cleanliness and that of my family’s.

WonderingWanda · 11/01/2025 18:00

Ew, some of the responses on here are making my skin crawl. I admit I am a bit compulsive about handwashing, I always have been so I known I am the other extreme and wash my hands for all sorts of reasons that other people wouldn't. However, it's just sensible to give your hands a wash if you are preparing food or eating and your hands might touch the food. And you should definitely wash them after touching a toilet or the bin.

NoNoNona · 11/01/2025 18:01

"Time to wash your hands before - lunch, supper etc." is the call to the table and generally means there are 5 to 10 minutes before food.
I don't do this before breakfast on the assumption that most will have got up and had a shower beforehand.

Newuser75 · 11/01/2025 18:03

RhaenysRocks · 11/01/2025 17:57

No and no. Between us me and DC have had about 3 instances of stomach upset in 15 years and once past babyhood I don't think any of us have ever been sick. (As in vomiting). Very occasional colds, COVID X1 each back in 2020.

Yes, we are the same. I can count on one hand the number of sickness bugs my kids have had.
We wash hands when coming in from outside with the animals, when the kids have been outside playing, after going to the toilet but no, not specifically before eating.
Generally you eat with cutlery anyway