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Happy Elon Musk calling out govt over grooming gang PT 2

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Chainzreaction · 03/01/2025 14:20

Pt 2 can commence!

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Chainzreaction · 04/01/2025 09:22

schmeler · 04/01/2025 09:15

At present it is a crime only for FGM if you do not report. We need a complete shift in attitudes as a society and a whole shift in education. We need to start with the definition of including rape as a word in there and removing the part about exchanging things for sex. Nope a child doesn't have sex in exchange for things. The child is raped and then given items. Exchange suggests it is reciprocal.

I also think that if someone knows something is going on and they report it (as I have done in the past and been told no we will not act) then there should be some way to take legal action to ensure they do as professionals often report but are told no.

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Thanks. I agree with you completely & I think Labour need to do a complete overhaul of the existing laws.
I have been reading posts online of those who reported what they knew & were shut down when they reported. New laws need to be introduced here, failure to intervene with information received from colleagues must be treated as complicit with just consequences.

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schmeler · 04/01/2025 09:26

Chainzreaction · 04/01/2025 09:22

Thanks. I agree with you completely & I think Labour need to do a complete overhaul of the existing laws.
I have been reading posts online of those who reported what they knew & were shut down when they reported. New laws need to be introduced here, failure to intervene with information received from colleagues must be treated as complicit with just consequences.

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Yup completely agree and we also need to remove the quota on rape cases. The CPS have admitted there is a quota to fudge rape case data and I have seen this first hand of rape cases being NFA'd when there is solid evidence on purpose and using such victim blaming attitudes (if they get a custodial sentence it is your fault) etc. That needs to change too as without the means to prosecute then they will not be held to account.

itsgettingweird · 04/01/2025 09:26

The victims want a new enquiry!!!!

A victim has expressed they'd support another enquiry.

I don't know why you keep typing sentences stating incorrect information as fact 🙄🤦‍♀️

AncientAndModern1 · 04/01/2025 09:29

More inquiries, more reports just kick the can further down the line. They take years and cost millions. What’s needed is to fully implement recommendations already made. This is from the Mail so hardly a ‘leftie’ source, saying that following recommendations can change things https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/c849100101eo.amp

Tom Crowther wearing a dark suit and tie, looking into the camera while delivering a video statement earlier in the inquiry

Telford now 'admirable model' in tackling child sex abuse - inquiry chair - BBC News

An inquiry into child sex crimes in Telford finds organisations either met or exceeded expectations.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/c849100101eo.amp

BarkPench · 04/01/2025 09:30

GiveMeSpanakopita · 04/01/2025 07:24

Whilst I know there's been an inquiry and the Jay Report, I'm upset about this issue because it hasn't had the same public scrutiny as other scandals have.

The Windrush, Hillsborough, Stop & Search, Stephen Lawrence, Post Office and Savile scandals have all had extremely high profile and lengthy public scrutiny and conversations in the media and public life.

By contrast, the Rape Gangs have been going on since the 1970s, primarily afflicting white and Sikh girls, taking place primarily in poor areas with Labour Councils, is STILL going on and has been relatively speaking swept under the rug due to concerns about community cohesion.

It's a central tenet of English and Welsh law, first enshrined in Magna Carta and updated countless times since, that Justice must be transparently done 'without fear nor favour' of politics. In this case, justice HAS taken second place to politics (ie multicultural community cohesion).

There are also strong themes of classism and misogyny. These girls were and are seen as less deserving of justice because they were/are poor and vulnerable.

There are also themes of corruption. In some of the areas where this was going on, the perpetrators had relatives and friends on local Councils (mostly Labour led Councils). Women who tried to blow the whistle were sacked, silenced or in one case sent on a diversity course.

I say this as an immigrant and someone who had a friend who was a victim of a Rape Gang in the 1990s. I'm glad this scandal is now surfacing on an international level. We need a long, transparent and fearless public conversation about it. NOW.

Agreed but no good can come of Elon Misk trying to stir the pot like this. We need the government to step up but unaccountable zillionaires who love power for its own sake and offer no public service need to fuck off.
A stopped clock has happened to tell the right time twice a day and I want to support women and girls affected by organised sexual abuse as would any decent human but I really want Musk to piss off out of it.

Chainzreaction · 04/01/2025 09:30

schmeler · 04/01/2025 09:26

Yup completely agree and we also need to remove the quota on rape cases. The CPS have admitted there is a quota to fudge rape case data and I have seen this first hand of rape cases being NFA'd when there is solid evidence on purpose and using such victim blaming attitudes (if they get a custodial sentence it is your fault) etc. That needs to change too as without the means to prosecute then they will not be held to account.

Let's see what Labour do. Anything less than a complete overhaul of our legislation & definitions is an utter failure.

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itsgettingweird · 04/01/2025 09:32

Advent** I went to a secure children's home as part of my employment once. It had originally housed those imprisoned too but is solely secure housing now.
I was told it mainly housed girls who had been victims of CSE and needed to be removed and secured for their own protection.

I was not prepared for looking at these girls who were simply children.

OP. I absolutely want a solution to this. But Musk is not aiming for that - he is using Twitter to stoke hatred and division and that will only detract from work on the ground and put these girls in even more danger.

We need to stop pussy footing around the political arguments occurring from both sides on this and allow the recommendations for the previous 7year enquiry be put to work.

that's what Labour are doing and intending - so people need to stop detracting from that and taking the attention away from what's being done to argue with a billionaire twat with his own agenda from elsewhere.

BIossomtoes · 04/01/2025 09:33

Chainzreaction · 04/01/2025 09:30

Let's see what Labour do. Anything less than a complete overhaul of our legislation & definitions is an utter failure.

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Not happening. The country’s broke and there are hundreds of thousands of kids living in poverty.

BarkPench · 04/01/2025 09:36

This issue is also quite related to tackling the problem of kids living in poverty. It’s about the state feeling that some kids are expendable basically. That some adults are untouchable. What happened to ‘Every Child Matters’?

Chainzreaction · 04/01/2025 09:41

BIossomtoes · 04/01/2025 09:33

Not happening. The country’s broke and there are hundreds of thousands of kids living in poverty.

But unless this happens grooming gangs will continue to operate & professionals will still continue to turn a blind eye.
The ball is in Labours court now.

The country needs to tackle all it's grave social issues, child poverty is absolutely heartbreaking & so much more needs to be done.

However tamping out grooming gangs is vital to child protection. The country is paying thousands of individuals to safeguard children, should we & govt not be demanding they do their jobs correctly & govt have legislation in place to prosecute for failure to safeguard?

You can't put one horrendous issue before another. They need to be targeted equally. We need to ensure professionals are doing the jobs they are paid to do. That alone would save millions of pounds.

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Llttledrummergirl · 04/01/2025 09:42

Chainzreaction · 04/01/2025 09:01

It's not a turn around. I'm quoting what Sanmy Woodhouse wants.
I want to see the professionals who failed to safeguard these women investigates, every single one. A lot could have been done at the time but they failed to act.
This needs to revisited through whatever type of investigation local or national with those who protected the rapists over the vulnerable young women facing the consequences of their inactions

So let me get this straight:

You don't agree with what Jess Phillips said and think she should be condemned.

You are quoting what Sammy Woodhouse wants and saying this is what we should do.

Sammy Woodhouse agrees that Jess Phillips is right in what she said we should do- council led enquiries.

You say you are only quoting Sammy Woodhouse. So does that mean that you don't agree with her and Jess Phillips?

Efacsen · 04/01/2025 09:43

What happened to ‘Every Child Matters’? 2003

Much has happened since 2003 - a lot of which has had a very negative impact on Childrens Services - the loss of Surestart alone has been a tragedy

Re-building that will take time and money - lots of it

itsgettingweird · 04/01/2025 09:46

Chainzreaction · 04/01/2025 00:07

I wholeheartedly back victim Sammy Woodhouse who has called for action against the professionals who failed to stop the abuse .
How will this be done? Reopen investigation, new investigation or a separate criminal investigation?

She is saying (as I read it) we've had report after report after report.

We now need action.

It doesn't say we need another report - it actually hints towards another report being useless without anyone acting on them.

marmaladeandpeanutbutter · 04/01/2025 09:47

Elon Musk actively supports a government that refuses to give free healthcare to its people, that locks up children in cages on borders (with throwaway lines such as "I really don't care , do you?), and whose president claims to like to "grab em by the pussy", meaning women. And he has the raw nerve to criticise the government in the uk? Laughable. We shouldn't take him seriously or debate with him, as a nation.

Their party, and Reform, are supporters of the far right. They are populists, and don't themselves believe half of what they say. They are master manipulators of crowds. Don't believe for a moment that any citizen would be better off under them, in the longer term. Look to their heroes everywhere, such as Putin, who Trump has long been so fond of meeting.

itsgettingweird · 04/01/2025 09:49

Sammy just now on X has called for every council to launch an independent enquiry.

Correct me of wrong but that is exactly what JP said needs to happen in Oldham - and you've repeatedly said that isn't good enough. You wanted a full national inquiry but do now seem to accept one has already happened.

I might add it was concluded in 2022 when the minister for safeguarding WAG could have acted. I wonder why Badenoch didn't act then as she's so vocal about inaction now?

AncientAndModern1 · 04/01/2025 09:50

Musk is open about his endgame, which is to see Farage as leader of a Reform Government. If you think that will make life better for girls and women or anyone except the wealthy elite, I’ve got a bridge to sell you.

PandoraSox · 04/01/2025 09:51

itsgettingweird · 04/01/2025 09:49

Sammy just now on X has called for every council to launch an independent enquiry.

Correct me of wrong but that is exactly what JP said needs to happen in Oldham - and you've repeatedly said that isn't good enough. You wanted a full national inquiry but do now seem to accept one has already happened.

I might add it was concluded in 2022 when the minister for safeguarding WAG could have acted. I wonder why Badenoch didn't act then as she's so vocal about inaction now?

Yep. That is exactly what she said in her letter. The one that prompted Musk to attack her.

Happy Elon Musk calling out govt over grooming gang PT 2
Chainzreaction · 04/01/2025 09:52

itsgettingweird · 04/01/2025 09:46

She is saying (as I read it) we've had report after report after report.

We now need action.

It doesn't say we need another report - it actually hints towards another report being useless without anyone acting on them.

Sammy on her twitter has also called for every single council to undertake independent inquiries.

Happy Elon Musk calling out govt over grooming gang PT 2
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Chainzreaction · 04/01/2025 09:54

PandoraSox · 04/01/2025 09:51

Yep. That is exactly what she said in her letter. The one that prompted Musk to attack her.

Has JP called for a national enquiry in every single council? I believe it's just Oldham at the moment?

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PandoraSox · 04/01/2025 09:55

So Sammy and Phillips are in agreement that the way forward is for inquiries to be commissioned at a local level.

Chainzreaction · 04/01/2025 09:56

itsgettingweird · 04/01/2025 09:49

Sammy just now on X has called for every council to launch an independent enquiry.

Correct me of wrong but that is exactly what JP said needs to happen in Oldham - and you've repeatedly said that isn't good enough. You wanted a full national inquiry but do now seem to accept one has already happened.

I might add it was concluded in 2022 when the minister for safeguarding WAG could have acted. I wonder why Badenoch didn't act then as she's so vocal about inaction now?

Sammy has called for an investigation into every single council in the UK, JP has just mentioned Oldham. That's a big difference!

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BarkPench · 04/01/2025 09:56

itsgettingweird · 04/01/2025 09:49

Sammy just now on X has called for every council to launch an independent enquiry.

Correct me of wrong but that is exactly what JP said needs to happen in Oldham - and you've repeatedly said that isn't good enough. You wanted a full national inquiry but do now seem to accept one has already happened.

I might add it was concluded in 2022 when the minister for safeguarding WAG could have acted. I wonder why Badenoch didn't act then as she's so vocal about inaction now?

Badenoch is a useless hypocrite who behaves like the political party she leads haven’t just been in government for 14 years

And haven’t actively dismantled the machinery of local government through savage cuts over that time leading to local corruption and ineptitude

curious79 · 04/01/2025 09:56

Elon Musk evidently hates Starmer but then that’s likely to be because he will now stuff about Starmer that’s starting to leak out, despite the injunctions.

PandoraSox · 04/01/2025 09:57

Chainzreaction · 04/01/2025 09:56

Sammy has called for an investigation into every single council in the UK, JP has just mentioned Oldham. That's a big difference!

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That is because the letter Phillips was replying to was specifically about Oldham.

Efacsen · 04/01/2025 09:58

Chainzreaction · 04/01/2025 09:52

Sammy on her twitter has also called for every single council to undertake independent inquiries.

Where do you expect the money to come from to do that?

Which taxes do you want to raise to fund it?

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