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AIBU to think husband ruined NYE?

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Chummychoos · 01/01/2025 06:27

Last night for the first time ever we went out to celebrate NYE.
We bought tickets to an event, along with a couple of friends, and were really looking spending NYE at a party altogether but I feel like my husband ruined the night.
Both my husband and my friend’s husband mixed their alcoholic drinks and ended up in a bit of a state. However while her husband quietly retreated to a corner of the room mine was on the dance floor bumping into people, stumbling about and getting progressively more and more irritating and embarrassing as the night went on.
We left promptly after midnight as most of us were no longer enjoying ourselves, plus I felt like I had to keep a constant eye on what my husband was doing to make sure he wasn’t bothering/falling into other guests etc but I am really annoyed with him and feel that he ruined what should have been a good night out.
I don’t even want to talk to him today, although I imagine he isn’t going to wake up feeling too bright so hopefully won’t try to talk to me, but I am also wondering if I am BU to be so annoyed particularly because I didn’t drink alcohol (driving) so my perception will be somewhat different

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Deeperthantheocean · 02/01/2025 20:36

Oh there have been times one of us has got more wasted than the other. Alcohol, not usual behaviour, telling off then let it go and laugh about it after.

These things happen, especially in the older days when most people were totally pissed anyway so wouldn't notice let alone care. Xx

Deeperthantheocean · 02/01/2025 20:39

Cornflakes123 · 01/01/2025 07:55

I’m sure he will have The Fear today if he is not used to drinking which will be punishment enough. It doesn’t sound like he did anything that bad.. just forget about it and try and have a good New Year’s Day.

Absolutely, not like he's like this every weekend. He will be feeling it next day. Happens to us all, that one drink too many can topple you over and send you head first into a fence with severe bruising for the next week! Xx

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