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AIBU to think that Bridget Phillipson is exaggerating the level of middle-class support for VAT on school fees?

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TepidWatersOfManagedDecline · 29/12/2024 14:00

Bridget Phillipson has been quoted as saying that the policy is supported by "middle-class parents in good professional jobs with housing costs who just can't afford that level of fee" and want "brilliant state schools". www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/c86wd1y7v2xo

Is this true, in your experience? Most middle-class parents with professional jobs who I’ve discussed this with think that it’s a spiteful policy (including those who don’t use the independent sector).

AIBU to think that Bridget Phillipson is exaggerating the level of support for the policy?

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M0rnington · 30/12/2024 16:12

BrightYellowTrain · 30/12/2024 16:10

Of course the parent isn’t making the final decision on section I of EHCPs. That doesn’t change the fact independent placements can and are named in EHCPs and parents can pursue that regardless of whether others think they can or not.

Nobody is saying they can’t. It’s the likelihood of them a ) getting an EHCP and b) getting a named private school put on it that is being discussed.

BlackChunkyBoots · 30/12/2024 16:14

I support taxing VAT on school fees. Whether it actually improves my local state schools remains to be seen.

MrsMurphyIWish · 30/12/2024 16:16

Sherrystrull · 30/12/2024 16:07

In reality, the head teacher won't engage and certainly won't be having three meetings a week with you. You won't get past the office staff. Also, if you try and 'make' anyone teach extra Maths you will be severely disappointed. The school staff will decide who gets extra support and it isn't allocated due to parents asking for it.

State schools are very good at dividing their very limited resources where they are needed. We've been doing it for many years. Sharp elbows don't generally work in state schools but it's been eye opening ready your post and listening to your assumptions about how state schools staff can be bullied into doing what you want.

Agree with this from the position of a teacher and a parent of a child with ASD.

BrightYellowTrain · 30/12/2024 16:16

Mirabai · 30/12/2024 16:08

Which no-one has said either.

My position is that extra time is rather a one size fits all adjustment - I’m not sure that it’s that helpful in some cases, and there may be other more beneficial adjustments that aren’t offered. There may also be many who might qualify or benefit from extra time who don’t get it. I responded to a poster who commented “I feel like all exams should allow enough time to be answered properly for everyone” which I rather agree with.

Edited

I’m not convinced that extra time really makes a material difference to exam performance other than reducing stress.

Is this not you saying you don’t think extra time is beneficial?

BrightYellowTrain · 30/12/2024 16:17

NoWordForFluffy · 30/12/2024 16:11

Bearing in mind they wouldn't apply for one until their attendance stats were affected, that doesn't surprise me.

I still hope he can achieve his full potential with the extra support though.

Oh, I hope that too.

Juliagreeneyes · 30/12/2024 16:19

Sherrystrull · 30/12/2024 16:07

In reality, the head teacher won't engage and certainly won't be having three meetings a week with you. You won't get past the office staff. Also, if you try and 'make' anyone teach extra Maths you will be severely disappointed. The school staff will decide who gets extra support and it isn't allocated due to parents asking for it.

State schools are very good at dividing their very limited resources where they are needed. We've been doing it for many years. Sharp elbows don't generally work in state schools but it's been eye opening ready your post and listening to your assumptions about how state schools staff can be bullied into doing what you want.

You think? Then why is Bridget Phillipson saying that the pushy middle class parents are going to make the state system better if they won’t get past the door? Is she lying?

You think you have to bully anyone? Do the teachers prefer to teach the lunchtime extra maths to the kid who’s top of the year, or do crowd control? The music teacher doesn’t want to give extra time to the kid who’s in every concert and plays three instruments to grade 8? The teachers shun the kid who turns up every day and does every homework and comes top of the class? The school doesn’t want to give resources to its top pupils to get into Oxbridge so they can look better to prospective parents? (Well, my comp didn’t much; but these days all state schools keep a sharp eye on publicising their grades and outcomes to attract parents.) You think schools don’t favour the high-achieving kids of the pushy middle classes? You think the kids who look like they are going to get 8s and 9s don’t get extra to make sure they do? You think they aren’t the ones who schools put on Oxbridge courses to get more into Oxbridge? (They are: I see them when I teach Oxbridge access courses.) If not, then what’s the government doing claiming that that’s the reason for the policy?

Could it be that the rationale behind the VAT policy is incoherent nonsense? Either the pushy middle class parents have an effect or they don’t. Which is it? (And could it be that they might have exactly the opposite effect to what the government claim?)

BrightYellowTrain · 30/12/2024 16:19

M0rnington · 30/12/2024 16:12

Nobody is saying they can’t. It’s the likelihood of them a ) getting an EHCP and b) getting a named private school put on it that is being discussed.

Edited

Actually, if you read the thread and other similar threads, people have said it isn’t possible. It is.

M0rnington · 30/12/2024 16:21

Juliagreeneyes · 30/12/2024 15:59

Fundamentally, though, this rhetoric about how pushy middle class parents would make the state sector better has been around since the sixties, and it hasn’t happened yet!

Don’t posters who seem to believe this understand what they’re asking for?

On a SEN level, more children with diagnosed or undiagnosed SEN moving back into state just puts more pressure on already limited resources. And who gets those resources when the pushy middle class parents are in the school? The kids whose parents don’t care, or the kids whose parents are pushy and middle class?

In terms of the pushy middle classes, at the moment DD has got a scholarship and bursary and I can relax knowing that at least her school can occupy her with Latin and music and extra maths and so on. What happens if we have to put her back into state (which we may well have to now?)

Well, I can tell you that I’ll be down there at the head’s office a couple of times a week; and I’ll be pushing for my kid to get all the resources going spare - from making them teach her extra maths, to hoovering up all the extension funding and the remaining external funding for Oxbridge programmes and extra music and all the spaces she can get in lunchtime clubs, and so on and so on. And what happens is my kid gets those resources rather than kids whose parents aren’t pushy. And I’ll be putting the 8k we currently spend on her school into finding private Latin teaching and so on (VAT free!)

Don’t you understand that all those lovely pushy parents will be hoovering up the remaining resources in the state schools instead of your kid? And taking up the teachers’ time instead of them teaching your kid? And that the prizes and music awards and Head Student spots and top references for universities are going to their kid and not your kid or any of the other kids without the pushy parents? I can attest to this first hand, as I went to a big state comp in the 90s in a deprived area of the north with no local private schools, and that’s exactly what happened.

What it doesn’t do is mean that more pushy middle class parents in state schools suddenly makes them provide Latin for all or hire better teachers or whatever. It just means they hoover up everything on offer in the state system too. Anyone who believes this guff is a gullible fool with no real experience of how education works.

Wow the arrogance in your post.

😂Good luck, um you don’t get to tell schools where they put their resources.

Juliagreeneyes · 30/12/2024 16:22

M0rnington · 30/12/2024 16:21

Wow the arrogance in your post.

😂Good luck, um you don’t get to tell schools where they put their resources.

Could it be that confronted with the likely actual outcome of this VAT policy, you don’t actually really like it at all?

Memyselfmilly · 30/12/2024 16:22

M0rnington · 30/12/2024 16:21

Wow the arrogance in your post.

😂Good luck, um you don’t get to tell schools where they put their resources.

I would love to be a fly on that particular walll 😂

M0rnington · 30/12/2024 16:23

BrightYellowTrain · 30/12/2024 16:19

Actually, if you read the thread and other similar threads, people have said it isn’t possible. It is.

I expect people have said parents don’t get to march in and demand an EHCP, that they’re hard to get and even harder is getting a private school named on it. Just because you want it doesn’t mean it’s likely.

M0rnington · 30/12/2024 16:23

Memyselfmilly · 30/12/2024 16:22

I would love to be a fly on that particular walll 😂

Me too!🤣

BrightYellowTrain · 30/12/2024 16:24

M0rnington · 30/12/2024 16:23

I expect people have said parents don’t get to march in and demand an EHCP, that they’re hard to get and even harder is getting a private school named on it. Just because you want it doesn’t mean it’s likely.

It isn’t about wants.

No, some people think independent, especially independent mainstream schools, can’t or won’t be named in an EHCP. That is not true.

M0rnington · 30/12/2024 16:25

BrightYellowTrain · 30/12/2024 16:24

It isn’t about wants.

No, some people think independent, especially independent mainstream schools, can’t or won’t be named in an EHCP. That is not true.

They can be but it’s rare- for good reasons.

Sherrystrull · 30/12/2024 16:30

@Juliagreeneyes

I give my absolute all to all my class. However in determining who to give extra tuition to, That's usually children who are struggling. I run extra intervention to build confidence in children who struggle with Maths or who need extra reading practice. It can involve crowd control but that's part of my job and I do the best I can.

That's what happens in state schools. All my colleagues are the same and it's driven by our SLT wanting the best possible outcomes for all children.

Are you saying private school teachers ignore those children and focus sorely on high achievers? That's appalling.

Juliagreeneyes · 30/12/2024 16:32

Memyselfmilly · 30/12/2024 16:22

I would love to be a fly on that particular walll 😂

As a school governor with lots of experience in education and education policy, with a child testing in the top academic centile, I don’t have to bully anyone! Do you think the local state school wouldn’t be delighted to have her?

I’m happy to pay for her to have access to academic subjects that if she went to a state school they’d have to divert resources to at the expense of other, less advantaged kids. I’d rather she was in state education. I’m actually quite gutted at having to send her private. I’d massively prefer good education for all in the state sector.

What I don’t like is a counterproductive and dishonest policy that pretends it’s doing something it isn’t, uses poorly thought through rhetoric to justify it, and will ultimately end up not doing what it claims — all instead of fair taxation to raise standards across the education sector overall.

Saying the pushy middle classes are going to drive up standards in the local state school is the stated rationale of this policy by Labour. So does it work or not? And how are the pushy parents going to improve the school for kids that aren’t theirs? Or are they going to in practice just make sure their kids get the resources there too? Do tell!

RhaenysRocks · 30/12/2024 16:33

TheDeftHare · 30/12/2024 14:03

I'm not sure how to be any clearer.

Oxbridge treats the tutorial system as a sacred cow vital to students' success. It isn't, it's one (expensive) way of doing things that is not necessary for good outcomes given the cohort.

Private schools treat high teacher levels as a sacred cow vital to children's success. They aren't, it's one (expensive) way of doing things that is not necessary for good outcomes given the cohort.

In both scenarios, the institution believes that an expensive age-old tradition (tutorials, lots of staff) is what secures them good outcomes; in fact, it's just good cohorts plus good basics.

Why are you assuming that PS hall have "good intakes"? They are not all selective by any means. What they do have is usually engaged and well educated parents that are attracted by the small classes and specialist staff. The fact that you think specialist subject teachers are "irrelevant fripperies" says a lot 🙄

BrightYellowTrain · 30/12/2024 16:34

M0rnington · 30/12/2024 16:25

They can be but it’s rare- for good reasons.

It isn’t as rare as you are thinking. The most recent government EHCP statistics show 5.7% of DC with EHCPs attend independent schools.

Gasp0deTheW0nderD0g · 30/12/2024 16:35

Bushmillsbabe · 30/12/2024 15:19

I know. All this talk of 'he will survive' 'she will cope' 'they will manage'. School isn't (or shouldn't be) and endurance event children have to get through, it should be a positive experience which aims to meet each child's individual needs, whether they have a SEN, are exceptionally bright, or brilliant at sport or music.

There is so much push for 'equality' that we lose sight of children's individual needs and personalities in a one size fits all approach. No wonder there is such an increase in mental health struggles in young people.

My aspirations for my children are much higher than survive or manage, i hope that they will 'thrive' 'learn' 'grow' 'enjoy' 'reach their full potential' and will do anything in my power to make that happen, within the resources we have.

Well said.

MrsMurphyIWish · 30/12/2024 16:36

Juliagreeneyes · 30/12/2024 16:19

You think? Then why is Bridget Phillipson saying that the pushy middle class parents are going to make the state system better if they won’t get past the door? Is she lying?

You think you have to bully anyone? Do the teachers prefer to teach the lunchtime extra maths to the kid who’s top of the year, or do crowd control? The music teacher doesn’t want to give extra time to the kid who’s in every concert and plays three instruments to grade 8? The teachers shun the kid who turns up every day and does every homework and comes top of the class? The school doesn’t want to give resources to its top pupils to get into Oxbridge so they can look better to prospective parents? (Well, my comp didn’t much; but these days all state schools keep a sharp eye on publicising their grades and outcomes to attract parents.) You think schools don’t favour the high-achieving kids of the pushy middle classes? You think the kids who look like they are going to get 8s and 9s don’t get extra to make sure they do? You think they aren’t the ones who schools put on Oxbridge courses to get more into Oxbridge? (They are: I see them when I teach Oxbridge access courses.) If not, then what’s the government doing claiming that that’s the reason for the policy?

Could it be that the rationale behind the VAT policy is incoherent nonsense? Either the pushy middle class parents have an effect or they don’t. Which is it? (And could it be that they might have exactly the opposite effect to what the government claim?)

You sound very contemptuous of teachers. As one myself, I have faith in the education my autistic child is provided with.

Mirabai · 30/12/2024 16:36

BrightYellowTrain · 30/12/2024 16:16

I’m not convinced that extra time really makes a material difference to exam performance other than reducing stress.

Is this not you saying you don’t think extra time is beneficial?

That’s me saying I’m not sure it makes a big difference to exam performance. I’m saying it can make them less stressful - that’s beneficial, but does extra time materially raise grades - there’s little data on that. Feedback from students is mixed - some felt they didn’t need it, some that it didn’t help, many that it was not fair.

LetItGo99 · 30/12/2024 16:37

Juliagreeneyes · 30/12/2024 16:22

Could it be that confronted with the likely actual outcome of this VAT policy, you don’t actually really like it at all?

I think you're wasting your breath arguing with these people. Skimming this thread, it's clear there is a certain demographic who have no idea what quality education looks like, or what to celebrate about educational achievement in all spheres (for all abilities) or what it even means for a country's cultural heritage if its cherished intellectual life is lost. They will never know or care, and you will never convince them otherwise.

Juliagreeneyes · 30/12/2024 16:38

Sherrystrull · 30/12/2024 16:30

@Juliagreeneyes

I give my absolute all to all my class. However in determining who to give extra tuition to, That's usually children who are struggling. I run extra intervention to build confidence in children who struggle with Maths or who need extra reading practice. It can involve crowd control but that's part of my job and I do the best I can.

That's what happens in state schools. All my colleagues are the same and it's driven by our SLT wanting the best possible outcomes for all children.

Are you saying private school teachers ignore those children and focus sorely on high achievers? That's appalling.

So you and your school ignore the high achievers then? No attention paid to them at all? (That can’t be true: as a governor/trustee I see the school’s attention to all the SAT/achievement metrics and they certainly aren’t saying let the SATs go hang at the top end). But as a teacher, saying you ignore high achievers is very poor practice indeed, no?

You know perfectly well that one of the reasons for small class sizes in private schools is that the teachers can pay attention to both kids who are struggling and kids who are high achievers. That’s the entire point. Is your life going to be improved if you had an additional few kids in your class who need some attention too?

M0rnington · 30/12/2024 16:39

BrightYellowTrain · 30/12/2024 16:34

It isn’t as rare as you are thinking. The most recent government EHCP statistics show 5.7% of DC with EHCPs attend independent schools.

Some of which will be special schools and 5% IS a tiny amount so - rare. .

MrsMurphyIWish · 30/12/2024 16:41

LetItGo99 · 30/12/2024 16:37

I think you're wasting your breath arguing with these people. Skimming this thread, it's clear there is a certain demographic who have no idea what quality education looks like, or what to celebrate about educational achievement in all spheres (for all abilities) or what it even means for a country's cultural heritage if its cherished intellectual life is lost. They will never know or care, and you will never convince them otherwise.

As a teacher I hope I deliver quality education and thus, I hope my children will receive in turn (my ASD son and my off the chart smart DD).

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