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AIBU to think that Bridget Phillipson is exaggerating the level of middle-class support for VAT on school fees?

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TepidWatersOfManagedDecline · 29/12/2024 14:00

Bridget Phillipson has been quoted as saying that the policy is supported by "middle-class parents in good professional jobs with housing costs who just can't afford that level of fee" and want "brilliant state schools". www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/c86wd1y7v2xo

Is this true, in your experience? Most middle-class parents with professional jobs who I’ve discussed this with think that it’s a spiteful policy (including those who don’t use the independent sector).

AIBU to think that Bridget Phillipson is exaggerating the level of support for the policy?

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allclassics · 29/12/2024 20:17

Dearover · 29/12/2024 17:39

Less than 30% achieved 5 good GCSEs including maths and English in our area. She was the first to get a place at Oxbridge. Never needed tutoring either.

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Do you not see the irony in this. Get out of your own ivory tower.

bluetonguegiraffe · 29/12/2024 20:18

I am a middle class parent who cannot afford to send my kids to private school and I think its spiteful.
It also makes me think less of the Labour party as its an ill-thought through policy as its so clearly designed to appeal to their core base of middle class parents who buy their way into the catchment of the best state schools and yet enjoy hating private schools as its so unfair that people can buy their kids a better education. 🙄 Met so many of these in real life.

All this policy does it make private schools even more elitist for the richest and will push more middle class families into buying their way into the best state school catchments, potentially making housing there even more absurdly expensive.
Its also disastrous for kids who will have to move mid-education as their parents can no longer afford the fees.

Blabadder · 29/12/2024 20:20

bluetonguegiraffe · 29/12/2024 20:18

I am a middle class parent who cannot afford to send my kids to private school and I think its spiteful.
It also makes me think less of the Labour party as its an ill-thought through policy as its so clearly designed to appeal to their core base of middle class parents who buy their way into the catchment of the best state schools and yet enjoy hating private schools as its so unfair that people can buy their kids a better education. 🙄 Met so many of these in real life.

All this policy does it make private schools even more elitist for the richest and will push more middle class families into buying their way into the best state school catchments, potentially making housing there even more absurdly expensive.
Its also disastrous for kids who will have to move mid-education as their parents can no longer afford the fees.

Oh boo bloody hoo. And what AWFUL
fate awaits them? Going to a state school that 94% of us use… nooooooooooo!!!!

bluetonguegiraffe · 29/12/2024 20:23

Hoppinggreen · 29/12/2024 19:25

It was much cheaper and easier for us to pay for Private than move house into the catchment of a supposedly "good" Secondary for DD.We then would have also had to find a good State Primary for DS (the one he was at was great) and hope there was a place for him.

Absolutely this. I lived in Edinburgh and given the cost of moving to the catchment to the best state school over the average house price in Edinburgh it was cheaper to send two children to private school for secondary education, than move to the catchment of the best state secondary.

FlipFlap24 · 29/12/2024 20:25

Blabadder · 29/12/2024 20:20

Oh boo bloody hoo. And what AWFUL
fate awaits them? Going to a state school that 94% of us use… nooooooooooo!!!!

It would be nice to have a grown up debate on this so please set out your ideas rather than insulting people you disagree with. Sadly everything is black and white these days when real life is grey. It is terrible the way the state sector has been neglected. I wholeheartedly support extra funding for the state sector - this is not the policy to achieve that. Most private schools are not Eton and this will adversely affect all kids. We do not make the state sector better by making the private sector worse. Grow the economy and we will have more funding for everyone...sadly Rachel Reeves hasn't thought that one through either.

JusteanBiscuits · 29/12/2024 20:25

elaineyadayada · 29/12/2024 19:20

You’ve nailed it! So true. We just don’t have the money (London) to move into a catchment for an amazing state school. Poss if we had girls. Good state secondaries for boys are rare.

My son's go to an outstanding school in greater London. 3 bed flats available for £300k in catchment if school is everything.

bluetonguegiraffe · 29/12/2024 20:27

Blabadder · 29/12/2024 20:20

Oh boo bloody hoo. And what AWFUL
fate awaits them? Going to a state school that 94% of us use… nooooooooooo!!!!

Its hard for kids to move school. They lose friendship groups. For quieter, less confident kids this can be especially difficult. It can be very hard to impossible to make their way into new friendship groups. Sorry you have such poor emotional intelligence that you can't understand this. They may also move to schools using a different curriculum to the one they were following, which will obviously be very disruptive to their education, especially if they are near their exam years.

Sorry you weren't able to figure that out for yourself. Doesn't look like that state education worked out so well for you after all.....

Mirabai · 29/12/2024 20:30

Blabadder · 29/12/2024 20:20

Oh boo bloody hoo. And what AWFUL
fate awaits them? Going to a state school that 94% of us use… nooooooooooo!!!!

Middle classes, priced out of the private sector, will only send their little darlings to the best state schools. Elbowing out others who can’t afford the rising house prices or tutoring in the best catchments. In what way is that a plus?

Gasp0deTheW0nderD0g · 29/12/2024 20:36

WarriorN · 29/12/2024 19:33

i read on another thread that there is already a council paying private school fees on behalf of parents who quit private and wanted a state place that was not available. So council are paying ££££££ to send the kids back to the private school they were at.

I can see this point but there are far more children with send being funded by LAs to attend the many private send schools that are popping up. As a result of Tory policy that saw huge delays with funding desperately needed new LA send schools.

There just no money. Labour's policy to boost "inclusion" is going to struggle - I can't even begin to describe the kind of training, support and attitude needed for the level of additionally resourced units that would really meet need. I have read far too many anonymous posts in senior leadership fb groups describing how they're struggling with the behaviour and additional needs of a large number of their reception children.

I'm in a send school and we are also starting to struggle- we are full but pupils keep coming via tribunals and we don't have the room to accommodate needs as effectively as we did a decade ago.

Some SALT and OT services are operating with twice the case load of two decades ago with the same amount of funding.

It would be very useful to have some data to hand with discussions like this.

How many children with SEND are currently being paid for by LAs to attend private schools?

How many ex private school pupils are being funded by LAs?

How many children are now being home educated due to poor experiences with education/ send and no suitable settings available?

Also the projected school population for the next decade based on births (which are apparently dropping).

Facts, @WarriorN? Evidence-based policy based on research and aforesaid facts? How very quaint! I mentioned dozens of posts ago that Labour has pulled the funding on a scheme that was providing Latin teaching in some state schools. All the evidence is that this does a lot to improve attainment across the board. But it's Latin. Elitist taint, I suppose. So it's been scrapped in February 2025, halfway through an academic year, even though the scheme had made it possible for thousands of kids to be entered for Latin GCSE and they were expecting to take the exams in summer 2025.

https://schoolsweek.co.uk/schools-face-significant-disruption-as-government-culls-latin-scheme/

Schools face 'significant disruption' after Latin scheme axe

The government has announced it is ending its state school Latin programme mid-year as it seeks to cut costs.

https://schoolsweek.co.uk/schools-face-significant-disruption-as-government-culls-latin-scheme

M0rnington · 29/12/2024 20:37

Mirabai · 29/12/2024 20:30

Middle classes, priced out of the private sector, will only send their little darlings to the best state schools. Elbowing out others who can’t afford the rising house prices or tutoring in the best catchments. In what way is that a plus?

It’s a lot easier to pay for tutoring than private education, you can even DIY. The best state schools still don’t provide the unfair advantages that private education does as illustrated by the over representation of the privately educated in all the best jobs and unis.

Beetlebumz · 29/12/2024 20:39

Well personally I'm all for it.

elaineyadayada · 29/12/2024 20:39

JusteanBiscuits · 29/12/2024 20:25

My son's go to an outstanding school in greater London. 3 bed flats available for £300k in catchment if school is everything.

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Thats great and I’m pleased for you but it’s a gamble and as I’m sure you know there is no guarantee of a place. As I’m sure you do too we juggle work commitments and family commitments which means not all locations are going to work.

M0rnington · 29/12/2024 20:41

Gasp0deTheW0nderD0g · 29/12/2024 20:36

Facts, @WarriorN? Evidence-based policy based on research and aforesaid facts? How very quaint! I mentioned dozens of posts ago that Labour has pulled the funding on a scheme that was providing Latin teaching in some state schools. All the evidence is that this does a lot to improve attainment across the board. But it's Latin. Elitist taint, I suppose. So it's been scrapped in February 2025, halfway through an academic year, even though the scheme had made it possible for thousands of kids to be entered for Latin GCSE and they were expecting to take the exams in summer 2025.

https://schoolsweek.co.uk/schools-face-significant-disruption-as-government-culls-latin-scheme/

How on earth does a dead language improve attainment across the board, more than any other language-evidence please and evidence that providing it at expense is worth the cost of taking money away from SEN and those struggling to get gcse English.

Resilienceisimportant · 29/12/2024 20:42

Gasp0deTheW0nderD0g · 29/12/2024 20:36

Facts, @WarriorN? Evidence-based policy based on research and aforesaid facts? How very quaint! I mentioned dozens of posts ago that Labour has pulled the funding on a scheme that was providing Latin teaching in some state schools. All the evidence is that this does a lot to improve attainment across the board. But it's Latin. Elitist taint, I suppose. So it's been scrapped in February 2025, halfway through an academic year, even though the scheme had made it possible for thousands of kids to be entered for Latin GCSE and they were expecting to take the exams in summer 2025.

https://schoolsweek.co.uk/schools-face-significant-disruption-as-government-culls-latin-scheme/

Well how’s this? I have a friend at work whose kid is autistic and the council pay to send him to a private school which can better accommodate his needs. She wouldn’t be able to afford this. Transport is all paid for as well. Private schools are the utopia of education some would believe but often in cases are for kids who struggle with mainstream for whatever reason.

BunfightBetty · 29/12/2024 20:43

Dolphinnoises · 29/12/2024 14:09

A lot of middle class parents with kids of primary age near already-oversubscribed secondary schools will be worrying about what an influx of private school or would-have-been-private-school kids are going to do to the maximum admissions distances…

This is me. We have a high performing state school nearby which DD would usually get into. I’m very worried that the influx of kids who would otherwise have gone to a private school will mean she misses out. If it’s not her,and she’s one of the lucky ones who gets in, then others will be disadvantaged.

We’re middle class by education and profession, but we’re not in high-earning professions. Certainly nowhere near able to afford school fees even before the VAT. There are many like us in the area.

So kids who are already privileged will take places that might otherwise have given less privileged kids a real leg up. Fantastic.

It is NOT a popular policy where I am, including amongst those who could never aspire to send their kids to a few paying school.

JusteanBiscuits · 29/12/2024 20:43

elaineyadayada · 29/12/2024 20:39

Thats great and I’m pleased for you but it’s a gamble and as I’m sure you know there is no guarantee of a place. As I’m sure you do too we juggle work commitments and family commitments which means not all locations are going to work.

There are guaranteed places within a set area for this school.

Yes, you could buy a lovely 4 bed large house for £1m plus, but they aren't the only options. Even if every single private school parent did this, less than 7% of children are privately educated.

M0rnington · 29/12/2024 20:45

bluetonguegiraffe · 29/12/2024 20:27

Its hard for kids to move school. They lose friendship groups. For quieter, less confident kids this can be especially difficult. It can be very hard to impossible to make their way into new friendship groups. Sorry you have such poor emotional intelligence that you can't understand this. They may also move to schools using a different curriculum to the one they were following, which will obviously be very disruptive to their education, especially if they are near their exam years.

Sorry you weren't able to figure that out for yourself. Doesn't look like that state education worked out so well for you after all.....

Children move schools all the time in the state sector, forces kids can move every 2 years or even less. It’s not a hardship doing it once or twice and something parents should have thought about before paying for a private education they can’t afford. No financial situation is ever a given and having to leave private education is always a risk.

M0rnington · 29/12/2024 20:46

BunfightBetty · 29/12/2024 20:43

This is me. We have a high performing state school nearby which DD would usually get into. I’m very worried that the influx of kids who would otherwise have gone to a private school will mean she misses out. If it’s not her,and she’s one of the lucky ones who gets in, then others will be disadvantaged.

We’re middle class by education and profession, but we’re not in high-earning professions. Certainly nowhere near able to afford school fees even before the VAT. There are many like us in the area.

So kids who are already privileged will take places that might otherwise have given less privileged kids a real leg up. Fantastic.

It is NOT a popular policy where I am, including amongst those who could never aspire to send their kids to a few paying school.

It’s very popular where I am.

JusteanBiscuits · 29/12/2024 20:47

M0rnington · 29/12/2024 20:41

How on earth does a dead language improve attainment across the board, more than any other language-evidence please and evidence that providing it at expense is worth the cost of taking money away from SEN and those struggling to get gcse English.

I expect it is self selecting. Only the kids who are most likely to do well (ie, bright motivated kids ) will join a lesson in something like Latin.

M0rnington · 29/12/2024 20:48

Resilienceisimportant · 29/12/2024 20:42

Well how’s this? I have a friend at work whose kid is autistic and the council pay to send him to a private school which can better accommodate his needs. She wouldn’t be able to afford this. Transport is all paid for as well. Private schools are the utopia of education some would believe but often in cases are for kids who struggle with mainstream for whatever reason.

Your friend’s child must have an EHCP which means he will not be impacted. 94% of kids aren’t in the private sector and that includes the vast majority of those struggling in education. They have to get on with it as will the previously privileged privately educated .

Gasp0deTheW0nderD0g · 29/12/2024 20:49

FlipFlap24 · 29/12/2024 20:25

It would be nice to have a grown up debate on this so please set out your ideas rather than insulting people you disagree with. Sadly everything is black and white these days when real life is grey. It is terrible the way the state sector has been neglected. I wholeheartedly support extra funding for the state sector - this is not the policy to achieve that. Most private schools are not Eton and this will adversely affect all kids. We do not make the state sector better by making the private sector worse. Grow the economy and we will have more funding for everyone...sadly Rachel Reeves hasn't thought that one through either.

We do not make the state sector better by making the private sector worse.

I agree. In general I think reducing the diversity of education will have a detrimental effect on the UK economy and society generally. Well over 20 years ago we were able to get a place for our daughter at an excellent state school which had very good language and science teaching (for a state comprehensive school).Our son couldn't go there because it was a girls' school. There were several state schools in the area we'd happily have sent him to, but he didn't get a place. So we accepted a scholarship from a very good independent school. He had a great aptitude for languages and was able to take four to GCSE level and two to A level. Most of the boys in the school went on with at least one modern language to AS level. In the mean time, modern language teaching in many state schools seems to have withered on the vine. Languages are perceived as hard and difficult to get a top grade in, so schools don't push them because it could pull their results down a bit. Numbers going through to modern language degrees are in freefall. If fewer children go to independent schools this is only going to get worse. See also: drama, art, music and anything else that doesn't contribute to targets.

BunfightBetty · 29/12/2024 20:52

M0rnington · 29/12/2024 20:46

It’s very popular where I am.

Do you not have a really good school near you, where the places are covered? Or not many kids who would go to private school, so no additional pressure?

I can see there would be some area where people would see it as a universal Good Thing because of the above.

Mirabai · 29/12/2024 20:52

M0rnington · 29/12/2024 20:37

It’s a lot easier to pay for tutoring than private education, you can even DIY. The best state schools still don’t provide the unfair advantages that private education does as illustrated by the over representation of the privately educated in all the best jobs and unis.

It’s a lot harder to get into state schools without tutoring if all the rich middle class kids have been tutored up to the nines. (Unless what you’re actually saying is that you’re happy to support unfair advantage as long as it’s affordable to you).

The best state schools absolutely do represent exactly the same kind of advantage as private schools regarding top unis and top jobs, and thanks to this policy will be filled with the same rich middle class students, whose families will now be able to take more skiing holidays as they’re not paying for fees.

The domination of education by rich middle classes will not change, it’s very naive to think it would.

M0rnington · 29/12/2024 20:53

Mirabai · 29/12/2024 20:52

It’s a lot harder to get into state schools without tutoring if all the rich middle class kids have been tutored up to the nines. (Unless what you’re actually saying is that you’re happy to support unfair advantage as long as it’s affordable to you).

The best state schools absolutely do represent exactly the same kind of advantage as private schools regarding top unis and top jobs, and thanks to this policy will be filled with the same rich middle class students, whose families will now be able to take more skiing holidays as they’re not paying for fees.

The domination of education by rich middle classes will not change, it’s very naive to think it would.

Data shows otherwise

Resilienceisimportant · 29/12/2024 20:55

M0rnington · 29/12/2024 20:46

It’s very popular where I am.

So another anecdote. My kid goes to an “outstanding” senior school, so desirable choice. We have three private schools in our town. There is space in his large school (200+ per year I don’t know exact numbers) as I very recently did a tour for my other kid and counted heads with most classes being 25. I asked (cause sure illness etc) and the deputy head told me they weren’t full.

Precisely ZERO private schools kids have moved to the school so far. There is no waiting list.

And while I’m here I thought that I would add I have never in my entire career ever hired anyone who went to a private school just because they went to a private school. Or a grammar school for that matter. I have probably hired 100 plus in entry to senior levels and it just doesn’t matter. So maybe getting into uni and the course you study but you can do that from any school. Any school. In 2023 (sure numbers can change year to year) 73% of entrants into Oxbridge were from state schools with targets being set in future closer to 90% to reflect 93% of kids in state schools. So yes proportionally more kids from private go to Oxbridge, but 3/4 don’t.

So no, I don’t think we need to be subsiding private schools.

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