To think wtf? Me and ex finished end of November & he's having Xmas dinner with a girl in a restaurant? Ahah

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I mean, he's a narcissist so therefore I believe he is almost definitely love bombing a girl right now, however the cheeky bugger😂😮😂 I'm offended but this is hilarious. Having Christmas meals out with a girl he's only just started speaking to? WTAF😂

Huh? So he’s single and wants to eat with company 🤷🏻‍♀️

No I know!! It's totally silly of me I know!! But I'm quite offended😂😂

How do you know?
If he is telling you this, it’s probably just to hurt you. The poor girl is getting caught up in a game.

Why is it cheeky? Why do you care?

Sounds like you need to move on.

There’s nothing at all wrong with him going on a dinner date. He’s been single for weeks.

Don’t get why you’re offended or why it’s ha-ha funny.

How long would you like him to wait?

He may be a narc but he's not behaving weirdly. You on the other hand...

Going out for a meal when single isn't a crime!

Maybe she's got nothing better to do? Doesn't need to be an indicator of something serious.

40 years ago, I binned off a bloke I'd been with for 3 years (and lived with for the 3rd year) at the end of November and by the end of January he was married to a woman who gave birth to their child at the start of the following September.

I still find that astonishingly fast work.

It’s none of your business.

Why are you claiming he's a narcissist, just because he's moved on?!

Why are you offended that a single man is having a meal out with a ( presumably ) single woman. This is weird.

i understand the shocked feeling - I have been there but he isn't really doing anything wrong or outrageous here. Seeing a significant other move on always feels...a bit painful to the ego and shocking. But I promise, it will be fine. Focus on what you want to do and put them out your mind as often and as much as you can. In a few years this will all seem like nothing!

Time to move on. He has.

All seems very over dramatic and immature.

Very odd point of view OP!

You're no longer in a relationship - why wouldn't he be having dinner with someone?

I wonder if it's more restaurants get booked quite far in advance and they must have had this arranged a while back?

I think the iq level seems be lowering each year

Don't give her ideas!

Block him on all social media

Move on

He's an ex for a reason. You don't need him

What a weird reaction. He’s not doing anything wrong.

Does it matter? He can do what he wants while he's single.

Maybe he booked it months ago and planned to take you?
Maybe she booked it months ago in case she met someone?
Maybe he was cheating on you with her for ages and this was always planned?
Lots of ways this could have happened.

Honestly, what does it matter?!
He's your ex - don't waste another second thinking about him, or being offended by this....!

So he made plans for Christmas and is dating after a month... both perfectly normal.

Starting a thread obsessing about what your ex is doing is not though, I think you need to move on with your own life instead of obsessing over his.