To think wtf? Me and ex finished end of November & he's having Xmas dinner with a girl in a restaurant? Ahah

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I mean, he's a narcissist so therefore I believe he is almost definitely love bombing a girl right now, however the cheeky bugger😂😮😂 I'm offended but this is hilarious. Having Christmas meals out with a girl he's only just started speaking to? WTAF😂

How long long were you together for if it was years I can understand you being upset ,if it was a few weeks you need to move on
And not everyone you don't like is a,Narcissist

Are they married ?
It's not clear.

Very odd you're so interested in what he's doing.

My cousin dumped her boyfriend of 6 years on Christmas and by mid-jan was on holiday in Italy with a new guy. She and new guy now have 2 kids and are getting married 🤷‍♀️ whatever makes people happy I think.

(Move on!!!)

Many people “check out” of a relationship a good few months before the relationship actually ends. My ex and I (unbeknownst to each other at the time), didn’t feel anything romantic for each other for around 12 months before we split up. We were both waiting for the spark to come back but it never did.

You could say we both moved on very quickly, we were both going on dates within a month or so of him moving out, but it felt like we’d been single for a year so didn’t feel too soon at all.

Going on a christmas dinner date isn't love bombing. It sounds cute.

How rude. She's done nothing wrong here

There’s nothing wrong with him doing this.

How do you know anyway?

You do post about him a lot, try to move on.

Probably meant to take op

On christmas eve eve?

So what if she is?

I'd feel a bit put out too OP. People don't immediately 'move on'. As some weird posters here imply. Just count yourself lucky that you're not sat with him.

My ex was in court for a non mol hearing with me on 4th September and on holiday with another woman on 6th September 👍

There’s something very wrong with the people on this thread. You can feel the enjoyment of the sneering.

Some people have bad relationships and need time on their own to break a pattern. Others feel better moving on straight away. It's perfectly reasonable for a single man to go to dinner with a new date. OP, all this bitterness is not good for you, move on yourself and you'll feel better.

End of November is almost a full month ago. You've finished, he's moved on.

One of my pet peeves on MN are people who declare others to be narcissists without any examples of said narcissism.

I really never have given a shit how any of my exes spend Christmas as long as it’s as far away from me as possible.

That is weird. Hopefully he'll get bad wind from the sprouts and put her off.

It is a bit galling when you see them on a date so soon after you've broken up. He is free to do what he wants as he is single etc, but it can still feel upsetting like you meant nothing to them.

Broke up with my ex husband in November, in Dec he took his new GF to the Caribbean for a holiday to meet her parents 🫨
they’ve been married a few years now so it must have been the right call but astonished me at the time. And I felt very hurt

Is it because it's Christmas dinner, or would any dinner be as offensive?

How does love-bombing someone prove they are a noecissist?

I wasn’t talking about the woman. I was talking about the ex’s approach to moving on.

It doesn’t matter what she is. My post was about the man’s attitude, not the woman.