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AIBU in thinking this could spread rapidly to other schools? Parents have to come into school to change NT DCs if they soil themselves.

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CwmYoy · 20/12/2024 17:29

https://www.mirror.co.uk/news/uk-news/schools-tell-parents-if-your-34349942

It's been a long time coming but I can see it will spread now there are fewer TAs.

As long as SEN needs are taken into account I think it's a good idea.

Schools ask parents 'if your child has nappies you must come in and change them'

The new rule comes into force in schools across Blaenau Gwent next term for children in reception and nursery classes. Parents have spoken of their concern over the plans

https://www.mirror.co.uk/news/uk-news/schools-tell-parents-if-your-34349942

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BlueSilverCats · 26/12/2024 18:03

You know what else is not in my contract(as a TA)?Having to teach and cover. And yet I've been doing it regularly for years.

Next time one of your children's teachers is off sick , or attending a meeting or whatever , if the TA is covering maybe she should turn around and say nope. If no one else is available, I'm sure you'd be happy to pick them up or have them miss days and days of education because "a contract is a contract is a contract". Right?

Sirzy · 26/12/2024 18:03

Actually, very bad medical aid aside, isn't the whole reason schools hire special help exactly because medical issues are not part of their job? what’s this help you talk of?

ARealitycheck · 26/12/2024 18:03

BrightYellowTrain · 26/12/2024 18:01

It is for the school (or LA in the case of their duty under s42 of CFA 2014) to ensure they have the appropriate (permanent or otherwise) staff. It isn’t the child’s fault.

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And again, if they do not have that in place. Either due to lack of funding or inability to find somebody to do the role, then it must be accepted that childs needs could not be met at that time in that school.

BlueSilverCats · 26/12/2024 18:04

Tsama · 26/12/2024 18:01

@BlueSilverCats and @Sirzy
Occasional accident is one thing, this policy started because it went beyond accidents.

I find funny the mention of first aid and medical issues, because I'm pretty sure if a teacher didn't want to do them they can't outright be forced.

Actually, very basic medical aid aside, isn't the whole reason schools hire special help exactly because medical issues are not part of their job?

After all I imagine teachers do get training for basic medical aid, but anything outside of that isn't in their hands, if anything that's asking for a lawsuit if they do anything wrong and the child gets hurt

And no, a 1000 pages contract wouldn't be necessary.

I think part of the disagreement might be due to different generations, fact is that the times changed, in the past teachers would do a lot of stuff that isn't really their job but they had no choice, but look at how things are now, more and more responsibilities got pushed into teachers, cue the current shortage.

It's telling thet teachers don't even receive training for a lot of things they're expected to do, chances are if they denied doing something and depending on the thing, if someone tried to sue them they would win because in practice it's simply not their job.

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Please do tell, what special medical help do schools hire?

Sirzy · 26/12/2024 18:04

ARealitycheck · 26/12/2024 18:03

And again, if they do not have that in place. Either due to lack of funding or inability to find somebody to do the role, then it must be accepted that childs needs could not be met at that time in that school.

I think on this issue you very much do need a reality check!

BrightYellowTrain · 26/12/2024 18:06

Lack of funding, resources or staffing is not a lawful excuse for acting unlawfully. Toileting needs would not meet the legal threshold for a school claiming to be unable to meet a child’s needs.

BlueSilverCats · 26/12/2024 18:07

Shroedinger's schools... at the same time severely understaffed but also hiring special help for medical issues.

Is that the same schools where parents put their kids in the special school/class because it's easier than potty training?

Tsama · 26/12/2024 18:08

@Sirzy
There was a typo in that part, I fixed it

@BlueSilverCats
Please do tell, what special medical help do schools hire?

Pretty sure I saw mentioned more than once if a child has specific special needs then school hires someone to deal with that.

What is their specifications I have no clue

CwmYoy · 26/12/2024 18:08

@BrightYellowTrain You can bang on as long as you like (and you have) about the legality but if there is no one willing then there is no one to do it. Legally teachers can refuse. That's also a legality.

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Hercisback1 · 26/12/2024 18:10

BrightYellowTrain · 26/12/2024 18:06

Lack of funding, resources or staffing is not a lawful excuse for acting unlawfully. Toileting needs would not meet the legal threshold for a school claiming to be unable to meet a child’s needs.

We've clashed over this before.

You've never come up with a solution other than "that's unlawful".

In which case, the law is an ass.

BrightYellowTrain · 26/12/2024 18:11

CwmYoy · 26/12/2024 18:08

@BrightYellowTrain You can bang on as long as you like (and you have) about the legality but if there is no one willing then there is no one to do it. Legally teachers can refuse. That's also a legality.

I will continue to ‘bang on’ about a child’s rights and how said rights can be enforced as long as others continue to post incorrect information about how schools can act unlawfully and while pupils continue to be discriminated against.

As I have posted previously, nowhere have I said individual teachers have to do anything.

Hercisback1 · 26/12/2024 18:12

So when every individual teacher refuses, what happens?

BrightYellowTrain · 26/12/2024 18:13

Hercisback1 · 26/12/2024 18:10

We've clashed over this before.

You've never come up with a solution other than "that's unlawful".

In which case, the law is an ass.

I have come up with solutions to you excusing unlawfulness. You just don’t like the answers.

Schools could support parents in requesting EHCNAs and, where necessary, support parents to appeal to SENDIST. Instead, some schools perpetuate the LA’s unlawful policies such as DC can’t get an EHCP unless we have 2+ APDR cycles/they are 2+ years behind/we have spent £6k or you can’t get an EHCP for a child before they have started school.

Schools/nurseries could also apply for early years inclusion funding/high needs top up funding.

Schools could work with parents to enforce the LA’s duty under s42 of the CFA 2014.

Schools could look at JR against the LA.

Tsama · 26/12/2024 18:13

@CwmYoy
You can bang on as long as you like (and you have) about the legality but if there is no one willing then there is no one to do it. Legally teachers can refuse. That's also a legality.

I honestly want to see someone try to sue a teacher because they didn't do something that isn't really part of their job, which might happen with the nappies situation.

Something tells me the teacher would win lol

@Hercisback1
We've clashed over this before.

You've never come up with a solution other than "that's unlawful".

In which case, the law is an ass.

Their solution boil down to force the teacher to do it, pretty sure it would backfire if they really try to force it lol

SENDqueries · 26/12/2024 18:13

No NT 4 or 5 year old would go in nappies willingly to school. The problem with saying only for those with SEN needs is that many SEN needs have yet to be discovered.

My autistic child didn't get his diagnosis until year 1, he started school a whole year earlier in nappies (and still is!). I work with many schools (as a professional) who would have refused to admit he had SEN needs until he got that diagnosis as a means to try and avoid changing him if this policy was an option.

BrightYellowTrain · 26/12/2024 18:14

The school (or LA in the case of their s42 duty) must ensure they have appropriate staff. If they haven’t got someone who can do that, they must relook at the staffing as @Sirzy posted.

BrightYellowTrain · 26/12/2024 18:15

Tsama · 26/12/2024 18:13

@CwmYoy
You can bang on as long as you like (and you have) about the legality but if there is no one willing then there is no one to do it. Legally teachers can refuse. That's also a legality.

I honestly want to see someone try to sue a teacher because they didn't do something that isn't really part of their job, which might happen with the nappies situation.

Something tells me the teacher would win lol

@Hercisback1
We've clashed over this before.

You've never come up with a solution other than "that's unlawful".

In which case, the law is an ass.

Their solution boil down to force the teacher to do it, pretty sure it would backfire if they really try to force it lol

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Quote where exactly I have posted the “solution boil down down force the teacher to do it”. You can’t because I haven’t.

Hercisback1 · 26/12/2024 18:15

BrightYellowTrain · 26/12/2024 18:13

I have come up with solutions to you excusing unlawfulness. You just don’t like the answers.

Schools could support parents in requesting EHCNAs and, where necessary, support parents to appeal to SENDIST. Instead, some schools perpetuate the LA’s unlawful policies such as DC can’t get an EHCP unless we have 2+ APDR cycles/they are 2+ years behind/we have spent £6k or you can’t get an EHCP for a child before they have started school.

Schools/nurseries could also apply for early years inclusion funding/high needs top up funding.

Schools could work with parents to enforce the LA’s duty under s42 of the CFA 2014.

Schools could look at JR against the LA.

All of this ignores the lack of time and people in school to do it.

But you keep on your crusade about how shit schools are.

Tsama · 26/12/2024 18:16

BrightYellowTrain · 26/12/2024 18:15

Quote where exactly I have posted the “solution boil down down force the teacher to do it”. You can’t because I haven’t.

You haven't posted, but you and other posters made clear you all believe the teacher has to do it.

Hercisback1 · 26/12/2024 18:17

Situation, kid needs changing, teachers all refuse, they phone the LA who realise they don't have the staff, what happens? Logical conclusion is phone the parents right?

Tsama · 26/12/2024 18:18

Hercisback1 · 26/12/2024 18:15

All of this ignores the lack of time and people in school to do it.

But you keep on your crusade about how shit schools are.

You know what schools probably do have time and people for even if they're shit? Lawyers.

Between a parent and a school I can imagine who would win in a "my lawyer is better than your lawyer" competition, institutions always cover their ass after all.

Hercisback1 · 26/12/2024 18:19

Schools really don't have the money for lawyers.

Tsama · 26/12/2024 18:20

Hercisback1 · 26/12/2024 18:19

Schools really don't have the money for lawyers.

Not all the time of course, but I imagine if shit hits the fan they have one to call, one always find money if you're being sued, they magically find the budget for it

BrightYellowTrain · 26/12/2024 18:21

Tsama · 26/12/2024 18:16

You haven't posted, but you and other posters made clear you all believe the teacher has to do it.

No I haven’t.

BrightYellowTrain · 26/12/2024 18:22

Lack of time or staff doesn’t excuse unlawfulness.

If a school is complaining about so many children not being toilet trained as a regular matter rather than the occasional accident, the should plan ahead, not wait until a child needs changing.

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