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AIBU to want the ‘Thanks’ button back?

105 replies

IlovePond · 20/12/2024 08:15

Just that really!

I’m hating these new emojis. Hand 👏 to me means either well done or sarcasm and that gurning face for humour is positively terrifying.

Is it just me who is mourning the loss of the simple Thanks button?

@mnhq can we have it back, please?

OP posts:
Nevervisible · 20/12/2024 10:49

NZDreaming · 20/12/2024 10:25

I think you’ve misunderstood- No one other than the poster of the comment can see your reaction, it’s exactly the same function as the thanks just with some variations. It’s not showing publicly which comment has the most interaction like insta or fb just allows for different feedback to the commenter.

I understand perfectly that no one else can see the reaction.

OrwellianTimes · 20/12/2024 10:52

Stravaig · 20/12/2024 08:49

I'm not against having a range of options per se - Ravelry managed this 20 years ago! - but they could be better chosen, preferably after consulting the community.

The Rav ones are great to use, and also help nudge conversational standards: educational / interesting / funny / agree / disagree / love, IIRC. Some or all could be turned off if you don't want the feedback. (It may have changed, I haven't visited in a while.)

This is MN though, so Reactions really need to include:

red flag 🚩
LTB (🏃‍♀️,💨, ?)
tough love / viper 🐍
thanks / appreciation 🤗
funny / laugh (preferably without tonsils)
love ❤️
agree 👍?

And biscuit.

catin8oots · 20/12/2024 11:02

I've still just got the old original smilies on the iPhone app??

venus7 · 20/12/2024 11:19

AnImaginaryCat · 20/12/2024 10:42

While I feel you're overthinking things, with the whole communication focused v reaction driven analysis, about an optional interaction on a forum, on a what did you think using "thanks" meant?

Which is the question i asked in my first post because I think to a lot of people it meant something along the lines of one of the four emojis. (Bar the use of laughing one to mean laughing at the post.)

What i mean is previously you reacted (or communicated ) a thanks because you thought it was a good post, agreed with the post, really liked the post or found it funny. Least I would have. What reasons did you use the thanks option? As evidently it meant something different to you.

It meant thank you. If someone helped you, or gave you useful information, it doesn't necessarily follow that you like it, or find it amusing. I wasn't overthinking, or analysing.

brunettemic · 20/12/2024 11:23

MeanderingGently · 20/12/2024 08:30

I preferred the 'thanks' as well, it was obvious what it was. 'React' isn't so clear, and looks like it's been modified to appeal to the teenage mindset in my view!!

Yes because only teenagers use emojis 🙄

Viviennemary · 20/12/2024 11:25

I do too. These new ones are horrid.

Sugarnspicenallthingsnaice · 20/12/2024 11:29

venus7 · 20/12/2024 09:45

None of those mean 'thank you'. As previous poster stated, it's now reaction driven, rather than the focus being on communication.

The clapping hands mean 'thanks'.

Try it on a post - once you've clicked on it, React changes to Thanks.

TMGM · 20/12/2024 11:36

I like having more of a variety of reactions, I’d actually support a disagree or confused button 😂

brokenwand · 20/12/2024 11:37

I like them, much better than the thanks button.

AnImaginaryCat · 20/12/2024 11:41

venus7 · 20/12/2024 11:19

It meant thank you. If someone helped you, or gave you useful information, it doesn't necessarily follow that you like it, or find it amusing. I wasn't overthinking, or analysing.

Ah I see, well that makes sense why you don't like the new options.

You are overthinking though, there's no strategy change from communication focused to reaction driven. It was always a reaction to a post because MN is just a forum and the majority of posts aren't seeking help information, so the thanks button for your reason meant its use would be quite niche.

Birdscratch · 20/12/2024 11:42

I like the options but the emoji are weird, especially funny.

Birdscratch · 20/12/2024 11:44

Here

AIBU to want the ‘Thanks’ button back?
venus7 · 20/12/2024 12:21

AnImaginaryCat · 20/12/2024 11:41

Ah I see, well that makes sense why you don't like the new options.

You are overthinking though, there's no strategy change from communication focused to reaction driven. It was always a reaction to a post because MN is just a forum and the majority of posts aren't seeking help information, so the thanks button for your reason meant its use would be quite niche.

I like niche.....

alwayslearning789 · 20/12/2024 12:22

Newgirls · 20/12/2024 09:54

I think it’s a great idea. I often simply agree and maybe it will cut down on a hundred people saying the same thing?

having a disagree seems a bit too negative for most posts

Agree it's a good idea

It allows acknowledgement of the poster without repeating what others are already saying.

Plus the description is clear even if you don't like the emoji:)

HotCrossBunplease · 20/12/2024 12:25

PebbledashDreams · 20/12/2024 08:27

There should be one that’s along the lines of “I’m sorry to hear that, my commiserations, virtual hug.”

When you want to respond to someone’s sad post.

Didn’t that used to be the bunch of flowers emoji? They could have put that in as a reactions option.

LolaB00 · 20/12/2024 14:44

ErrolTheDragon · 20/12/2024 09:54

Where, and which version of 'the app', please?

Tbh I don't get the point - I use the iOS app and have easy access to the good old MN emoticons plus normal emojis. Does the 'react' let you leave an emoji without actually bothering to write a post?

Well you have an iPhone so you haven't caught up yet! I have Android so will always be in front with tech.
I also have normal emojis as does everyone, and I like the quick responses, saves a post doesn't it? You dont HAVE to use them - just ignore them, but I like them!

Newgirls · 20/12/2024 14:49

Yes I realise that posters can’t see the thanks etc

but it might still cut down repetition as they can now agree or like rather than thanks

we shall see if it changes anything!

Lillixyng · 20/12/2024 14:55

After initial reservations, I am now using them quite happily. I agree about the thanks. I think it should replace the heart which is meaningless. As a very old, in years of age, MNetter I occasionally pass my pearls of wisdom on to others. I have often been thanked and it makes me feel a valued member of the community.

JJZ · 20/12/2024 15:06

I prefer (and seemingly alone in completely understanding) the new reactions.

I never really understood why you would “thank” anyone for a post.

ErrolTheDragon · 20/12/2024 15:07

Well you have an iPhone so you haven't caught up yet! I have Android so will always be in front with tech.

MN on an iPad so it's big enough to read! I'll trade being 'in front on tech' for being way better on security any day thanksGrin ....but at some points the mn android version has been behind/buggy relative to iOS anyway so it's swings and roundabouts.

Lillixyng · 20/12/2024 17:59

JJZ · 20/12/2024 15:06

I prefer (and seemingly alone in completely understanding) the new reactions.

I never really understood why you would “thank” anyone for a post.

Sometimes people give really good advice or show a lot of understanding. If people are kind we should think it is normal but it isn’t always. Maybe I lead a sad little life but it makes my day if somebody takes the time to say thanks.

ErrolTheDragon · 20/12/2024 18:07

I only know about these 'reactions' via the email notifications. These just say something-and-so has reacted to a post, doesn't say what sort of reaction so it's rather pointless and irritating.

iridescentsnowflake · 20/12/2024 18:39

I like the new reactions but would like a thanks option too. I wanted to thank someone yesterday without posting but didn’t because none of the reactions seemed relevant.

AnyoneSomeone · 20/12/2024 18:39

You can turn the email notifications off.

SoupDragon · 20/12/2024 19:03

iridescentsnowflake · 20/12/2024 18:39

I like the new reactions but would like a thanks option too. I wanted to thank someone yesterday without posting but didn’t because none of the reactions seemed relevant.

Not even the "thanks" one? 👏🏻

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