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to be annoyed at so much racism re “the boat people”

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NavyOrca · 19/12/2024 01:11

A large hotel local-ish to us (around 10 miles away) is currently closed for bookings as it is being occupied by just under 400 asylum seekers.

Recently, in our village and a couple of neighbouring ones, there has been a spate of parcels being stolen from doorsteps. I’m sure you can all work out who has taken the blame for this….! Even though one of the perpetrators is known to be a local lad, born and bred in our village, some people are still blaming others..

The comments on Facebook community groups are disgusting.

Since when has it been acceptable to so readily stick the blame upon those literally fleeing their countries?

I honestly feel that as a human race, we are devolving.

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johnyhadasister · 20/12/2024 19:24

goodness; so

Laylay100 · 20/12/2024 19:40

Some English people always need someone to blame, just look at the history of this country. Meddle in other countries but cry when people come over here. Karma at its finest.

Emanresu52 · 20/12/2024 19:42

Did you see the video of the 'boat people' catching a swan to eat for their dinner? Horrific. We have a hotel full of them near us too and I happen to know the security guard of our local shopping centre, have a guess who the majority of shoplifters are.

Bugaloo77 · 20/12/2024 19:47

Our local council recently house immigrants in a hotel at the bottom of our village and told no one they were doing it. Since then the police are having to be seen near the local primary and secondary schools because these men have been caught hanging around at the end of school taking photos of the kids. Some mums approached them and they ran off.
My daughter is 15 and we moved here so she could easily walk to and from school safely. Well that has come to an end and she now has to be collected as do a lot of the other children she knows that live in the area.
These men have been spotted hanging around watching houses it’s all very strange and unsettling.
To top it off parcels have started disappearing off doorsteps, a problem we didn’t have 2 months ago. So I can really understand your local peoples concerns.
Our once quiet village that children felt safe in is no more so give those locals a break they might have reasons to feel the way they do.

I am by all means saying they are all bad because I know some of the lads in the hotel have joined the local church and help with jobs. They do this because there is literally nothing to do and are miles away from town with no money. The village is the only place near the hotel which is in a main A road.

wastingtimeonhere · 20/12/2024 19:50

Instead of shouting racist at those making SM comments, maybe address their fears?
Housing? No 10 year wait for social housing
Homelessness? Only those old style 'men of the road', no hoards of homeless camped out, sofa surfing etc
Benefits? Heating or food is not a choice any need to make. Easy to get prompt help, easy systems to update to ensure accurate payment.
No food banks? not required.
Healthcare? Fully functioning, easy to get treatment, including dental.
Crime? No foreign nationals taking up prison places, those here are citizens everyone welcomes..
All incomers have the skills and income to benefit us.
Oh look, flying 🐖🐷

The reality is that until we sort our shit out,'others' will get the blame for our lack of functioning society.

GreenPixies · 20/12/2024 20:02

CoffeeDogwalkTennis · 20/12/2024 19:19

Our veterans suffer from poor / no housing, lack of support with PTSD and mental health, and the pastoral care post service is shockingly bad. These men and women have given their service to this country only to be overlooked and disregarded. We owe Them a service of care and gratitude.

Million percent agree. We would not be enjoying our liberty without their sacrifice. Apparently though, it's not woke enough to give them a thought or a mention.

Shudahaddogs · 20/12/2024 20:22

Jostuki · 19/12/2024 06:10

If they are fleeing their countries why didn't they stay in France where they are safe?

Why are so many of them not actually fleeing any kind of persecution whatsoever but want to come to the U.K. because they have heard of the benefit system and think our streets are paved with gold?

Absolutely correct. These men aren't fleeing ? Where are the women? Children? Still there? Let's look at Ireland where 500 men are coming to a small town..nothing to do all day. Fighting age men. They are coming from a culture where women have no freedom. Coming from a religious state, not a democracy. What could possibly go wrong ? Other than everything. We Absolutely need migrants , they keep our economy going. Displaced young men ? No thanks.

fedup33 · 20/12/2024 20:23

CoffeeDogwalkTennis · 20/12/2024 19:19

Our veterans suffer from poor / no housing, lack of support with PTSD and mental health, and the pastoral care post service is shockingly bad. These men and women have given their service to this country only to be overlooked and disregarded. We owe Them a service of care and gratitude.

Funny that, because friends and family tell me otherwise. They are relatively well supported.

Oh and they have taken on paid work unlike conscripts.

Shudahaddogs · 20/12/2024 20:25

izimbra · 20/12/2024 13:44

"when you're living in the middle of it you do get a good insight into what they are actually like"

Who is 'they'? Asylum seekers?

I'm living in the middle of it. I have two hostels within 10 minutes walk of my house. I have volunteered with residents from one of these hostels. I don't share your view.

But if you're straight and white and married, can I point out that your husband and sons belong to the ethnic group who commit the vast majority of rapes, child abuse and sexual assault in the UK.

Are you comfortable with me assuming they're predatory unless they prove otherwise?

Wasn't one of the migrants hotel workers stabbed in the back of the neck on her way home..by a migrant?

WishinAndHopin · 20/12/2024 20:34

Laylay100 · 20/12/2024 19:40

Some English people always need someone to blame, just look at the history of this country. Meddle in other countries but cry when people come over here. Karma at its finest.

”Karma at its finest”

So glad we agree that immigration is harmful to natives.

rb124 · 20/12/2024 20:39

As the OP said, it's a known fact that it's the "local scrote" who stole at least some of these items, so why shouldn't he get at least some of the blame? He's probably going to steal even more now he's got a "get out of jail free" card.

NutNutmum · 20/12/2024 20:43

rb124 · 20/12/2024 20:39

As the OP said, it's a known fact that it's the "local scrote" who stole at least some of these items, so why shouldn't he get at least some of the blame? He's probably going to steal even more now he's got a "get out of jail free" card.

Is this "local scrote" even real, the OP has produced zero evidence of this, so it's all hearsay. Where as the fact our prisons are overrepresented with foreign nationals and we have more and more coming everyday with zero intelligence on their backgrounds ID or actual ages are a matter of fact.

fedup33 · 20/12/2024 20:45

They are coming from a culture where women have no freedom

i come from a family who were abusive, I am not. Which culture is this please?

fedup33 · 20/12/2024 20:46

Shudahaddogs · 20/12/2024 20:25

Wasn't one of the migrants hotel workers stabbed in the back of the neck on her way home..by a migrant?

I don't know, was she?

NutNutmum · 20/12/2024 20:49

fedup33 · 20/12/2024 20:45

They are coming from a culture where women have no freedom

i come from a family who were abusive, I am not. Which culture is this please?

Don't you know how to search here is a quick one for you 🙄

https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S0277539503001031

dcbgr · 20/12/2024 20:55

And now 11 dead and 80 injured after a likely terror attack at a Christmas market in Germany. Bodies flung high in the air as the car ploughed through the happy crowds. Diversity is truly our strength.

rb124 · 20/12/2024 20:56

NutNutmum · 20/12/2024 20:43

Is this "local scrote" even real, the OP has produced zero evidence of this, so it's all hearsay. Where as the fact our prisons are overrepresented with foreign nationals and we have more and more coming everyday with zero intelligence on their backgrounds ID or actual ages are a matter of fact.

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It's also hearsay that it's these migrants, but you seem to be OK with that?

TENSsion · 20/12/2024 20:57

fedup33 · 20/12/2024 20:45

They are coming from a culture where women have no freedom

i come from a family who were abusive, I am not. Which culture is this please?

Oh come on. Let’s not pretend every woman in the world has the same legal protections as we have.
That’s wildly offensive.

NutNutmum · 20/12/2024 21:03

rb124 · 20/12/2024 20:56

It's also hearsay that it's these migrants, but you seem to be OK with that?

Bell et al. (2013) found a positive effect of immigration only on property crimes, and only in the case of refugee immigrants or those seeking asylum. 🤔

fedup33 · 20/12/2024 21:04

NutNutmum · 20/12/2024 20:49

Don't you know how to search here is a quick one for you 🙄

https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S0277539503001031

Turkey? So 2 people from Turkey? Therefore that equals all refugees.

fedup33 · 20/12/2024 21:05

TENSsion · 20/12/2024 20:57

Oh come on. Let’s not pretend every woman in the world has the same legal protections as we have.
That’s wildly offensive.

Wildly offensive? No.

Racism is offensive.

NutNutmum · 20/12/2024 21:09

fedup33 · 20/12/2024 21:04

Turkey? So 2 people from Turkey? Therefore that equals all refugees.

I was waiting for that exact response. Did you not read what I posted? Is your reading comprehension that bad.

Let me reiterate for you and put the most important point in bold "Don't you know how to search here is a quick one for you"

It took me two seconds to find a research paper that answered your question name a which culture like that, the paper quite clearly covers that. Unless you dispute refugees of the culture named in the scientific paper do not come to the UK.

Maybe next time try to be a bit more specific 😂

TENSsion · 20/12/2024 21:11

fedup33 · 20/12/2024 21:05

Wildly offensive? No.

Racism is offensive.

Women in Afghanistan are not allowed to show their faces or speak! Women are stoned death for being a victim of rape in some places!

And you think you have the moral high ground because you can blithely call someone “racist” to shut down conversation, while pretending these women don’t even exist.

It is YOU who is racist, because women from cultures like that do not matter to you. Only your posturing online to defend the men who uphold these behaviours matters to you.

It’s shameful.

NutNutmum · 20/12/2024 21:16

@fedup33 Looks like its not your night, every one proving you wrong. 🙎

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