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The older we get, the more conservative we become?

318 replies

EddyF · 03/12/2024 18:28

Just wondering if people believe this. I’m in my thirties and although I have always had real socialist views and I have always voted Labour, I am struggling with some of my current viewpoints which lean more to the conservative way. I think I have lost a bit of societal empathy and seeing things as a ‘dog eat dog world; everyone out for themselves’.

There are so many issues I see locally (London) that I just think not everyone can be saved. The services are stretched; high streets are depressing and people have too many needs and often those needs are not isolated and are multiple. I feel less empathetic and more “can’t you just help yourself”. There doesn’t appear to be a safety net or one that is efficient enough, which to my surprise, has harden me a bit. Maybe it is age😆

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MotherofPearl · 05/12/2024 18:44

I believe that the left/right division is now less based on age than it is on sex, certainly amongst Gen Z. Women in general are supporting progressive, left of centre parties, and men supporting more right wing parties.

Here's an interesting article about it:

https://www.psa.ac.uk/psa/news/gender-and-generational-shifts-uk-voting-trends-what-should-we-think

BIossomtoes · 05/12/2024 19:47

TempestTost · 05/12/2024 17:33

The youngest group had lower votes for Labour, and higher for Reform, than the next two higher age groups. So I don't know that I would agree with you entirely. And that's in the face of an incumbent Conservative party that was in too long and badly in need of renewal.

Bigger picture, outside of the UK seems to see a pattern in the direction of young people voting for more conservative parties, and it's an arguable interpretation that the UK is on the tail of that, so it might carry on. It will be interesting to see whether the next lot of new voters continues the trend.

The youngest group had lower votes for Labour, and higher for Reform, than the next two higher age groups

The youngest age group had fewer votes for Reform than any other demographic. The leftwing vote in that bracket was split by the highest Green vote overall. The graph here is very clear.

https://yougov.co.uk/politics/articles/49978-how-britain-voted-in-the-2024-general-election

How Britain voted in the 2024 general election | YouGov

Using a sample of over 35,000 voters, YouGov looks at how voters voted at the 2024 election across factors like age, gender, class, education, income, work status, housing tenure and their vote at past elections

https://yougov.co.uk/politics/articles/49978-how-britain-voted-in-the-2024-general-election

TooBigForMyBoots · 06/12/2024 01:54

As I've got older, I've not become more conservative. But I have grown in experience, knowledge and understanding.

RavenA · 06/12/2024 03:21

It's complex. My Dad, Labour voting trade unionist in his younger years lurch towards the right in his 50s and 60s, but in his final decades moved towards the left again.

Maybe the right coalesce around certain core values whilst the left are idealists. Perhaps you lose your idealism as you get older.

malificent7 · 06/12/2024 05:28

I think it is true. As a young woman I was very left and into dark green politics. Now I still care about the environment etc but wish i'd gone for high paying jobs and feathered my own nest. Very glad dd wants to be a banker. The idealism of youth dosn't last.

malificent7 · 06/12/2024 05:33

Communism is a nice idea but whywould anyone train for years to be a surheon if they earned the same as an HCA?

The super rich should pay their taxes though.

I agree that capitalism has a lot to answer for too though and is very destructive.

AuxArmesCitoyens · 06/12/2024 06:24

Crunched · 03/12/2024 18:56

'If You Are Not a Liberal When You Are Young, You Have No Heart, and If You Are Not a Conservative When Old, You Have No Brain'
Thought I'd throw this in as no one else has yet.I believe it is a quote from a Frenchman in the 19th century.

Fuck that smug shit

There is a clear correlation between more education and more left-leaning views

In my fifties, still a radical green leftie, and much better informed than when I was 20

AuxArmesCitoyens · 06/12/2024 06:27

Russia went from feudalism to space in about forty years under communism.

PerditaLaChien · 06/12/2024 06:31

Im steadfastly committed to safety nets including free nhs, disability benefits for the vulnerable etc

But i worry at the moment that the help i want directed to the very vulnerability who simply cannot support themselves etc, is spread among too many. The definition of what constitutes "disability" seems to extend to anyone who finds anything a bit hard now

jeaux90 · 06/12/2024 06:45

@cardibach ok so you said nonsense to my opinion on the left trying to shift the Overton window based on identity politics.

So how is it that so many middle aged women who voted LP for years are now politically homeless like me?

They DID shift the Overton window when they started the nonsense about identifying as something rather than class analysis.

Eg vulnerable women who are in prison, but putting violent males in there as they "identify" as a woman.

The only thing restoring my waning faith in the left is Wes Streeting and his support for the nurses in their case for single sex spaces.

Most of the other LP MPs have lost their minds.

AuxArmesCitoyens · 06/12/2024 07:07

38thparallel · 04/12/2024 18:37

I also have experience growing up under communism. I think people have some really funny ideas about socialism/communism being about idle people being supported by the state. Do you know that it was illegal not to work under communism? You were put in prison and, in many cases, forced into slave labour if you refused to work.

Also - in East Germany at any rate - children being removed from families who tried to escape, and the state telling them the children had died when in fact they’d been adopted.
Yet there are posters on this thread supporting communism.

The right-wing junta in Argentina used similar tactics at exactly the same time.

ichundich · 06/12/2024 07:15

AuxArmesCitoyens · 06/12/2024 06:27

Russia went from feudalism to space in about forty years under communism.

You mean the Soviet Union. It also built a few gulags and committed a genocide in Ukraine with Holodomor. But don't let facts get in the way of your idealism.

AuxArmesCitoyens · 06/12/2024 07:25

Also the right.wing are famously tolerant of people who are unable or unwilling to work and never force them into work or cut their benefits and leave them to starve to death

Sskka · 06/12/2024 07:27

AuxArmesCitoyens · 06/12/2024 06:24

Fuck that smug shit

There is a clear correlation between more education and more left-leaning views

In my fifties, still a radical green leftie, and much better informed than when I was 20

“There is a clear correlation between more education and more left-leaning views”

Talk about smug.

If there’s one aphorism I hate, it’s this one. Leftism correlates to education today, not because leftism is the intelligent choice, but because leftism has reorientated society to mean more status for graduates. Decades ago, when leftism actually meant a better deal for the working classes, it wasn’t the choice of the educated.

You’d think a Marxist would understand this.

ichundich · 06/12/2024 07:29

AuxArmesCitoyens · 06/12/2024 07:25

Also the right.wing are famously tolerant of people who are unable or unwilling to work and never force them into work or cut their benefits and leave them to starve to death

Why should people who are 'unwilling to work' be funded by the taxpayer?

AuxArmesCitoyens · 06/12/2024 07:34

Of course,. Both sides have committed terrible atrocities. Neoliberal capitalism is a massive killer and is on line to bring the human race to an end in a few decades.

1dayatatime · 06/12/2024 07:40

AuxArmesCitoyens · 06/12/2024 06:27

Russia went from feudalism to space in about forty years under communism.

Actually that was nothing to do with communism and everything to do with forcing German V2 rocket scientists after WW2(at the threat of death) to help develop their rocket technology.

Prior to WW2 the Soviet Union was technologically very backward and was struggling with a basic agricultural economy, technically they would have been hard pushed to build fireworks let alone space rockets.

1dayatatime · 06/12/2024 08:15

@cardibach

"But actually, using logic, austerity and right wing politics clearly don’t work. As a logical thinker you should be abandoning them. Assuming you are one."

Thank you for your detailed political and economic counter argument on why right wing politics "doesn't work".

Whilst I'm waiting for that let me turn to "austerity ". Austerity in itself is an action to fix problems from other policies (principally high debt. Just like going cutting spending in January is an action to fix over spending during Christmas.

The problem with the economics of the left is that haven't really progressed beyond the Keynesian economics that they studied at A Level.

Borrowing more money to economic prosperity doesn't work as Liz Truss and the current French economic crisis have shown. Currently the UK spends approximately the same amount of money on debt interest as it does on education- this is not a sustainable position.

username299 · 06/12/2024 08:34

1dayatatime · 06/12/2024 08:15

@cardibach

"But actually, using logic, austerity and right wing politics clearly don’t work. As a logical thinker you should be abandoning them. Assuming you are one."

Thank you for your detailed political and economic counter argument on why right wing politics "doesn't work".

Whilst I'm waiting for that let me turn to "austerity ". Austerity in itself is an action to fix problems from other policies (principally high debt. Just like going cutting spending in January is an action to fix over spending during Christmas.

The problem with the economics of the left is that haven't really progressed beyond the Keynesian economics that they studied at A Level.

Borrowing more money to economic prosperity doesn't work as Liz Truss and the current French economic crisis have shown. Currently the UK spends approximately the same amount of money on debt interest as it does on education- this is not a sustainable position.

How come everything was cut to the bone under the Tories and the economy is a complete shambles with record levels of debt?

BIossomtoes · 06/12/2024 08:37

Austerity in itself is an action to fix problems from other policies (principally high debt.

And it failed spectacularly. Debt continued to rise and public services are broken. Austerity was ideological and its effects will continue to blight the country long after I’m dead.

LizTruss · 06/12/2024 09:10

tothelefttotheleft · 03/12/2024 18:43

I'm as left wing as I've always been.

Me too.

SharpOpalNewt · 06/12/2024 10:30

The problem with the economics of the left is that haven't really progressed beyond the Keynesian economics that they studied at A Level.

The problem with the right is that they haven't really progressed beyond the toddler "I'm All Right, Jack" developmental stage.

username299 · 06/12/2024 10:33

SharpOpalNewt · 06/12/2024 10:30

The problem with the economics of the left is that haven't really progressed beyond the Keynesian economics that they studied at A Level.

The problem with the right is that they haven't really progressed beyond the toddler "I'm All Right, Jack" developmental stage.

I'm astonished no one's mentioned student politics yet. That's often wheeled out for a bray. In fact Badenoch, made sure to bring it up at PMQ. The original thinker that she is.

1dayatatime · 06/12/2024 10:34

@username299

"How come everything was cut to the bone under the Tories and the economy is a complete shambles with record levels of debt?"

Because everything wasn't cut to the bone and to do so was becoming politically untenable. Equally the economy interest payments on the existing debt started to cut into the Government's ability to spend on other useful things like education.

As for the record levels of debt spaffing £500 billion on Covid support measures really was the final straw.

1dayatatime · 06/12/2024 10:38

@SharpOpalNewt

"The problem with the right is that they haven't really progressed beyond the toddler "I'm All Right, Jack" developmental stage."

Thank you for your detailed economic counter argument.

Another quote for you:

The right believe in ambition and personal responsibility which the left criticises as the politics of greed and selfishness.

The left believes in equality and fairness which the right criticises as the politics of envy and economically unworkable.

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