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White Saviour

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username8348 · 25/11/2024 06:32

Ed Sheeran has said that he wouldn't participate in a rerecording of Do they Know it's Christmas which was first released in the 80s to raise money for a famine in Africa.

The single and other similar endeavours have been criticised as portraying a negative view of Africa and belying a White Saviour complex.

Some critics have said that Africa is capable of dealing with its own problems and such sentiments mean it loses business and investment:

While they may generate sympathy and donations, they perpetuate damaging stereotypes that stifle Africa’s economic growth, tourism and investment, ultimately costing the continent trillions and destroying its dignity, pride and identity - Fuse ODG

Do they know it's Christmas was last rereleased to raise money for ebola. Geldof has denied the claims saying that they're bollocks and the money has achieved a lot.

Western countries give a lot of aid to African nations, is it time to stop that aid? Many countries are feeling the pinch and could plough the money into their own nations.

AIBU to believe that we should stop playing the White Saviour and as advised, let Africa deal with its own problems?

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Beeinalily · 25/11/2024 14:28

I can see both sides of this, but the one thing I am sure of is that I don't give a tuppenny toss what the millionaire Bob Geldof thinks about it

Totallymessed · 25/11/2024 14:29

Catza · 25/11/2024 12:27

Haha, no worries. No, of course most people will have the best intentions but it doesn't mean that the underlying assumption isn't very much "I am an educated white person with enough resources and free time to go and do some good for deprived communities because they couldn't possibly learn to do it themselves". There is something very uncomfortable about that and I think we should be able to acknowledge our own shortcomings. In my example, this thinking resulted in white people flocking to deprived parts of the world to "do good" but the good they were doing was not in collaboration with the locals. There was no acknowledgement that the local population has capacity and skills to do the work themselves and, perhaps, just needed support in developing these skills in a sustainable way. If we did examine our (subconscious!) assumptions that white people know best, we wouldn't choose this specific solution to the lack of qualified SaLTs in Vietnam.
There was an interesting exercise our uni lecturer took us through. He would ask us for a reason why we wanted to work in a caring profession. Every time someone would give a reason (cousins with ASD, mothers with ill mental health, friends disabilities etc.), he would say "go deeper. What is the reason for you thinking xyz". Several layers deep, we pretty much unanimously established that our desire to be in a caring profession stemmed from our own ego and the need for being needed. We could then start challenging our reasoning and assumptions that patients need saving and learned to think about their own strength which they can leverage in therapy to help themselves.

I find this a quite depressing approach from the lecturer tbh. You have a lot of new students, eager to learn and hoping to help. They are choosing to train for a profession that will be hard work, plenty of unsociable hours and relatively low pay. Then the lecturer turns round and says "well, actually, your reasons for wanting to go into this stressful job are completely selfish". Why would anyone bother? It's so negative and quite offensive. And no, I don't work in healthcare, I chose a much less stressful and challenging career, like the majority do.

PenguinIce · 25/11/2024 14:29

Does the song still make money for charities? Is so it seems silly to cancel it, can’t the lyrics just be changed instead.

I get the point that the song is factually incorrect but did find Ed Sheeran’s recent social media post annoying the way he hoped his (new!) personal stance was a forward facing one. He isn’t worried about the song he just doesn’t want to get cancelled.

MumblesParty · 25/11/2024 15:45

It’s all very well saying we shouldn’t send aid, we shouldn’t send volunteers, we shouldn’t build hospitals and offer free medical treatment etc - we should empower the local people to develop the skills and do it themselves….BUT it’s been said many times (and is widely acknowledged) that the people in power in many of these countries are corrupt. So how do we empower the locals? How do we set up a college to train nurses, builders, carpenters, teachers? We can’t just turn up and establish these colleges ourselves. It has to go through local government officials, who are corrupt, and would use the “money to build a teacher training college” on their house and garden!

LessonsinChemistryandLove · 25/11/2024 15:58

MumblesParty · 25/11/2024 15:45

It’s all very well saying we shouldn’t send aid, we shouldn’t send volunteers, we shouldn’t build hospitals and offer free medical treatment etc - we should empower the local people to develop the skills and do it themselves….BUT it’s been said many times (and is widely acknowledged) that the people in power in many of these countries are corrupt. So how do we empower the locals? How do we set up a college to train nurses, builders, carpenters, teachers? We can’t just turn up and establish these colleges ourselves. It has to go through local government officials, who are corrupt, and would use the “money to build a teacher training college” on their house and garden!

From what you’re saying, it seems you think that the locals do not already have skills etc to put to work. Please remember that the NHS for instance, employs a lot of these so called unskilled locals, to do skilled jobs in the UK.

The bigger problem is corrupt governments in those countries coupled with, our corrupt governments and business leaders who go into those countries to exploit the situation. Alongside, the masses of debt Africa as a continent owes to our governments who just keep adding on to in the form of aid and interest.

The issue is much more complicated and longstanding than singing a song or going in a building something. The west needs to take responsibility for some of the issues in the African continent and actively stop hindering progress. Pretending that African is just some dire country with no opportunity to be self sufficient, is a big part of the problem!

Catza · 25/11/2024 16:25

Totallymessed · 25/11/2024 14:29

I find this a quite depressing approach from the lecturer tbh. You have a lot of new students, eager to learn and hoping to help. They are choosing to train for a profession that will be hard work, plenty of unsociable hours and relatively low pay. Then the lecturer turns round and says "well, actually, your reasons for wanting to go into this stressful job are completely selfish". Why would anyone bother? It's so negative and quite offensive. And no, I don't work in healthcare, I chose a much less stressful and challenging career, like the majority do.

The difference is that when you train to work in healthcare, it's not just about learning anatomy and physiology. A lot of it is about ethics, morals, self-reflection and standard of care. We were master students, not freshly fledged college graduates. That specific lecture was vital to shape us as clinicians and avoid us falling into the patterns of behaviour that so many complain about. I ask myself every day whether something I am doing is driven by what the patient knows is best for them or whether it is something that I find more comfortable for myself.
And the lecturer don't turn around and said anything to us. We came to that conclusion ourselves simply by examining what is below the superficial layers of thought. It's ok to recognize that you are not perfect and that your must reflect on and mitigate your own biases.

hairbearbunches · 25/11/2024 16:33

Ginmonkeyagain · 25/11/2024 08:40

I had a economics lecturer who grew up in Eritrea. His thoughts on Live Aid were .... interesting.

I cringe every time I hear "do they know it's Christmas" - Ethiopia is an country with an ancient tradition of Christianity that pre dates most European countries.

I took that to mean that celebrating Christmas is quite low on your list of priorities when there's no food to put on the table. It had nothing to do with religion.

TheignT · 25/11/2024 17:28

QuaintAmberLion · 25/11/2024 12:38

What? I didn't suggest that aid should be cut off, or that people shouldn't fundraise. Just that it's dignified. To me that's no high principles that's just treating someone else like a fellow human being.

So are you saying they weren't treated with respect? I've never heard that. As I said if I'm starving and someone is giving me food I don't think I'm going to be fretting about them patronising me. I thought this was about other Africans objecting to Africa and Africans being depicted in a certain way that they don't like.

TheignT · 25/11/2024 17:32

noctilucentcloud · 25/11/2024 12:39

But it is very much a long the line of patients, particularly those with chronic conditions, being experts in managing things themselves. They might need help or tools or treatments, but it's very much working with a patient coaboratively not a medical person swooping in and telling them what has to happen.

I've only ever had one medical person sweep in and tell me what to do and that was a doctor who wouldn't accept I didn't want amnio due to my age. He was rude about it. Fortunately my Consultant was completely different and supportive. I've only ever had one experience like that and when I've needed treatment or an operation it has been a discussion. Same when 2 of my kids needed surgery. As long as the medical professional could do their job and listen to me I don't care if they've had some lecturer doing amateur psycho analysis with them about their motivation.

TheignT · 25/11/2024 17:35

Catza · 25/11/2024 12:44

Oh right, those lazy patients who can't help themselves how fortunate you can show them where they are going wrong.
I actually think your lecturers attitude is a dodgy as anyone who wants to help because it makes them feel good.

No @TheignT what you wrote above was the exact prevailing attitude in conventional medicine. The patient needs saving and the doctor is there guiding them to salvation. Modern therapeutic approach recognises the strengths of a human in front of them and works with them collaboratively. If you don't like this approach, it's ok. You have an ample choice of paternalistic old-school doctors out there still who can treat you as helpless patient not in control of their treatment.

See my previous post. No I don't need some lecturer doing amateur analysis on why people want a certain job and I have always, in over 70 years, found medical professionals were willing to listen and don't need your lecturer implying that we are all so stupid we can't advocate for ourselves. If you think he's right you have little respect for your patients.

AgnesX · 25/11/2024 17:40

Who gives a rats ass about Edd Sheeran.

However Africa and the poverty of some of its nations are something that we should and western governments need to do something to help.

xolotl · 25/11/2024 17:46

God, I never thought I’d say this but I’m with Ed Sheeran on this one. The reason we pay international aid is because we colonised Africa, stripped it of its natural resources and enslaved its people. That’s the wealth we used to build infrastructure, industry, the NHS - all the things that make us feel like a wealthy nation now. Consider it like interest on a loan if you like - we owe something to the rest of the world, for a long long time, if not forever.

If Bob Geldof gave such a shit he should round up his mates and get them all to pay their frigging taxes 😂

saraclara · 25/11/2024 17:48

I'm involved with some projects in one of the poorest African countries. The process and the aims are massively different from the way charities operated in the past.

All the small projects that I know aim for the groups to be totally self-sufficient within quite a short term. The resident westerners talk to the locals to find out what they want to do and for the result to be. Then they bring their knowledge of facilitating projects to the task.
They find local people to train the participants wherever possible (I'd say 95% of the time), they provide transport to towns where materials can be bought (the nearest sizeable town to these projects is almost four hours away) and they support until the group is fully trained (in things like book-keeping as well as whatever skill (sewing for example) and able to cut the strings. The financial help might only be at the beginning (say, funding for the sewing machines for sewing groups, and the tools for the carvers) and the rest is simply bringing project experience and general encouragement.

The only time that I've known foreign volunteers to come out to these projects is in areas where no locals have the expertise (for example a physiotherapist to do some basic training in handling and facilitating mobility for their disabled family member, for carers in the villages).

The reactive handouts thing isn't as common as it used to be, and safeguarding and careful management of funding is now paramount.

saraclara · 25/11/2024 17:52

...and on a more trivial note, even the title of this song is appallingly ignorant, given that most of Africa is Christian.
🙄

TheignT · 25/11/2024 17:54

How was Band Aid and Live Aid money actually spent? Did any money go to development after the immediate need for food was addressed. I don't know but I imagine some people do. I do know the BBC made allegations that the money went to buy arms but had to retract those allegations.

Are people just assuming the money went to the wrong people, was patronising people or do they have evidence?

Ihatelittlefriendsusan · 25/11/2024 17:54

Jeremy Vine was discussing this with Tony Hadley and a couple of the producers of Band said today, he asked Tony Hadley what je thought of the comment by Ed Sheeran. Tony Hadley said he would tell him to "shut up" the money has gone direct to projects that have helped. He asked if anyone would anyone stop Children in Need etc because essentially they offer the same support and the projects they fund should be funded by the government.

No one in this day and age should be living in those conditions.

I don't for a second think the government funds issued to countries in need is spent in the right way, and as has been suggested, corrupt officials have always misappropriated the finds.

Why should race (or any other characteristic for that matter) matter? Surely any publicity to highlight the plight people are facing is good?!

Catza · 25/11/2024 18:04

TheignT · 25/11/2024 17:35

See my previous post. No I don't need some lecturer doing amateur analysis on why people want a certain job and I have always, in over 70 years, found medical professionals were willing to listen and don't need your lecturer implying that we are all so stupid we can't advocate for ourselves. If you think he's right you have little respect for your patients.

You comment is highly bizarre as nowhere did I mention my lecturer making any comments about patients. I guess, it is best not to derail the thread which isn't at all about that. I was replying to someone other than you who asked me a very specific question about examining intrinsic motivators.

ARealitycheck · 25/11/2024 18:18

MsMarch · 25/11/2024 14:27

You have absolutely no idea what you are talking about. Lots of these young African people are working alongside these students. Difference being... they have to be paid. Which often isn't possible becuase... did you know that there are huge economic challenges in large parts of Africa and communities don't have the resources. And I bet your next point will be ,"well, if they're out of work as so many people are, perhaps they should use free labour as a way to get experience and contacts then" but that completely and totally misses the deep seated challenges experienced by these communities.

If you've never been part of these communities then you really have no idea. Many of these projects whether they're about education or health or welfare simply cannot be funded without outside support. The one my brother works on, for example, now employs over 200 people, the vast bulk of whom are local. The funding received from international donors supports their training, pays their salaries (which often also has to include accomodation and transport as it's in very rural areas) all so that they can provide educational services in the broader community and yes, further training for others. They are building generational wealth by helping children achieve sufficient education to go to university or get better jobs, often that then feeds back into their communities in terms of skills and cash. It's a virtuous cycle and yes, part of it started with bring loads of young rich people from westernised countries to visit and help.....

Feel like i need to edit to add that I'm not suggesting that teenagers bujilding orphanages is the holy grail of helping African communities! I'm just making the point that all of this is a great deal more complicated than you seem to think it is.

Edited

But none of these projects require an entirely unskilled teenager from the UK to go on a gap year pretend job.

Google Africa volunteer and you will get site after site of self serving companies, offering gap year vounteering with the company organising making fortunes when you look on company house.

ARealitycheck · 25/11/2024 18:18

Ihatelittlefriendsusan · 25/11/2024 17:54

Jeremy Vine was discussing this with Tony Hadley and a couple of the producers of Band said today, he asked Tony Hadley what je thought of the comment by Ed Sheeran. Tony Hadley said he would tell him to "shut up" the money has gone direct to projects that have helped. He asked if anyone would anyone stop Children in Need etc because essentially they offer the same support and the projects they fund should be funded by the government.

No one in this day and age should be living in those conditions.

I don't for a second think the government funds issued to countries in need is spent in the right way, and as has been suggested, corrupt officials have always misappropriated the finds.

Why should race (or any other characteristic for that matter) matter? Surely any publicity to highlight the plight people are facing is good?!

Lets be fair, Children in need has it's critics also.

tellmewhenthespaceshiplandscoz · 25/11/2024 18:59

When ES says "the narrative has changed" I wonder exactly what has changed in the ten years since he was last very happy to be involved in his version of Band Aid?

Or is just now worrying that his involvement then is as problematic as has it been produced now?

TheignT · 25/11/2024 19:04

ARealitycheck · 25/11/2024 18:18

Lets be fair, Children in need has it's critics also.

Everything has it's critics from what I can see.

Lallydallydune · 25/11/2024 19:40

I hate being called a white saviour. It's really irritating!

I volunteered in a charity that happened to be helping white people. People were happy that I did it.

When I volunteered to help in a charity that primarily helped people with a different skin colour to mine, I was called a white saviour by someone.

So should we only help white people then ?

It doesn't make sense

NooNakedJacuzziness · 25/11/2024 19:45

saraclara · 25/11/2024 17:52

...and on a more trivial note, even the title of this song is appallingly ignorant, given that most of Africa is Christian.
🙄

I think it's meant to suggest that in 1984 people were starving to death in their thousands and Christmas that year might just possibly have slipped their minds

LlynTegid · 25/11/2024 19:49

I don't think we should stop aid to developing countries in Africa and elsewhere, however I think it could be better applied.

The continent has changed a lot since 1984, and in any case Ed Sheeran's contribution should have been with his consent.

AlecTrevelyan006 · 25/11/2024 19:49

PenguinIce · 25/11/2024 14:29

Does the song still make money for charities? Is so it seems silly to cancel it, can’t the lyrics just be changed instead.

I get the point that the song is factually incorrect but did find Ed Sheeran’s recent social media post annoying the way he hoped his (new!) personal stance was a forward facing one. He isn’t worried about the song he just doesn’t want to get cancelled.

Yes, every time it is played on the radio, tv or streaming service it makes money for Band Aid.