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It's a shame that Hollywood results in women ruining their looks whilst the men carry on regardless (Wicked)

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ByCoolWriter · 23/11/2024 20:02

I've been looking at videos of the lovely Cynthia from the Wicked movie a few years ago. She looked wonderful and healthy. Now her face is all sharp angles. The same for Ariana who looks dangerously thin. I've heard many say that it's the gruelling film schedules etc but I don't see the male members looking like a lettuce leaf would fill them up.
Isn't it sad that actresses still feel this need to look a certain way whilst men don't

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LikeWhoUsesTypewritersAnyway · 24/11/2024 10:45

BoopityBoop · 23/11/2024 23:43

I think with Ariana, she's likely had some subtle work which is why it's hard to put your finger on it and she's lost weight but we're also used to seeing her a bit more tanned. The hair colour and complexion also wash her out.

It's like she is keeping herself in some sort of childlike frame. It's unrealistic. I don't know if it's the industry or herself. Some of the recent interviews were odd for both main characters, which I thought was either tiredness or hunger, or both.

On the flip side, during the movie I had to give myself a talking to - I had a fleeting thought that I should really try and get down to that size. I'm a fully grown adult and I hate to think what young girls might be thinking of Ariana's weight.

Ariana has had more than 'just some subtle work' done. Compared to how she looked in Victorious and Cat and Sam (aged 17 to 20-ish,) she looks like a different person. And I agree she is bone thin now. I hadn't looked properly at how she looks in 'Wicked' and thought 'oh well she has always been petite.' But right now she is so thin that she looks gaunt and fragile. And her hair is very thin too. She looks ill!

Pics 1 & 2 are Ariana from around 11-13 years ago at around 18-20 years old, and pics 3 & 4 are her now at 31. The difference is staggering. It's very sad that she felt she had to change how she looks, and look a certain way - because she was very pretty before. Now she looks really ill.

I know people change/evolve over the years (especially from teens to mid to late 20s,) but this is not a positive 'before and after!' And almost everyone I know looked/looks like the same person at 30 that they looked like at 17-18, just maybe a bit less puppy fat and a different dress sense and a slightly different hairdo.

My old primary school teacher who I hadn't seen since I was 11 (when she left the area,) saw me when I was 36, (25 years later) with my children, and recognised me instantly. Ariana is unrecognisable from her former self. I would NEVER have thought pics 1 & 2, were the same young woman as pics 3 & 4. (Just over a decade later!)

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It's a shame that Hollywood results in women ruining their looks whilst the men carry on regardless (Wicked)
It's a shame that Hollywood results in women ruining their looks whilst the men carry on regardless (Wicked)
It's a shame that Hollywood results in women ruining their looks whilst the men carry on regardless (Wicked)
It's a shame that Hollywood results in women ruining their looks whilst the men carry on regardless (Wicked)
LikeWhoUsesTypewritersAnyway · 24/11/2024 10:45

Conversely, Victoria Justice who was in Victorious with Ariana... First 2 pics were her in 2010 (aged 17,) and second 2 are her now, aged 31. Looks virtually the same, and doesn't look like she has had anything done! I wonder why? Less worldwide exposure maybe? Stepped back from fame a bit? She is gorgeous!

It's a shame that Hollywood results in women ruining their looks whilst the men carry on regardless (Wicked)
It's a shame that Hollywood results in women ruining their looks whilst the men carry on regardless (Wicked)
It's a shame that Hollywood results in women ruining their looks whilst the men carry on regardless (Wicked)
It's a shame that Hollywood results in women ruining their looks whilst the men carry on regardless (Wicked)
mrstumbler · 24/11/2024 10:53

Wellingtonspie · 24/11/2024 09:50

The industry as a whole is dog eat dog. They groom children into the characters they want them to be as adult actors. How many child stars have actually come out the other side unharmed.

Ag whole thing was is this tiny little cute girl. She’s been so tanned and sculpted people thought she was at some points black then so light and blonde, her tv characters where always the tiny ditzy stupid hehe haha poor little girl types. Sam and cat and victorious. Her poor co star in Sam and cat did put out quite a bit about it. And yes she’s always been small But again not skeletal but the industry will of made her that way.

It preys on talented yet vulnerable people.

Jesus Christ she looks like a different race

cheezncrackers · 24/11/2024 10:53

The face lifts, nose jobs, fat removal and injectables are awful too. This week there were pictures in the press of Christina Aguilera - she's totally unrecognisable! And look at Sharon Osborne - she looks like a cadaver after taking Ozempic and all the face lifts and other procedures she's had over the years. The number of actresses and singers who look nothing like their original selves is horrendous. Their faces have been so altered by procedure after procedure that they barely look human any more.

There are a few men though that look bloody awful too - Mickey Rourke, Zac Efron, Sylvester Stallone, Tom Selleck, Michael Jackson, Barry Manilow ... there are loads who look dreadful.

Wellingtonspie · 24/11/2024 10:57

Yes agree about Efron and Stallone, Jackson looked like a wax works. Just because we found and created such drugs and procedures doesn’t mean they are good things.

Madonna frankly scares me.

Hopefully one day the world will look back in horror at these plastic celebs.

mrstumbler · 24/11/2024 11:03

Zak Efron has ruined his face. He blames breaking his jaw back in 2013 whenever it was, but his face was completely normal up until a couple of years ago! He looks like a different person now. Ridiculous!

rewilded · 24/11/2024 11:11

Zac Efron was in a serious car crash so had to undergo facial surgery.

Salacia · 24/11/2024 11:12

mrstumbler · 24/11/2024 11:03

Zak Efron has ruined his face. He blames breaking his jaw back in 2013 whenever it was, but his face was completely normal up until a couple of years ago! He looks like a different person now. Ridiculous!

Also quite a good example of the toxic body standard for men in Hollywood - no way he wasn’t abusing steroids for the Iron Claw.

Questionary · 24/11/2024 11:15

Oh thin is VERY much back in

Seen Victoria beckham lately? Always been very very slim but now looks frail and extremely unwell.

KimberleyClark · 24/11/2024 11:34

LikeWhoUsesTypewritersAnyway · 24/11/2024 10:45

Ariana has had more than 'just some subtle work' done. Compared to how she looked in Victorious and Cat and Sam (aged 17 to 20-ish,) she looks like a different person. And I agree she is bone thin now. I hadn't looked properly at how she looks in 'Wicked' and thought 'oh well she has always been petite.' But right now she is so thin that she looks gaunt and fragile. And her hair is very thin too. She looks ill!

Pics 1 & 2 are Ariana from around 11-13 years ago at around 18-20 years old, and pics 3 & 4 are her now at 31. The difference is staggering. It's very sad that she felt she had to change how she looks, and look a certain way - because she was very pretty before. Now she looks really ill.

I know people change/evolve over the years (especially from teens to mid to late 20s,) but this is not a positive 'before and after!' And almost everyone I know looked/looks like the same person at 30 that they looked like at 17-18, just maybe a bit less puppy fat and a different dress sense and a slightly different hairdo.

My old primary school teacher who I hadn't seen since I was 11 (when she left the area,) saw me when I was 36, (25 years later) with my children, and recognised me instantly. Ariana is unrecognisable from her former self. I would NEVER have thought pics 1 & 2, were the same young woman as pics 3 & 4. (Just over a decade later!)

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Her eyes and jaw are a completely different shape.

mrstumbler · 24/11/2024 11:34

rewilded · 24/11/2024 11:11

Zac Efron was in a serious car crash so had to undergo facial surgery.

Since when ?? Whenever he's spoken about his jaw he said it's because he broke it and the muscles in his face kept growing

mrstumbler · 24/11/2024 11:35

@Salacia He is huge in that film, I agree

Cotonsugar · 24/11/2024 11:35

I’ve noticed that older male actors seem to have dyed hair more than they used to. Or
maybe they always have and I’ve only just noticed 😊

CatsMagic · 24/11/2024 11:35

NooNakedJacuzziness · 24/11/2024 09:22

It's Madonna that makes me sad - she's the one who I thought would lead the way and buck the trend, show us the way to age and not give a shit what anyone else thought instead of succumbing to the surgeon. If you weren't around in the 80s you can't understand what an influence she was (like or her not).

I agree with you- I always thought Madonna could have led the way in being a woman in the public eye who allowed herself to age.

I haven’t seen Wicked yet but I have seen the Swarkovski ads with AG in and she looks like a child- this is not healthy.

I work in a mental health trust and our children’s wards have many patients with EDs, now I don’t work with patients but in my role I hear about how devastating it is for the staff working with these children and how poorly they are. I wish people would understand that this Hollywood look is not something to attain for - it’s deadly.

CharlieMagenta · 24/11/2024 11:43

I’ve been as thin as AG currently is twice in my life. My healthy weight is just over 8stone. I’m 5ft tall so people call me “tiny” even though I’m currently overweight for my height at 9stone and a size 12. First time I looked emaciated was when I worked in a school that was a 30 min walk uphill from my home. That was enough exercise to drop my weight to 7stone, despite my diet not changing at all, but probably because I was already small. AG was also already small, so an increase in physical activity could easily have caused her to drop a stone.
The second time I looked this thin was after having a baby and breastfeeding. I went from size 10 pre preg to size 6. I did have hyperemesis through my pregnancy so that may also have been a factor. I didn’t put on much weight until 2 years later and then piled on the pounds during lockdown.
Just saying, it’s not necessarily an ED when a small person looks very thin. Clearly it can also be, but none of us know, in this case.

isthismylifenow · 24/11/2024 11:47

It is really scary being a parent to teenagers these days. There has always been the thin models and celebrities, but not to this degree. How do young girls learn to accept themselves when this is what their role models are doing to themselves.

I saw a photo of Kate Beckinsale recently. I still don't believe it is her as there is no resemblance to how she used to look.

There is also a very vacant look in their eyes so much now. What is that all about?

OnlyinBlackandWhite · 24/11/2024 11:51

@gannett there is another thread running on the movie Wicked itself and the talents of the stars, which most have concluded are pretty amazing, vocally, but this one is about the worrying appearance of one of them and wider reflections on the quantity and health risk of that type of cosmetic work and weight-loss in the industry. My concern is genuine- I have a daughter recovering from an eating disorder, and AG is giving me those 'signs' which are not just about body weight as it happens, it also shows in the face and is not just about being an angular or a low weight body person naturally, it's also about muscle distribution on arms etc. I can see it because I recognise it and of course I'm concerned that this is being played to millions of young women on large screens without comment, because I also know how toxic the TikTok and Insta cultures are, again, not the eating disorder ones, but the ones about 'snacks' and 'clean eating' and trying on clothes- there is a huge move towards fragile and stick thin bodies which might be natural for a tiny proportion of people but not for most- plus the ramifications of being very low weight BMI carry on after weight is restored, the heart is a muscle and when muscle is lost through extreme dietary restriction the heart muscle itself is damaged.

OhBeAFineGuyKissMe · 24/11/2024 11:55

CharlieMagenta · 24/11/2024 11:43

I’ve been as thin as AG currently is twice in my life. My healthy weight is just over 8stone. I’m 5ft tall so people call me “tiny” even though I’m currently overweight for my height at 9stone and a size 12. First time I looked emaciated was when I worked in a school that was a 30 min walk uphill from my home. That was enough exercise to drop my weight to 7stone, despite my diet not changing at all, but probably because I was already small. AG was also already small, so an increase in physical activity could easily have caused her to drop a stone.
The second time I looked this thin was after having a baby and breastfeeding. I went from size 10 pre preg to size 6. I did have hyperemesis through my pregnancy so that may also have been a factor. I didn’t put on much weight until 2 years later and then piled on the pounds during lockdown.
Just saying, it’s not necessarily an ED when a small person looks very thin. Clearly it can also be, but none of us know, in this case.

But at 9stone and 5ft you are still in the healthy category.

OnlyinBlackandWhite · 24/11/2024 11:57

@CharlieMagenta I hear you, I was 'tiny' as a youngster and also affected by exercise like walking, just naturally very small. The health risks of low BMI still exist whether you are doing it deliberately or not which is why rapid weight loss or very low BMI needs to be reversed or treated by a doctor. If you are seven stone and 5ft you are still (just) in the healthy category anyway and that's not where I believe AG would be at all.

KimberleyClark · 24/11/2024 11:57

..,,,plus the ramifications of being very low weight BMI carry on after weight is restored, the heart is a muscle and when muscle is lost through extreme dietary restriction the heart muscle itself is damaged.

This is what killed Karen Carpenter. She was 32, a year older than AG is mow.

FanofLeaves · 24/11/2024 12:05

There will be some truth in that their weight will have naturally dropped due to the film being so physical and demanding- a good example is when Mila Kunis and Natalie Portman did Black Swan, they said in an interview that they initially felt pressure to ‘get down’ to the size and shape of a prima ballerina but found that the dance and general training for the role was so intense they found they dropped a lot of weight quickly without really adjusting their diets much at all. In fact they both said they enjoyed eating more as there was such a calorie deficit with all the exercise.

However, I think AG is using both a punishing physical regime coupled WITH restricted eating. I too can see the signs and to me there looks to be early signs of muscle loss as she’s lost every ounce of fat she had.

CharlieMagenta · 24/11/2024 12:06

OhBeAFineGuyKissMe · 24/11/2024 11:55

But at 9stone and 5ft you are still in the healthy category.

Just over 9stone and just into the overweight BMI. I carry all my weight on my waist (size 14) despite size 10 hips. I look 6 months pregnant.

UmbrellaEllaEllaElla · 24/11/2024 12:37

OhBeAFineGuyKissMe · 24/11/2024 10:22

Given the characters are supposed to be early 20s/late teens for the majority of the film (all when they are at university) they are all too old. Which adds to the pressure to have a “youthful” appearance- which for some translates to extreme thinness.

The film was always going to be massive - so they could have got some up and coming stars of the right age to play the roles. Less pressure on the actresses than for 30 year olds to look like teenagers.

Same with Bridget Jones, get an actress who is a size 14 to play the role - not a much smaller actress who yo-yo-ed in and out of the part.

I disagree that women have to stay perfect to do well in Hollywood - just look at Dame Judi Dench, Dame Maggie Smith, Kate Winslet, Emma Thompson. But there is a massive reduction in available roles for women generally, and middle aged ones in particular.

The actresses you've listed are all British. And Britain tends to not be quite so perfection oriented as America.

TempestTost · 24/11/2024 12:56

SpidersAreShitheads · 24/11/2024 06:21

I think the point is that the roles available to older men and women are very different.

And Nicole Kidman is a great example, actually. Shes always been naturally willowy so ticks that Hollywood requirement and she’s now plasticised her face so there are no wrinkles. The fact it looks a bit odd is less of a concern to studio bosses compared to choosing an actress who has aged naturally. As she fulfils the stereotypes for Hollywood, she still gets decent roles although I’d still argue her roles aren’t of the same type as male peers.

The reason men’s bodies are easier to attain is because society doesn’t have such ridiculous standards for men. Let’s take the dad bod for example. Perfectly ok to have a bit of a beer belly, still cast as a romantic lead and considered sexy. And that’s great.

How about a mum tum though? No actress has ever been celebrated for having a wobbly tummy. There are no magazine articles revering the “mum bod” complete with a muffin top as a sexy look. Contrast this to men and you’ll find loads of articles talking about how a dad bod is sexy.

Much more attainable healthy body ideals for men.

Even the recent trend for curvier women was unattainable for most. Very few woman manage to have big boobs, curvy bum and thighs while also maintaining a toned flat stomach and a tiny waist. To achieve that look, the majority of women need surgical help - and then go on to die because they’ve had a BBL.

I agree that there has been some movement in expectations towards men and there are more now experimenting with fillers and feeling the pressure to keep a ripped bod.

I think the point is though, if men think “aah fuck it, I’m not doing this shit” they’ll still enjoy success. Looking more wrinkled, greyer or even with a wobbly middle doesn’t affect their career. Hugh Grant, great example. Still considered very attractive despite very obviously ageing.

If a woman decides to age gracefully in the same way, society doesn’t view her in the same way. She won’t have the same career options that would be open to an equivalent male.

And the less well-known the actress is, the more this will apply. A true A-list actress is offered some grace because her name alone is such a huge pull. A La Nicole Kidman. Still doesn’t get the same opportunities as a man but not completely disregarded.

Now take a lesser known actress and actor - without the draw of a famous name, the woman will find opportunities much diminished. Not so the equivalent male actor.

Men and women are not treated equally by society, and we’re a very long way from achieving parity - and that includes women judging other women. Internalised misogyny is real, because it’s really hard to totally disregard the images and messages that society constantly bombards us all with.

We have a very long way to go, unfortunately.

Well, no, the roles open to men and women are not exactly the same.

But I think you are falling pry to some very serious confirmation bias here, and only thinking of films that fit into the idea you already have.

People like Tom Cruise or Liam Neeson are not getting the same kinds of roles young men in their 20s are getting, and even though they don't do superhero movies they are not guys with jiggly bodies - they are exercising and watching their diets.

Guys like Russel Crow, who is now very jiggly, are not playing roles where they are being presented as hot romantic leads, and he's sure as heck not taking his shirt off. He's able to get great roles because he's a great character actor even if he's no longer a heartthrob.

Young actors and the few older ones who are still doing superhero stuff are busting their asses staying fit in a way that's not all that healthy, and which in an older man takes a huge amount of time, and watching their diets. Hugh Jackman is not treating his body all that well and is likely to be feeling the effects of that.

And actresses who are older do actually have some very good roles now. Particularly on television which at the moment has a lot more for actors in general than film, and not just the ones who have managed to look like they are 30 - because mostly they haven't. They look like attractive women who are older. Some do transition into more character roles particularly if they've put on weight.

I think there are significantly more roles now for older women, and often more interesting ones than younger women get.

Fizbosshoes · 24/11/2024 13:03

This is AG in 2020, so not when she was a teen or adolescent, not all that long ago and she looks significantly different.

I do think a lot of celebrities have ED

It's a shame that Hollywood results in women ruining their looks whilst the men carry on regardless (Wicked)