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Should we be worried about war

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Seasidesand76 · 19/11/2024 11:45

Seen a lot in the news about Ukraine using USA missiles against Russia. I've been thinking more along the lines that it won't start a WW3 and will resolve at some point without the UK getting directly involved in war. But there seems to be more and more tension and threats of an all out war recently.

Should we be worried about WW3? I haven't been prepping or anything but does make me wonder if I should start getting a few days worth of food in case. At the same time I don't want to go down the prepper hole and start getting over the top.

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Lyannaa · 21/11/2024 02:43

AlecTrevelyan006 · 21/11/2024 00:02

People are forgetting that Putin isn’t a traditional dictator. He doesn’t really have an ideology, he’s essentially a mafia boss whose crime organisation is an entire country. He isn’t in it for anything other than power, money and respect. If it was ISIS or Iran I’d be worried about nukes, Putin knows if he does that he loses everything. He needs the war, to keep control of the population and knows ultimately that whatever happens it isn’t a war they can lose. The worst that can happen is Ukraine gets all of its land back and Russia loses nothing but a hundred thousand people from potentially secessionist areas of the country he would have knocked off or repressed anyway.

everyone on the right of US politics clutching their pearls are just making life easy for him and killing Ukrainians.

Agree with this.

Putin also blackmails the mothers of young sons to keep them off the front line. There are families repeatedly paying thousands to the Russian government so that their child doesn't end up being used as a pawn in this awful war.

Lyannaa · 21/11/2024 02:45

@Cnon that is a propaganda conspiracy website. Forgive me for not taking it seriously(!)

WhatMummyMakesSheEats · 21/11/2024 04:04

Yes. Though I’m more worried about Israel and any retaliation to them given we and the US clearly back their attacks. But the media won’t cover that.

Imbusytodaysorry · 21/11/2024 04:34

ByMerryKoala · 19/11/2024 12:22

No, I don't think so. It might make things more comfortable over a short while but the response to food security in the event of a war, would need to be state wide. Taunting yourself with the idea that you could mitigate this is just terrifying you more, offering you an avenue to ruminate over it and it wouldn't make any difference.

Personally, I'd wager the house that we won't end up in this situation. But I think being pragmatic about how minimally you could prepare for something like this might be a route out of this fear loop that you have found yourself in.

Can you explain. Why do you think this will not end in ww3? What do you think will happen ?

Artistbythewater · 21/11/2024 04:58

Imbusytodaysorry · 21/11/2024 04:34

Can you explain. Why do you think this will not end in ww3? What do you think will happen ?

I can’t answer for the other poster. This won’t end in a WW because no one wants that. Russia can’t afford it, China have slipped away quietly, the US want security not war and EU definitely have no appetite. So apart from Iran stoking it up - no major players are interested. That’s my view.

This will end in an uneasy truce. Russia will get the Dombass (probably) Ukraine will bolster their security by joining the alliances of the west.

Annabella92 · 21/11/2024 05:14

StandingSideBySide · 21/11/2024 01:20

Doesn’t really help older adults according to research
Good for younger people though

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Copperoliverbear · 21/11/2024 06:00

I'm so worried we are going to have to go through this all because nutters run countries and Biden should not be allowed to make big decisions now he lost the election, they should be able to get him out now on medical grounds, they should not have to wait,he's not all the ticket and is escalating things.

Hididi11 · 21/11/2024 06:37

It's actually really scary times

Each time I watch the news I get freaked out.

Teeh · 21/11/2024 07:03

Hididi11 · 21/11/2024 06:37

It's actually really scary times

Each time I watch the news I get freaked out.

It is. The news headlines

Teeh · 21/11/2024 07:04

Hididi11 · 21/11/2024 06:37

It's actually really scary times

Each time I watch the news I get freaked out.

Sorry posted too soon. The news headlines are getting more scary an frequent every day at the moment

Mayana1 · 21/11/2024 07:07

LBFseBrom · 20/11/2024 23:59

I had never heard of 'prepping' either, Mayana. I realised it meant the same as 'stockpiling', which we were advised not to do at the start of the pandemic. I have memories of living surrounded by boxes of toilet rolls and tins of food :-). Well done you for not watching the news on TV, however it's impossible to avoid it altogether. What will be will be and there's nothing we can do except encourage everyone to strongly object to, and campaign against, going to war.

We shouldn't be even thinking of it. War in today's world, when we have everything to live nice lives without it? If only they would use the power and money to feed the world instead. So sad!

Ch0cDr0p · 21/11/2024 07:44

Did anyone living in the 70s/80s refer to the Cold War as that at the time or feel like they were living through a war? I ask as I feel this period in time will be reflected on as a time of war, it's going on already like many others before it - Iraq, Afghanistan etc.

An article on the BBC last night was mildly reassuring, that all of the sudden escalation is because both Ukraine and Russia are wanting to get in the best position for when Trump comes in and tries to negotiate. The side with the upper hand will get more of what it wants, and 'the west ' doesn't want that to be Russia.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/c8jyvv1l99wo

Here's hoping for a more peaceful 2025, as a nation we have been bombarded with shit for so many years, we are still the lucky ones in our paradise but it all takes a mental toll - recessions, Covid, COL, then these wars all kicking off.

Two female residents in Odesa comfort each other after a Russian missile strike on November 17, 2024

Russia and US battle for advantage in Ukraine war ahead of Trump's return

Moscow appears to be maximising its gains while Joe Biden abandons long-held red lines at the end of his presidency.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/c8jyvv1l99wo

Artistbythewater · 21/11/2024 07:47

Hididi11 · 21/11/2024 06:37

It's actually really scary times

Each time I watch the news I get freaked out.

Well stop watching it! They are doing it quite deliberately to increase their viewing figures

notimagain · 21/11/2024 07:50

Did anyone living in the 70s/80s refer to the Cold War as that at the time

Yes, and if you were a follower of news were aware of the various proxy wars that were going on around the globe, and also had also half a clue as to the tensions behind the Iron Curtain such as events in Poland in 1980.

SuperfluousHen · 21/11/2024 07:50

Tigger1895 · 20/11/2024 22:08

It was past time for someone to stand up and take action, it’s now over 1000 days and NK has entered the fray. Russia isn’t going to stop if they take Ukraine.

You’ve listened to too much propaganda.

Tigger1895 · 21/11/2024 07:57

SuperfluousHen · 21/11/2024 07:50

You’ve listened to too much propaganda.

And you seem to have lost your empathy

SuperfluousHen · 21/11/2024 08:03

Tigger1895 · 21/11/2024 07:57

And you seem to have lost your empathy

One can possess empathy and the ability to recognise nonsense at the same time.

SoiledMyselfDuringSomeTurbulence · 21/11/2024 08:09

1dayatatime · 20/11/2024 22:58

@SoiledMyselfDuringSomeTurbulence

"None of this mentions the level of corruption in Ukraine as against other societies. "

True but this link does and shows Ukraine (and also Russia tbf) that although they have both improved over the last 20 years they still have some of the worst corruption in the northern hemisphere, for example worse than say Zambia.

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/CorruptionPerceptionss_Index

It ranks Ukraine 104th out of 180 countries in the world, so nowhere near the claim that the poster made and around the middle of the pack as I said. Nobody thinks Ukraine is without corruption, but the idea that it's one of the worst in the world is completely fanciful. The poster will not be able to back her assertion up, because it's bollocks.

Not sure where hemispheres comes into it, but even a quick look at the bottom of that list shows lots of northern hemisphere countries. Syria, South Sudan, Yemen, Afghanistan, North Korea, Libya and Haiti are all in the bottom dozen. Ukraine are not one of the most corrupt countries in the northern hemisphere either. You'd have to be using a very strangulated definition.

Tigger1895 · 21/11/2024 08:21

SuperfluousHen · 21/11/2024 08:03

One can possess empathy and the ability to recognise nonsense at the same time.

I’m sure those being bombed appreciate you calling it nonsense.

Lyannaa · 21/11/2024 08:26

Copperoliverbear · 21/11/2024 06:00

I'm so worried we are going to have to go through this all because nutters run countries and Biden should not be allowed to make big decisions now he lost the election, they should be able to get him out now on medical grounds, they should not have to wait,he's not all the ticket and is escalating things.

Biden is being advised by professional career politicians who have served time in military operations, not to mention being academics who will be giving him sensible advice.

If you think that the clowns who Trump is hiring this time around for Trump 2.0 would be able to run a piss up in a brewery or understand the first things about strategy or foreign policy then you'd be very foolish. He may as well have hired Mickey Mouse. Things are going to be much worse than last time he was president and I think the world will be less safe with him in power than it is now.

Rottweilermummy · 21/11/2024 08:51

Seasidesand76 · 19/11/2024 11:45

Seen a lot in the news about Ukraine using USA missiles against Russia. I've been thinking more along the lines that it won't start a WW3 and will resolve at some point without the UK getting directly involved in war. But there seems to be more and more tension and threats of an all out war recently.

Should we be worried about WW3? I haven't been prepping or anything but does make me wonder if I should start getting a few days worth of food in case. At the same time I don't want to go down the prepper hole and start getting over the top.

I felt same after reading some reports, it's looking increasingly worrying, and wondered if I should start getting a fee extra bits in, but I also think it's got to be resolved surely before it gets much worse it's quite scary with Russia, China and North Korea all run by nutballs. I then wonder how much of the news is fake and scaremongering people, as so many different reports saying different things 🤔 some obviously doing a good job at scaring us. Just pray that there is an end to this situation very soon 🙏🙏, I mean at moment we're lucky wee not in the middle of it, just feel for all the innocent people in Russia & Ukraine living in middle of this for last 2- 3 years, and also the Israelis and Palestinians. Just awful

1dayatatime · 21/11/2024 08:52

@SoiledMyselfDuringSomeTurbulence

"Not sure where hemispheres comes into it, but even a quick look at the bottom of that list shows lots of northern hemisphere countries. Syria, South Sudan, Yemen, Afghanistan, North Korea, Libya and Haiti are all in the bottom dozen. Ukraine are not one of the most corrupt countries in the northern hemisphere either. You'd have to be using a very strangulated definition."

Ukraine is extremely corrupt, this is a fact and for any European nation to have a corruption ranking worse than say Zambia is inexcusable.

And being 104th out of 180 countries whilst claiming to be a normal western European democracy is fanciful.

SoiledMyselfDuringSomeTurbulence · 21/11/2024 08:56

1dayatatime · 21/11/2024 08:52

@SoiledMyselfDuringSomeTurbulence

"Not sure where hemispheres comes into it, but even a quick look at the bottom of that list shows lots of northern hemisphere countries. Syria, South Sudan, Yemen, Afghanistan, North Korea, Libya and Haiti are all in the bottom dozen. Ukraine are not one of the most corrupt countries in the northern hemisphere either. You'd have to be using a very strangulated definition."

Ukraine is extremely corrupt, this is a fact and for any European nation to have a corruption ranking worse than say Zambia is inexcusable.

And being 104th out of 180 countries whilst claiming to be a normal western European democracy is fanciful.

No it's not actually. 'Extremely' isn't a factual term.

What is a fact, though, is that there's no data to back up the claim that it's one of the most corrupt countries in the world and it's not one of the most corrupt in the northern hemisphere. Which still leaves plenty of room for Ukraine to have a corruption problem, as indeed it does, so this is a very odd choice of hill for you to die on.

Lyannaa · 21/11/2024 09:19

This Ukraine 'corruption' idea comes from the alternative right Qanon folk from 4chan etc.

SoiledMyselfDuringSomeTurbulence · 21/11/2024 09:27

Corruption certainly exists in Ukraine, and people are entitled to their own personal barometers on how much they find unacceptable, no argument with that unless they apply double standards. But the idea that it's anywhere near the worst is indeed some far right nonsense.

Not everyone who believes it is far right, but they do have to be gullible enough not to recognise it for what it is.