My DH is the best person I know.
He's very thoughtful. I've had a tricky week at work so yesterday he surprised me with some flowers and a very nice bottle of wine. I work term time only and every summer he takes the kids away for a few days so that I can have a proper break. He will run me a bath or order my favourite takeaway, just because. We've been together 20 years, we have demanding jobs and 2 kids with SEN so life isn't always easy but he always finds time to make me feel special.
I've never had to mother him the way some of my friends have to with their partners. He's reliable, has never let me down, stays calm and takes charge in a crisis in a way that makes me feel very safe. He is also really funny, and finds joy in little things which encourages me to do the same as I can be quite cynical.
He is kind, patient and tolerant but also strong and will stand up for what's right. He also stands up for others and calls out sexism, racism or homophobia when he sees it which I find very attractive.
He's a brilliant Dad. Children just gravitate towards him and he loves being with the kids. He is a very involved and present Dad who does his share of sick days, appointments and school stuff although he works longer hours than me. Most importantly, he wants to do these things.
He is the sort of man who always notices and checks in on friends/colleagues if they don't seem quite themselves. He's a great listener, the sort of person that people open up to.
He's also really good in bed, which isn't the most important thing but given how clueless or selfish many men are in that department I don't take it for granted.