If you could say something out loud you knew you could never say, what would it be?

[twistandshoutloud]

I'll go first.

I wish I could tell my SIL that I dislike her so much and I wish she'd never met my BIL. I hate that she is now part of our family. She came to disrupt our (far from perfect but lovely) family. I hate the way she treats my BIL. I hate how she makes everyone pander to her every whim. How all her messages are passive aggressive and how rude she is to my MIL. I could never say this out loud of course, but I dream of it often.

Feels good getting that out of my chest.

Anyone else feel free to add.

Mounjaro has damaged you so much. You're skeletal and pale, and I'm worried about your lack of energy and about the way you're now more obsessed with weight than you ever were. You are abusing the system in order to get your hands on more, and that system is so fucking easy to abuse. I am scared that your organs will start to fail. I am scared that you're allowed to use this drug even with your history of addiction and MH problems, and I want you to know that you were worth just as much when your body was bigger. And I love you.

yes I am with you on all this

I would say to the over bearing mum in school that no you are not popular, its just that most of the others are scared of you.

This is so sad. I hope you do feel able to tell him.

He doesn't like you, let alone love you. You should split up & I'm tired of pretending to agree with you that things might get better. They won't.

Who uses typewriters anyway?

It wasn’t a heartless comment.Someone just said what they felt.Nobody will ever know what people have been through on this thread, including the poster who made a comment.The point was someone who ends their life isn’t a coward, which is what l understand from the comment.
There are going to be comments others will find upsetting, relatable, it’s not ok to call someone heartless.

To my cousin: Fuck you, you cold hearted bitch of a cousin of mine. I'm entitled to see my grandmother just as much as you are.

You're a cold cruel evil cow.

And it wasn't my fault that my dad abandoned me. I was a child when he did it!

And you told me it was my fault.

I have never gotten over what you did. You cruel, cold, nasty person. I didn't deserve it.

I'd tell my mum that I know she's telling people I wasn't abused by my Ex-Husband and that all she's doing is giving him more ammunitian to abuse me and my DC. She'll claim she's protecting her GC but she's doing the eaxct opposite.

I think the crux of it is, my auntie tells them she’s fine and they believe her as it’s easier.

It’s actually your job to tell them this. Please tell them asap and save their future partners/flatmates etc from having to do it.

I would tell my new boss that he is just another in the long line of identikit ex- banker wankers in khaki and plaid that we’ve had who have zero creativity or ideas and that in another year he’ll be gone because we don’t need anymore bean-counting, white, straight public school boys to state the obvious.

He’s not a bad person, he’s just dull, unimaginative, and talks in such corporate bullshit that no/one really knows what he’s on about.
And if doesn’t stop dropping into conversation the time he climbed the mountain, or swam the lake or ran the other thing because he’s such a fucking WINNER one of us will have to tell him that his insecurities are so obvious he may as well be carrying a blank or and a pacifier around with him.
Twat.

I would tell a close friend she is a horrible person is never happy in any relationship always thinks the grass. Is greener, tricked her now DP into a baby forced him to propose and now is "talking" to her ex (who she cheated on numerous times) while planning a wedding . I can't say anything though as there are children involved and I won't be the cause of their family being torn apart

I would like to go into the hospital who took me off the waiting list for urgent hip replacement by mistake without telling me thus making me wait another year. I want to go in there and scream the place down and trash everything I see. But unfortunately Im british and we dont do things like that.

At least wait until they give you the hip and then trash the place 😂

Oh, and I would tell BIL to leave her. She’s controlling, unpleasant, difficult and none of us really like her very much. He could do better.

"Your child is rude and whiny. You let him get away with murder and he treats you and everyone else like garbage. Your lack of discipline is making a rod for your own back. Tell him off when he is being an idiot and stop blaming other people or circumstances for things your child is doing. Nobody made him do it. He is no more "overtired" than any other child. He doesn't have special needs just because he doesn't want to do his homework. The teacher isn't picking on him. His classmates not wanting to play with him is not him being bullied. He is not being deliberately excluded from birthday parties and playdates because of the parents. Your child is rude and awful to other children and other children withdrawing is the consequence of his dreadful attitude and horrible treatment of them. Wake up!"

😂😂😂

Your job isn’t what you say it is. You’re not in this big, important role it’s a minor version of what you pretend it is. You don’t know that I know. But that is what you both do constantly, exaggerate everything to look like you have more money. You are very insecure I suspect. I also know about you positioning yourselves favourably for the inheritance. There’s more to life than money.

@GC5 I really wish I could but what would I say?

To a former friend who it turned out was gaslighting me, making up shit about me and tried to turn everyone I knew against me.

How did that work out for you?

Oh divorced, fat, childless and alone.

Karma is a bitch.

You will die alone because you are a terrible person.

Stop moaning to me about the idiot at work and do something about it. They are crap at their job, they never do any work and they disrupt everything. Manage them out of the role...it's easy given the opportunities you have with their constant lack of performance. I'm sick of hearing about it.

You treat your wife like she's a dishrag, she doesn't deserve it. If only she had the guts to leave you given all of your shagging around, but you control her, constantly checking up on her, ringing her making out you're 'concerned'...it's all bollocks...coercive control, that's what it is...but you won't think about that the next time your in a hotel paid for by the hour shagging the latest one....I hate this word, but you're a proper cunt.

Stop being offended because you're now known as Olivia, when you're clearly still an Oliver. A bad make up job, a dress and false tits do not disguise from the fact YOU'RE STILL A FUCKING MAN!! Stop invading spaces that are only for women. You're not a woman, and you still won't be one even if you have your cock and bollocks chopped off and hormones to make you grow tits. Stop making women suffer just because you think you're something that you're not.

Now that the Archbishop of Canterbury has fell on his sword, it's about time you looked at yourself with what you know about the abuse you've helped to cover up....for once in your life DO THE RIGHT THING! You never will....a long, slow, painful death is too good for you....you're utter scum and you know it, but you hide behind religion and the protection it so wrongly provides for you.

@cookiebee "To everyone who thinks the uk is such a shit finished country, literally every other country has the same perceived or real issues, and as far as countries go, we have won the lottery, also sod off with specifically being able to slag off the English and get away with it!"

Thank you. Can we get some megaphones and stand somewhere and shout this loud

my not so D exh... you were an abusive asshole. I fed you and your stupid drunk friend dog food in the burgers that you woke me up at 2 am to make for you! you stupid fools did not even know , just gobbled them up. Also, the little sheltie that YOU bought and then said that you were allergic to ? Well , I used to take your pillow and rub it in his pet bed, so you would go sleep on the sofa! That dog and our daughter came with me in the middle of the night when we left you! Daughter is 36 this year and was adopted as a teenager when she had rights by her dad...my husband, who adores dogs and our lovely grandkids. Sorry (not ) to hear that you are living in a horrible little apartment and are unemployed and your family has disowned you (again, not) when you turned your abuse on them when I was no longer your punching bag. rot in hell.