If you could say something out loud you knew you could never say, what would it be?

[twistandshoutloud]

I'll go first.

I wish I could tell my SIL that I dislike her so much and I wish she'd never met my BIL. I hate that she is now part of our family. She came to disrupt our (far from perfect but lovely) family. I hate the way she treats my BIL. I hate how she makes everyone pander to her every whim. How all her messages are passive aggressive and how rude she is to my MIL. I could never say this out loud of course, but I dream of it often.

Feels good getting that out of my chest.

Anyone else feel free to add.

There are a lot of things that its connected charities are doing at the moment that I disagree with (evicting the spouses of veterans from their homes if the veteran dies, for example), so have also stopped supporting them.

I wear a poppy pin that I bought years ago to recognise Remembrance Day (bought from a specific military shop), but I won't be putting any more money in their tins each year.

I’m emotional anyway atm but some of you oh my gosh, life can be so unfair and cruel. I used to believe in karma but the older I get the less I do xx

To my best friend & her husband, please clean your absolute pigsty of a house. It is absolutely disgraceful and bordering on child abuse to your 2 poor kids, not to mention how you near on neglect your cats & dog. It isn't 'normal' just because you both work full time, you are just both lazy. The reason I never want to come round and have a cuppa/takeaway at yours is because it's impossible to relax. I can't even see the kitchen work tops or dining room table due to the amount of clutter and mess everywhere. I don't understand how you can live like that. There is dog shit in the garden and you let your kids play out there, yet send your kids to private school because you are a snob and look down at any school that isn't. You are not above anyone just because you send them to private school when you can't even clean your house.

I know lol. Tbh I have one friend I don’t always like (the ‘narc’), one who can be a bit of a downer but the others are all great.

I know what you mean . I feel a presence . I've also had a feeling of peace sweep over me and later found out that's the time the family member passed away. I've also thought about old acquaintances and colleagues out of the blue and then found out through obituaries or a text message that they have passed away . I think k there is more after we have passed away . Death is not the end .

I simply do not understand why you married that bald, right-wing, Reform-voting loud-voiced, lazy, arrogant rah pillock buffoon who prefers to shoot and play golf when he should be working. You were and still are beautiful - you had so many other options. I only put up with him because you’re the best sister in the world.

Don’t let your kids have Snapchat at the age of nine, you fucking morons.

When I was at my previous school with a lot of poor behaviour I would've really liked to tell some of my students to "Why don't you just fuck off. You don't want to be here and I don't particularly want you here either if you are going to behave like that".

I didn't ask for your opinion.

I wish I could tell my sister in law that her brother is a lying, unfaithful narcissist. His official dx is BPD with Covert narcissism, as a psychologist I wish she’d see that, but no, her brave brother can do no wrong,

Why wouldn't you tell them, particularly about the shower? They need to know how to clean things properly, don't want them ending up being THAT man who expects his partner to do all the cleaning just because she is female.

You say you want to go to University and become a doctor/lawyer/engineer/architect, but you won’t concentrate for long enough to read a short fiction book which has been created for entertainment purposes, and you protest when I set you any work to be done outside the 9am to 3.30pm school day.

You have a fairly big shock coming.

I fail to see anything controversial in that 🤔

I’d tell my child’s sports coach that he’s a vile man with a foul temper who needs to rein it in and stop throwing tantrums.

I'd like to tell my mum how much she hurt me by siding with my stepdad against me, agreeing with him throughout my entire child/teenhood that I was 'difficult' and 'headstrong' and then kicking me out of home to go to university and not letting me come back. I'd love to tell her that the reason I spiralled into really poor mental health at university, which led onto addiction issues, was because I was completely on my own at 18 with nobody looking out for me. I'd like to say how shit I think she is now with my own kids, who she barely sees compared to their cousins. I'd love to have a mum that cared about me the same way I care about my kids. But I'd only want to say this to hear her say she's sorry and mean it, though, and she won't, so there's no point in my saying anything. I just smile and maintain the status quo that we're a normal loving family.

To want to say autistic people are generally not quick to make new friends and the popular one in the year etc because they usually have social issues.

But likewise if someone doesnt have friends or not for long that doesnt mean they are autistic either. They could be mean or always causing arguments or just a bit selfish.
The nhs assessments seem rubbish and the form ask about behaviour but not about why the child does xyz. Severe issues would also affect school groupwork or sports teams.

Yeah i was reading these comments and thinking to myself i would have blurted out pretty much everything people are thinking. Not because i want to hurt or upset people. Just because it comes out my mouth before i have had a chance to think about it. Although comes in handy around dickheads when there being dicks and no one else has the balls to say anything

To my former boss - I wish I’d had the energy to sue for constructive dismissal when you pushed me and others out of the charity for holding GC views, which you made us attend - unlawful! meetings - to squirrel out of us. You are lucky that we all cared enough about the organisation to recognise you were a blip in its history, because if the way you ran the place came out, the organisation would likely have been destroyed as well as you. And while I can’t say this to your face because we have mutual friends and acquaintances, I am completely honest about why I left when I am asked. Now you are self employed, you have lost work because of it and I’m glad of that, even though it wasn’t my intention.

I want my f’’king garden finished! I don’t care that you are ‘tired’ get a blood test and some meds you f’’king cunt

I feel sorry for you that your boarding school crushed you and stopped you from real human feelings, but that you aren't suitable to be leading anyone.

cant really say much because i open my mouth if i have something to say.
I spent years biting my lip even at them that hurt me so now if i have something to say i will say it even if it hurts they hurt me enough.
So fuck it i'll speak up.

Oh, and to my SIL - stop moaning about how hard your life is. You are ridiculously privileged. Your parents bought you an expensive house outright, how dare you complain that it’s not exactly what you wanted? And don’t complain that you have to manage on a “low income” - you don’t have an income, you get an allowance from your mother even though you are on your 40s. If you want more money, get a job you lazy cow. Also, no, you’re not an artist - you have never competed a piece, let alone sold one. You have had every privilege and opportunity in life and squandered it. Stop fucking moaning that you are not happy and your life is hard and bloody do something about it.

I work in fraud and some customers are just unbelievable, I would love to be able to speak to them how they speak to staff who are actually trying to help them. I would also add a few choice words in for good measure!

Additionally the fraudsters who contact us trying to pretend they are the customer, I would love to be able to use the f-word to those ones 😆

I could have written this too. It's so painful, right?

You're not as intelligent as you think you are. You mansplain, yet you don't even know what that means. You actually scare me and I can't cope with your aggression and tantrums anymore. You hate being corrected by a woman. I think you actually hate women. Pretty convinced you have adhd or you're a psychopath. Or both. I think you lie a lot too. People in the family don't trust you. You talk way way way too much and you aren't even interested in listening. You're a know it all. It's embarrassing. You absolutely cannot be reasoned with. Oh and get a proper job and stop judging and hating everyone else.