I have a casual job as an events assistant & events hostess in the arts that I love. It is basically meet & greet, guest lists, pouring wine and smiling and making small talk about art, at private views and corporate private hires (I've worked with Event Organisers, I've done London Fashion Week, but Visual Arts is my field).
I call it my Belle du Jour job as at times it can feel like a fantasy like when I've been invited to work at rich peoples residences in Mayfair on behalf of an Art Gallery, there are several that call me for work. It's a total role I play; everything from the three black long sleeve sheer top dresses that I use, to my black suede heels to treating each evening as an exercise in charm: Sometimes, I pretend I'm an ambassador's wife in the 1950s, other times a Miss Moneypenny type. I have it almost down to an actress playing a role, along with certain rituals like removing any nail polish, not wearing any jewellery... Sometimes, it's not so glamorous and you feel like a housekeeper/maid, getting glasses, getting people's coats, mopping spillages, etc. I come from an Arts History background and I enjoy meeting people, so it is easy money (it is not very well paid). Often your are stuck talking to some old banker (the majority of patrons of art institutions are corporate wealth managers) and making sure they have a nice evening. I'm a reasonably looking 57 year old (my style icon is Isabelle Huppert) so there is little chance of being seen as a potential pick up! At the end of the night, I love the free taxi ride home from Mayfair to South London (ha!).
My other/real life is anything but glamorous! There were times after Covid that I was getting two buses to get to central London because my budget was so tight that £1.50 was all I could afford, and then entering this world of great wealth. Quite bizarre to have spent the evening chatting to Mr No.9 on the Sunday Times Rich list and then going home to a freezing cold house and bursting into tears. I also do office temping during the day to eke out a living.
I quite enjoy working and after being made redundant during Covid, would like my final 10 years to be as interesting as possible.