To find this really fucking disrespectful?

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My mum will ask repeatedly when she’s seeing dd 3. I have had to say I’m busy five times this week because on five occasions she’s asked me if I will bring dd round on Saturday. We are already seeing her on Sunday!!!!

No she’s not senile. No she’s not lonely, she’s got my dad, when she’s busy she isn’t interested if I need her. I find it so fucking disrespectful. I’ve had many rows with her about doing it but she won’t stop.

Definitely don’t think it is a health issue.

it’s so draining and I have told her I worry and feel immense guilt if I can’t arrange it when she’s asking and I’ve asked her to please stop and accept my answer. It lasts a week then she starts again.

I would just stop replying to messages and don't answer the phone.

Just say no.