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To worry about sweets from trick or treating…

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Backtoblack87 · 29/10/2024 22:38

Just had a horrible thought… when we go trick or treating, what if we are given dodgy sweets? I mean I know it isn’t likely but unless you know everyone you go to, how can you guarantee they aren’t giving your kid drugs?! Does this worry anyone else?!

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Moveoverdarlin · 29/10/2024 23:37

Aren’t most sweets in sealed wrappers? Yeah I wouldn’t be keen on my child eating Haribo or Celebrations that are unwrapped but it will all come sealed. I reckon you’ll notice the difference between Parma Violets and MDMA.

TheDowagerCountessofPembroke · 29/10/2024 23:38

shuggles · 29/10/2024 23:34

Somewhat bizarre that lots of people are feigning disbelief at the idea of someone giving away drugs for free, when that's literally what people do when they spike drinks in nightclubs.

The world is full of weirdos. Just avoid sweets from strangers.

So I’m a local nut job who has put some drugs in sweets and gone to the effort of resealing them. Then I give them to children who I never see again and I’m not there when they eat them. What am I getting out of this?

hamsterchump · 29/10/2024 23:38

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Did you figure it out when they all accidentally ran to Windsor?

hamsterchump · 29/10/2024 23:39

Shoppedatwoolworths · 29/10/2024 23:19

I cannot believe how everyone is telling OP they’re being ridiculous when this exact, or very similar, thing happens every single year…

When has it ever happened? It's the same urban legend repeated every year which Facebook and Mumsnet Huns then take as gospel.

BalletCat · 29/10/2024 23:40

Bibi12 · 29/10/2024 23:36

Those "strangers" are neighbours who happily participate in the tradition, they leave lit pumpkins outside of their house to invite children and everyone has a lot of fun.
You're honestly putting a lot of effort into twisting things to suit your negative narrative. Or maybe you don't understand Halloween.

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It's really no effort or a negative narrative. It's a genuine question.

I love Halloween, it's my favourite day of the year but I hate strangers knocking on my door it feels invasive.

hamsterchump · 29/10/2024 23:41

shuggles · 29/10/2024 23:34

Somewhat bizarre that lots of people are feigning disbelief at the idea of someone giving away drugs for free, when that's literally what people do when they spike drinks in nightclubs.

The world is full of weirdos. Just avoid sweets from strangers.

Not many drinks are spiked with anything apart from more alcohol either and don't even get me started on the non existent "needle" spiking.

hamsterchump · 29/10/2024 23:41

StarDolphins · 29/10/2024 23:07

I’m definitely going to eat all the sweets my DD gets, just to make sure…

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This is definitely the only sensible course of action.

Kibble29 · 29/10/2024 23:41

I think if someone’s this worried about drugs/razors/poison in sweets, just don’t let your kid go ToT. Not really worth the anxiety, surely.

SausageinaBun · 29/10/2024 23:42

My kids have been given the dipping sauces from Domino's. That was a bit odd.

BobbyBiscuits · 29/10/2024 23:42

If someone wanted to drug your kids with roofie sweets then there would be little point if the kid walks away and has no contact with them?
Then eats the sweets at home?
Honestly I'd say if you're really fussy just make sure the sweets are all in sealed packets before letting them eat it?
Plus it would be obvious who did it (not that they would) as you know where they live.

HalloweenHaribo · 29/10/2024 23:42

Shoppedatwoolworths · 29/10/2024 23:19

I cannot believe how everyone is telling OP they’re being ridiculous when this exact, or very similar, thing happens every single year…

Every single year a child receives drugs from a houses they've trick or treated at?

I must've missed the news bulletins?

TheDowagerCountessofPembroke · 29/10/2024 23:43

Just to get this straight.

I’m walking down the street and a random person approaches me for no reason and asks me for money because he’s homeless. I’ve given no indication that I want to give anyone any money or help.
This is begging.

It’s Halloween, and according to the tradition in my area I have decorated my house and bought sweets in. The decorations show that I am willing to take part in handing out sweets. Children knock on my door as ask for the sweets that I have bought especially and don’t want to eat myself.
This is also begging.

Kibble29 · 29/10/2024 23:44

SausageinaBun · 29/10/2024 23:42

My kids have been given the dipping sauces from Domino's. That was a bit odd.

Sour cream, I hope.

shuggles · 29/10/2024 23:44

TheDowagerCountessofPembroke · 29/10/2024 23:38

So I’m a local nut job who has put some drugs in sweets and gone to the effort of resealing them. Then I give them to children who I never see again and I’m not there when they eat them. What am I getting out of this?

I didn't say anything about you. I have no idea who you are.

As for "what you are getting out of this," people who are unhinged do things which bring absolutely no benefit to them. That's the very characteristic of mental illness; a person who is sane will behave and act in a way that's to their own benefit. a person who is insane will not be so rational and will do things that benefit no one.

What benefit was it to this twat to contaminate supermarket food? Nothing. But he did it anyway.

https://www.theguardian.com/uk-news/2021/aug/26/man-held-on-suspicion-of-contaminating-food-in-west-london-shops

Man held on suspicion of contaminating food in west London shops

Police say man allegedly injected food products using needles in three supermarkets on Fulham Palace road

https://www.theguardian.com/uk-news/2021/aug/26/man-held-on-suspicion-of-contaminating-food-in-west-london-shops

MrsChumleyWarner · 29/10/2024 23:45

I worried about the quality, age etc of sweets given to my girls when trick or treating. I let my kids do it, kept the sweets from family and friends and binned the rest.

murasaki · 29/10/2024 23:46

Well I've spent the last hour injecting jelly babies with crystal meth, so the OP is clearly on to something here.

tachetastic · 29/10/2024 23:47

BarbaraHoward · 29/10/2024 22:52

That's not what the trick refers to. The trick is the children doing a turn for their treat.

You actually know that this is not what trick or treat refers to, right?

It is a question whether the homeowner wants to accept a trick, or is willing to provide a treat.

MyHairIsCurly · 29/10/2024 23:47

Make sure your children only eat things that have wrapping and check the wrapping. when I was growing up in the 80s there were instances (in the US) where people had put razor blades inside apples etc. So your fear is not totally unfounded.

Tiredalwaystired · 29/10/2024 23:48

This is why I would always eat every last bit of the trick or treat haul.

Taking one for the team.

Great parenting.

FruityShampoo · 29/10/2024 23:48

I’d be more scared of the Crack Fox out there in the dark, with its diet of Head and Shoulders...Toothpaste...and shit...biiiiiiiiig pieces of shit.

HairyPie · 29/10/2024 23:49

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Conkersinautumn · 29/10/2024 23:49

It's easy enough to not go trick or treating to avoid the risk all together. I don't do it but I thought the 'rules' were:
Only houses you know
Only wrapped sweets.
Which seems sensible from a safety/ food safety aspect.

Kibble29 · 29/10/2024 23:49

murasaki · 29/10/2024 23:46

Well I've spent the last hour injecting jelly babies with crystal meth, so the OP is clearly on to something here.

On my way.

Peaceandquietandacuppa · 29/10/2024 23:50

What kind of crack dens are you knocking at??

For what it’s worth I do kind of inspect the sweets when we get home / take out anything that looks a bit weird or is opened.