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If you own a second home how do you get treated by locals?

213 replies

Poiul · 22/10/2024 12:59

Aware of the feelings towards second home owners on mumsnet. Does that contempt translate into real life is my question.

OP posts:
schloss · 25/10/2024 09:20

"so that the place does end up a ghost town other than July and August"

I think many of the areas being spoken about in this thread have moved on from only being busy in the summer, certainly where I am from it is busy all year round and that includes second homes being occupied.

It may be a tad quieter in certain months and on a personal level I far prefer it when it is not school holidays, but it is then many of the visitors who do visit their second homes, or holiday here outside of school holidays who continue to support the local businesses so they can continue to remain open all year round.

wiesowarum · 25/10/2024 09:55

THisbackwithavengeance · 24/10/2024 08:48

I haven't got a second home but if I could afford it and wanted it then I would without a second thought.

Who cares what neighbours think? This whole idea of disgruntled locals also irritates me. No one is forcing them to sell their homes to Londoners for ££££; why don't they sell it to a young local couple for £? Funnily enough, they don't.

Ridiculous hypocrisy. You don't own Cornwall or The Lake District just because you happened to be born there.

Entitlement level gold reached.

wiesowarum · 25/10/2024 09:56

Atsocta · 24/10/2024 11:48

We have a place In a little village in France everyone is lovely, we’ll we think they? are we hardly speak any French 🤷🏼‍♀️😂

Why don't you speak any French?

User19876536484 · 25/10/2024 10:11

wiesowarum · 25/10/2024 09:56

Why don't you speak any French?

She does.

Atsocta · 25/10/2024 10:15

wiesowarum · 25/10/2024 09:56

Why don't you speak any French?

We do ! 🙄 Still learning though ..

Caerulea · 25/10/2024 12:02

@GreenTeaLikesMe your points are so salient I'm wondering if you're either an MP or local councillor ;)

But yes - the issues are far far more complex than just 'urgh I don't like second homes it's greedy'. The consequences are almost impossible to roll-back too - which is where I think we're already at in parts of Cornwall, I'm not sure there's any way to fix it.

GreenTeaLikesMe · 25/10/2024 12:07

Caerulea · 25/10/2024 12:02

@GreenTeaLikesMe your points are so salient I'm wondering if you're either an MP or local councillor ;)

But yes - the issues are far far more complex than just 'urgh I don't like second homes it's greedy'. The consequences are almost impossible to roll-back too - which is where I think we're already at in parts of Cornwall, I'm not sure there's any way to fix it.

Thankfully I'm neither! ;) Most MPs I've seen just recycle populist talking points. There is a reluctance to engage the public in a grownup discussion about things like tradeoffs and difficult choices (and to be fair, the general public shows little interest in talking about this kind of stuff either).

Zippedydodah · 25/10/2024 14:12

My small village is slowly being bought up by Londoners wanting second homes. Small two up, two down cottages with a tiny garden and no parking are £1.5m+. There are also two big landowners scooping up farmland as it comes available ( one owns a multinational company, the other a huge import company) and buying cottages as weekend homes for their employees (who contribute absolutely sweet fa to the local economy but complain ad infinitum about the lanes being too narrow for their massive SUVs and that there’s no parking)
Locals don’t stand a chance of living here, the cheapest house for sale here at the moment is £750k, a tiny two bed bungalow with planning permission for demolition and rebuild.
It’s a miserable future for so many places.

justasking111 · 25/10/2024 15:19

We sold a rambling family 4 bed home 209 years old with a couple of acres in the village to a builder. Who proceeded to build a massive garage with rooms above. He ripped out many trees with no tpo on them, moved into the garage. Ripped apart the old house putting in sauna, steam room, managing to squeeze out two more bedrooms and two more bathrooms. Outside, BBQ, hot tubs, surround sound for music.

It's now a holiday let for ten at 2k a week.

It's become party central apparently. The whole village can hear the partying. It's a Jilly Cooper knocking shop the locals are saying.

The owner is living in the (cough) garage now a 2 bedroom cottage.

I feel so bad that we sold to them.

Blossomtoe · 25/10/2024 15:21

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WithManyTot · 25/10/2024 19:35

In our village 'locals' sold their old, cold, damp and drafty sea front cottages to 'óutsiders' wearing rose tinted glasses about living next to the sea, aand all the constant maintenance and hard work it involved. The rose tinted outsiders though these houses were worth a fortune, and the locals were only too happy that the outsiders bid up the value among themselves.

The locals move to the near by town, where all the jobs are and where prices were normal for the area, but there were many many new cars and holidays at the same time. Old cold money pits were swapped for cost efficient new builds, close to the amenities that the village never had. In the end the old Victorian primary school had to close, but with outsiders buying it for a small fortune, the council built a brand new school in the new town, with all brand new classrooms, sports facilities etc. The same happened to the doctors. All those who used to drive to an old doctors in the next village now walk to a brand new health centre in town.

The outsiders soon found out what it's like in these old houses and set about renovating them. The local builder has never had it so good and now employs more trades than ever before.

The old shop got replaced by a posh boutique for the outsiders and the pub became a 1* restaurant. The old village really busy in summer, but there no shortage of summer jobs for the DDs and their friends. Out of season it's nice to go to those places. Places that never existed before the outsiders came. Don't tell anyone, but they all have 'locals' discounts out of season.

Overall everyone seems to be a winner, but if you listened to one of two 'hard of thinking' types, this is now how it's all reported/seen

DdraigGoch · 27/10/2024 01:34

Lostsadandconfused · 23/10/2024 00:28

Mostly very well. We made a real effort to get to know people and join community groups, volunteer etc and have many local friends.

We used to spend more than 50% of our time there so it really actually was our ‘home’.

We built the house on a large rural property we already owned so weren’t taking existing housing stock.

I’m in Australia though and from the responses here it seems Australians are much more welcoming and less xenophobic than in the UK.

"Less xenophobic"? Have you seen how racist Australians can be?

The reason that there may be less hostility to second home owners possibly has something to do with Australia being a massive country with plenty of land to build on. I doubt that there are many places in Australia (other than those purpose built for holidays) which have less than half of their properties in permanent occupation. In Abersoch (which is situated in a part of the world which is otherwise as Welsh as it gets) Welsh people are a small minority. We're losing a language and culture. The school closed in 2021, the village is a ghost town in winter.

DdraigGoch · 27/10/2024 01:38

CitrineRaindropPhoenix · 23/10/2024 06:50

But people who are born and raised in London are told to suck it up and move out when talking about exactly the same problem.

If you want London boroughs to start taxing second homes and regulating AirBnBs, you'll hear no objection from me.

HotTopicsWithImogen · 27/10/2024 01:47

I never really see the point in having a spare house. You can only be in one place at a time can't you.

wiesowarum · 27/10/2024 05:04

HotTopicsWithImogen · 27/10/2024 01:47

I never really see the point in having a spare house. You can only be in one place at a time can't you.

The wealthier people are then the more 'spares' they often have - clothes/shoes, jewellery, cars, houses....not justifying it though, just observations.

Winter2020 · 27/10/2024 06:11

XChrome · 23/10/2024 01:44

I live in Canada and it's considered normal to have a holiday home, usually on a lake. Most often it's more of a rustic cabin, not some big fancy house. I live in my holiday home now and am trying to sell my city house. I can't see why anyone would judge anybody negatively for having a holiday home, since a large percentage of people do have them. In fact, people tend to be friendly in the hope you'll invite them to stay for a weekend.

That sounds very culturally different (the cabin on the lake) and most people would be all in favour of people buying a lodge/static caravan/apartment on a purpose built holiday site. It's residential property being taken out of circulation that is the problem contributing to a severe housing shortage.

Winter2020 · 27/10/2024 06:18

Whenim63 · 23/10/2024 07:15

@CitrineRaindropPhoenix agree, and it’s not just London! I couldn’t have afforded even a one bed flat in my home town when I started work, I had to move really quite far away and my home town isn’t a tourist town. Plus, that was almost 30 years ago, so it has always been an issue.
And I’m not so sure that buying a “wooden chalet” is better for the community. I had this discussion with a friend who bought one when I bought my house. She claimed I was “selfish”. But, as I pointed out to her, we paid second home stamp duty, she did not. We pay council tax (double as of next April) she does not. We have a weekly cleaner and a window cleaner, and gardener and we used local trades to renovate the property. She did not. We never get a supermarket delivery, we use the local shops, she does not. Plus we are there around half the week, every week, using local restaurants and cafes and the one local taxi driver, She is not.
Our house wouldn’t have been a first time buyers house anyway plus, we told the sellers (it went to BaF) that it would be a second home and they sold it to us.
I do agree that if people are buying second homes and never using them that it detrimental to the community but how you actually police that I don’t know.

You have taken a residential property out of circulation - your friend has not.

Winter2020 · 27/10/2024 06:22

CitrineRaindropPhoenix · 23/10/2024 06:50

But people who are born and raised in London are told to suck it up and move out when talking about exactly the same problem.

The multiplying council tax on second/empty homes could also be introduced in London, as could requiring planning permission for air b&b and requiring a local connection/no second homes for the sale of new properties. Sounds good to me!

EmpressaurusDeiGatti · 27/10/2024 06:25

DdraigGoch · 27/10/2024 01:38

If you want London boroughs to start taxing second homes and regulating AirBnBs, you'll hear no objection from me.

Me neither. Ideally nobody would be able to buy a property unless they were either going to live in it full time or rent it to tenants who were going to live in it.

Winter2020 · 27/10/2024 06:28

Livelovebehappy · 23/10/2024 09:21

It's amusing though that just because someone owns their little bit of land which their home is built on, and theyvwere botnbthere..(and some dont even have that if they rent) that they seem to think they own the town or village they live in. They don't. Anyone buying a second home there has an equal right to be there. The village dwellers pretend that their concern is due to their children being outpriced by the incomers, when the reality is theyve created their own little ghetto and just dont like outsiders. Sad really..

Hosing in this country is a finite resource.

What if as the rich poor divide widens it becomes trendy for the rich to own 10 houses dotted all around the UK- would that be OK? Other people having to live in tent villages so the rich can have 9 empty properties because they are rich? No? But one empty is OK? How about 2? Rich people should not be able to buy up resources that are a requirement for a basic standard of living.

Winter2020 · 27/10/2024 06:50

justasking111 · 23/10/2024 18:58

You make some valid points about retirees. In fact they're more of a problem than tourism.

They pop up on FB asking where's the NHS dentist, where's the best GP surgery, how long is the waiting list for hip/knee surgeries.

They creep onto committees, volunteer for charities, then set about trying to reorganize it all.

They're impatient, pushy, rude, write letters of objection to the council, especially if there are any plans to improve leisure activities for children.

It tends to be city/urban dwellers who retire here who are the rudest, especially in shops.

This is a disgusting post. "Creep" WTF. (and I'm in my 40s). Absolutely vile.

Winter2020 · 27/10/2024 07:00

Birdahoy · 23/10/2024 21:40

I bought a flat in my home town so that when we went back to visit my family we wouldn’t be stepping on their toes every time. This is a part of the UK that is in no way a tourist destination or in any way desirable. Think ‘most deprived cities in the UK’.

I had vague plans to either pass it on to my ageing parents as their current home is far too big for them, or to my son when we are gone so that he retains his connection to ‘home’ (we’ve moved about a lot - can’t be helped, it’s just how it’s been). It’s never been seen as an investment and I’ve never wanted to make a profit of any sort.

In 7 or 8 years time I’ll be paying at least 1200 a month in council tax. I can’t afford that. To sell it I’d realistically have to have a new kitchen and bathroom put in. I can’t afford to do that. To rent it out I’d have to do the same. If I sell I’m going to be absolutely whacked by the tax authorities in my country of residence even if it sells for less than I paid for it, so I’m going to be much worse off.

I want to appeal it with the council but I’m very aware that it sounds like an incredibly tone deaf thing to do given that I could afford to buy in the first place. At the same time it feels like I’m being punished for a problem (housing shortage and locals being priced out) that is non existent in the area in question. If I were to sell that flat it would be most likely to a landlord and then rented out….. probably to someone not paying any council tax at all, or at a discount.

Ive had so many sleepless nights over this and I don’t see a way out that isn’t going to leave me significantly worse off.

So yeah, OP. I’d be looking at council tax rates.

When you sell another permanent residential home will be available.

Funny how many people believe their particular holiday let is of no use to anybody else while being suitable for you/ your parents/ your son....

As for appealing - what would your grounds be? "These rules shouldn't apply to meee?"

Edit to say - no need for a new kitchen to sell - just price it what it is worth as it is.

KimberleyClark · 27/10/2024 07:09

Winter2020 · 27/10/2024 06:22

The multiplying council tax on second/empty homes could also be introduced in London, as could requiring planning permission for air b&b and requiring a local connection/no second homes for the sale of new properties. Sounds good to me!

Yes I think it should and other cities too. Plenty of people wanting to live in the country while maintaining a pied a terre in the city.

Jeremono · 27/10/2024 07:33

I live in an area that kicked up quite the stink about this and now thoroughly regrets it.

The village meetings started with around 50% saying they had no issue with second homes. After implementing measures to make it difficult for second home owners a while back, the most recent vote was 85% for removing the measures.

There was a fire sale. Locals couldn’t afford the houses. Prices didn’t, and haven’t, come down. Less money is being spent in the area and businesses are on the brink of collapse. The worst part is the divide and how unwelcoming the area now feels.

If it continues how it is, it will be a shell of a place and probably all but the 15% will leave. Then at least they’ll be happy.

Livelovebehappy · 27/10/2024 08:22

Winter2020 · 27/10/2024 06:28

Hosing in this country is a finite resource.

What if as the rich poor divide widens it becomes trendy for the rich to own 10 houses dotted all around the UK- would that be OK? Other people having to live in tent villages so the rich can have 9 empty properties because they are rich? No? But one empty is OK? How about 2? Rich people should not be able to buy up resources that are a requirement for a basic standard of living.

But that’s never going to happen is it? The ‘super’ wealthy are not stupid. They’re not going to invest in ten holiday properties in the UK, and leave them all empty. Wealthy people might already own multiple properties, but not as holiday homes for themselves, but as investments to generate income. They rent them out to holiday makers or private local renters. These types of homes are not going to be your standard one one down back to backs that might benefit first time buyers.