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To think that releasing crickets at a gay rights conference, specifically to shut them down, should be considered a homophobic hate crime? Somehow these people are crowdfunding to do it AGAIN

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Zahariel · 17/10/2024 09:03

The optics of having to fumigate a hall after gay people used it to speak about their rights being eroded should not be lost on anyone.

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-13950839/Trans-activists-release-bags-insects-LGB-Alliance-conference.html

https://www.msn.com/en-gb/news/uknews/suspected-trans-rights-activists-disrupt-lgba-conference-with-live-crickets/ar-AA1s9JHH

This is CLERLY A HATE CRIME - yet it's being reported as trans rights activists, not anti gay hate mongers, I can't really understand why not

MSN

https://www.msn.com/en-gb/news/uknews/suspected-trans-rights-activists-disrupt-lgba-conference-with-live-crickets/ar-AA1s9JHH

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RufustheFactuaIReindeer · 18/10/2024 18:44

Third spaces for gender critical women is my preferred approach

third spaces for mixed sex toilets is my preferred approach

Helleofabore · 18/10/2024 18:45

And just for any poster who might want to answer this one:

In fact, while we are on safety.

Can those declaring that male people should have access to female single sex spaces please link us to the evidence where a male at any stage of transition has less risk of committing a sexual offence than any other male person in the UK?

Then, can you please link us to the evidence where a male at any stage of transition has less or the same risk of committing a sexual offence as any female person in the UK?

Because it seems to me that some posters have some special knowledge that male people with a transgender identity should be exempt from the usual safeguarding measures. So much so, that they should be treated as a special sub group.

Bannedontherun · 18/10/2024 18:51

@Helleofabore God not you again, one could be forgiven for believing you have some unknown agenda !!!!

or are you a reverse xxx

Helleofabore · 18/10/2024 18:52

Bannedontherun · 18/10/2024 18:51

@Helleofabore God not you again, one could be forgiven for believing you have some unknown agenda !!!!

or are you a reverse xxx

I know.... I know... 😉

It is almost like my questions and points are too hard to construct a detailed and considered answer for some posters. I have to admit that I and others who have asked this question above practically never get an answer.

nothingcomestonothing · 18/10/2024 19:01

PiggleToes · 18/10/2024 18:37

But I’m not policing rhe toilet: it is for women and trans women, I’m not worried men will entre

Which of these people is allowed in your lovely 'inclusive' toilet for women and transwomen then?

They're real people btw - one is a man, one identifies as non-binary and one is a transwoman. Which is welcome in your toilet and which isn't?

To think that releasing crickets at a gay rights conference, specifically to shut them down, should be considered a homophobic hate crime? Somehow these people are crowdfunding to do it AGAIN
Bannedontherun · 18/10/2024 19:04

@Helleofabore I think you are doing a magnificent job as are others are and a certain person has visibly tied themselves in knots. Used to go by another name BTW beginning with K, fellow garden person.😉

Whattheactualf19 · 18/10/2024 19:09

Hoping this thread fills up soon

Whattheactualf19 · 18/10/2024 19:15

nothingcomestonothing · 18/10/2024 18:37

Are you saying only transwomen who 'pass' or attempt to pass are real transwomen? Because that's extremely transphobic.

How embarrassing for you.

Presenting as a woman isn’t necessarily about “passing”. “Passing” is when you don’t recognise someone is trans.

Circumferences · 18/10/2024 19:25

Hardly any TW "pass" and most don't even make much effort.
Because it's not even about that. It's about a belief in a "gender identity" that virtually no one else shares.

Whattheactualf19 · 18/10/2024 19:26

Circumferences · 18/10/2024 19:25

Hardly any TW "pass" and most don't even make much effort.
Because it's not even about that. It's about a belief in a "gender identity" that virtually no one else shares.

It’s obvious you have a very low opinion of trans people as a group of people. that comes out loud and clear

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 18/10/2024 19:29

Whattheactualf19 · 18/10/2024 19:15

Presenting as a woman isn’t necessarily about “passing”. “Passing” is when you don’t recognise someone is trans.

So if a male person who has short hair, wears no makeup and is wearing jeans and a t-shirt walks into the trans inclusive women's toilets, and when challenged, says, "I am a woman", how do you know whether they are a real trans woman or just pretending?

Greyskybluesky · 18/10/2024 19:29

Whattheactualf19 · 18/10/2024 19:09

Hoping this thread fills up soon

No one's forcing you to read it

Circumferences · 18/10/2024 19:29

How is my opinion "low".
To Whattheactualf19 · Today 19:26

I'm only saying what you and other gender ideology zealots say themselves.
It's not about passing.
It's about an internal sense of self.

I'm sure you just said it was transphobic to make it about passing. I literally just agreed that it's not about that.

Whattheactualf19 · 18/10/2024 19:31

Circumferences · 18/10/2024 19:29

How is my opinion "low".
To Whattheactualf19 · Today 19:26

I'm only saying what you and other gender ideology zealots say themselves.
It's not about passing.
It's about an internal sense of self.

I'm sure you just said it was transphobic to make it about passing. I literally just agreed that it's not about that.

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The derision in your message was clear

Circumferences · 18/10/2024 19:32

Well I didn't condone releasing bugs into an auditorium full of gay people.

Whattheactualf19 · 18/10/2024 19:32

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 18/10/2024 19:29

So if a male person who has short hair, wears no makeup and is wearing jeans and a t-shirt walks into the trans inclusive women's toilets, and when challenged, says, "I am a woman", how do you know whether they are a real trans woman or just pretending?

Why does it matter?

ArabellaScott · 18/10/2024 19:32

You're reading derision where there is none.

Helleofabore · 18/10/2024 19:33

Sal Grover nailed it .

https://x.com/salltweets/status/1846375669732978955?s=46

‘A guy pretended to be a “transwoman” for 6 months to show people how ridiculous it is that anyone would think a man can be a woman at all.’

‘If you’re still not convinced, think of it this way: would you have supported him going into a woman only space last week but not this week?’

As so many of us have been saying, how can you tell which is real and which is someone pretending for whatever reason?

x.com

https://x.com/salltweets/status/1846375669732978955?s=46

Circumferences · 18/10/2024 19:34

Whattheactualf19 · 18/10/2024 19:32

Why does it matter?

Because drumroll
Sex. Matters.

Helleofabore · 18/10/2024 19:35

‘A guy pretended to be a “transwoman” for 6 months to show people how ridiculous it is that anyone would think a man can be a woman at all.’

‘If you’re still not convinced, think of it this way: would you have supported him going into a woman only space last week but not this week?’

Whattheactualf19 · 18/10/2024 19:36

Circumferences · 18/10/2024 19:34

Because drumroll
Sex. Matters.

it matters in some ways, in other ways it doesn’t. It’s just one fact about a person in many. It doesby define everything g about who someone is

Circumferences · 18/10/2024 19:38

Whattheactualf19 · 18/10/2024 19:36

it matters in some ways, in other ways it doesn’t. It’s just one fact about a person in many. It doesby define everything g about who someone is

Great.
So you accept that in some ways someone can be trans but in other ways they're just the sex that they are because it doesn't always matter.

Whattheactualf19 · 18/10/2024 19:38

Circumferences · 18/10/2024 19:38

Great.
So you accept that in some ways someone can be trans but in other ways they're just the sex that they are because it doesn't always matter.

I have no idea what you mean by any of that

nothingcomestonothing · 18/10/2024 19:38

Whattheactualf19 · 18/10/2024 19:15

Presenting as a woman isn’t necessarily about “passing”. “Passing” is when you don’t recognise someone is trans.

So how is anyone going to know which of the people in the above photos belong in the 'transwomen inclusive' female toilets? PP is happy to share toilets with transwomen but definitely not with men so it's going to be necessary to know which is which, how will anyone tell?

Circumferences · 18/10/2024 19:39

It always matters in certain situations. No one gives a shit in others.

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