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Please stop saying "it's been a minute"

337 replies

OptimismvsRealism · 15/10/2024 23:06

Please stop

Also mooching stop saying that

OP posts:
deleteitforpro59 · 16/10/2024 03:31

"Can I join?" On pregnancy / weight loss / any groups

Just write what you want to say!

CottonCandyLand · 16/10/2024 03:34

Combattingthemoaners · 16/10/2024 02:43

I’ve never heard anyone say it’s been a minute but it sounds annoying!! Whilst we are on this topic allow me a sleep deprived rant.

“It’s giving…” usually followed by something to do with “vibes”. Fuck off.

Hubby or Hubster 🤢

People missing out the I’m and to the. Eg. “going gym” 🤬

Instead of replying with a laughing emoji or haha saying “I can’t”. Can’t what?? Also fuck off.

Any Americanisms I.e. cops, trash, aluminium foil (it’s fucking tin foil), movies, elevator, candy. I could honestly commit GBH whenever someone uses one of those words.

I feel better now, thank you.

Except the foil is made from aluminium (or if you’re in North America “aluminum”) and not tin.

”And what did he say when you told him blah blah blah…” knowing damn well that conversation never happened

GretchenWienersHair · 16/10/2024 03:36

Dweetfidilove · 15/10/2024 23:09

It's been a minute since I've heard anyone mention mooching 🤷🏾‍♀️.

😄

(love your username)

GretchenWienersHair · 16/10/2024 03:41

These threads just remind me how intolerant people are to cultural differences. Yes, language is culture and different cultures will use the English language in different ways. Culture spreads, others pick up on it. Language is fluid. Deal with it.

It’s not like people are submitting their literature essays with: “Dickens was giving big big energy when Scrooge changed his ways; he was a vibe. It had been a minute since he’d felt joy,” I really don’t see the issue.

EvvyLannis · 16/10/2024 03:54

I quite like some of these but I saw an ad featuring Debbie Harry ‘lensed by’ photographer and that’s just ridiculous.

CellophaneFlower · 16/10/2024 04:21

"I feel like" instead of "I think". Also irrationally annoys me when people put "And just like that..." when posting a pic of their child moving up a school year or whatever.

LostittoBostik · 16/10/2024 04:31

EvvyLannis · 16/10/2024 03:54

I quite like some of these but I saw an ad featuring Debbie Harry ‘lensed by’ photographer and that’s just ridiculous.

😑 horrific

Mummyoflittledragon · 16/10/2024 04:32

CottonCandyLand · 16/10/2024 03:34

Except the foil is made from aluminium (or if you’re in North America “aluminum”) and not tin.

”And what did he say when you told him blah blah blah…” knowing damn well that conversation never happened

To add to that, trash is an old English word. Etymology below. Shakespeare used the word trash in Othello. Like many words, which hack fallen out of use over here, it’s not an americanism at all. Rather the word trash has been picked up in the US. We still use trashy in the UK.

www.etymonline.com/word/trash

LostittoBostik · 16/10/2024 04:32

Bigcat25 · 16/10/2024 03:11

Hard agree, op.

😂😂😂

Thevelvelletes · 16/10/2024 04:33

IAKnowyou · 15/10/2024 23:19

Well count me in as one of those, as I LOVE a mooch.

So does Minnie the moocher ,she was a low down hoocha coocha.
As sung by Cab Callaway.

LostittoBostik · 16/10/2024 04:33

Namechangefordaughterevasion · 16/10/2024 03:14

I retired 2 years ago. My life is one long mooch. I mooch from the coffee shop to the gym to the theatre. Occasionally I mooch off on holiday. Tomorrow I plan to mooch around various banks sorting out my late mums estate before mooching home. I might then have a picky tea.

I'm jealous of your day

Redleavescatfiend · 16/10/2024 04:35

I can't stand 'a hot minute'. What's hot about it?

ZaZathecat · 16/10/2024 04:56

I'm obsessed by this thread, it is everything

Whatamitodonow · 16/10/2024 05:04

I wish people would stop dropping things.

so many clumsy musicians. shops apparently can’t keep a proper hold of their new collections either.

i often wonder whether there’s a harassed assistant following in the wake desperately trying to pick up all these dropped albums and new sets of earrings. That’s if they haven’t broken from the fall.

EnglishGirlApproximately · 16/10/2024 05:07

IYKYK - used to imply some amazing secret when normally it's absolutely TV programme or something else not particularly interesting.

HaveToSaySomethingHere · 16/10/2024 05:08

It's a lot. I have overwhelm.

januaryjan · 16/10/2024 05:15

Hugs Hun. x

Courgettesandonions · 16/10/2024 05:20

I hate it in newspapers and magazines when they said "Why we're all obsessed with....".

Most of the time I have never heard of the person/thing/series that we're all supposedly obsessed with, or it's something inane that's been around for ages. It's such an irritating way of generating false interest.

januaryjan · 16/10/2024 05:24

I have a totally irrational dislike of someone using the word 'scoops' instead of pint or drink.

MaggieBsBoat · 16/10/2024 05:26

I never mooch, I pootle.

Sceptical123 · 16/10/2024 05:26

The addition of the word ‘of’ - I told him to get off of me. I got off of the bus. I took it off of the top of the refrigerator.

It’s weird how now ppl are adding words after the long tradition of missing words out.
It’s one of the many Americanisms that is taking over common vernacular among the kids and alarmingly older generations - hate seeing it in news articles. Journalists are hideous culprits of adopting these on-trend phrases. Just stop.

Fizzygoo · 16/10/2024 05:27

Not heard of the minute one

have used mooching since the 80s, it’s a great word to describe anyone/thing just hanging about waiting for something

BlackSwan · 16/10/2024 05:28

I was today years old.

Kill me now.

Fizzygoo · 16/10/2024 05:29

januaryjan · 16/10/2024 05:24

I have a totally irrational dislike of someone using the word 'scoops' instead of pint or drink.

👀 scoops?? Is that a regional thing? Never heard that and have recently had my teens working in pubs

rach2713 · 16/10/2024 05:30

I really dislike the word autumnal it gives me the shivers.