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Please stop saying "it's been a minute"

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OptimismvsRealism · 15/10/2024 23:06

Please stop

Also mooching stop saying that

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Soonenough · 16/10/2024 01:37

I use the phrase moocher to mean a freeloader as well as mooching in shops .

Tittat50 · 16/10/2024 01:41

It's been a very long time since I've been around anyone saying mooch. I don't recall anyone saying to me 'it's been a minute." I might be living in an alternative reality though.

Whoever said bugger off or words to that effect regards ' bangs', yes, that deserves it's own thread. What even are bangs. Is it a fringe? I can't stand to hear the word.

blackfriday1 · 16/10/2024 01:47

Joining in as this one has been driving me bonkers for some time -

"Shop my wardrobe"
"Shop my collection"

Just stop! 🛑

TheDeepLemonHelper · 16/10/2024 01:57

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WiddlinDiddlin · 16/10/2024 02:07

I am quite fed up of 'it's been a minute' for 'something thats actually been ages', also 'shop the look'... that one can piss right off.

Quite bored of (particularly Americans) over use of 'with that said...'

user1492757084 · 16/10/2024 02:33

I've not heard of the minute saying, ever.

I'm sick of hearing "absolutely" enthuseastically chimed instead of "yes", though It doesn't make me lose sleep.

rainfallpurevividcat · 16/10/2024 02:35

I enjoy a pootle or a potter more than a mooch, myself.

JaneJeffer · 16/10/2024 02:36

It's been a hot minute since I've done any mooching.

LostittoBostik · 16/10/2024 02:36

"Absolutely, and let's also stop adding "So" to the beginning of sentences for literally no reason whatsoever."

Only if we can also stop saying literally, when it's already clear we don't mean figuratively so there is no need for clarification

LostittoBostik · 16/10/2024 02:37

JaneJeffer · 16/10/2024 02:36

It's been a hot minute since I've done any mooching.

Hot minute is definitely worse!

user1492757084 · 16/10/2024 02:38

Today I learnt a new thing. I'm happy to hear of Kekri, celebrated on Nov 2nd.

I'm reading about it's history and I'm looking forward to celebrating and embracing a gratitude for good things.

The use of language is not bothering me as much now that I stumbled on Kekri.

Combattingthemoaners · 16/10/2024 02:43

I’ve never heard anyone say it’s been a minute but it sounds annoying!! Whilst we are on this topic allow me a sleep deprived rant.

“It’s giving…” usually followed by something to do with “vibes”. Fuck off.

Hubby or Hubster 🤢

People missing out the I’m and to the. Eg. “going gym” 🤬

Instead of replying with a laughing emoji or haha saying “I can’t”. Can’t what?? Also fuck off.

Any Americanisms I.e. cops, trash, aluminium foil (it’s fucking tin foil), movies, elevator, candy. I could honestly commit GBH whenever someone uses one of those words.

I feel better now, thank you.

SapphireSeptember · 16/10/2024 02:43

rainfallpurevividcat · 16/10/2024 02:35

I enjoy a pootle or a potter more than a mooch, myself.

I like the word 'bimble', my friend uses it a lot, and I've never heard it before. 😊

rainfallpurevividcat · 16/10/2024 02:45

Yes, a bimble is good too.

Bahhhhhumbug · 16/10/2024 02:45

I can barely manage a grunt in response to customers (work in retail) who feel the need to tell me theyre just getting a few bits for Xmas. This started beginning of October.
I also have to fight not to say 'No you dont !!' when they reply to my 'Do you need a receipt?' by saying 'Oh yes l need one l'm going in another shop'
No you cant be arrested for shoplifting unless they actually see you take it ffs

FruityShampoo · 16/10/2024 02:48

Having a mooch on marketplace and it’s been a minute since I last saw “Chester draws. Need gone today”.

HeliotropePJs · 16/10/2024 02:49

When I was younger (pre-2000), 'mooching' meant sponging off someone, eating their food and so on. Not sure when/why the meaning changed, or perhaps it's always had multiple meanings. (Could look it up, I suppose...)

I agree wholeheartedly about 'it's been a minute'. That one irritates me more than it should. Also sentences beginning with 'so', as a PP mentioned. Never cared for 'my bad', either, though that's another oldie that's probably not used as much nowadays.

WiddlinDiddlin · 16/10/2024 03:03

Mooching has always meant both scrounging, and wandering about sort of looking for something.

I often refer to puppies (sadly something I discuss daily with total strangers) 'mooching for a poo' ie, sniffing around slightly distractedly, looking for somewhere to shit.

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Bigcat25 · 16/10/2024 03:11

Hard agree, op.

Namechangefordaughterevasion · 16/10/2024 03:14

I retired 2 years ago. My life is one long mooch. I mooch from the coffee shop to the gym to the theatre. Occasionally I mooch off on holiday. Tomorrow I plan to mooch around various banks sorting out my late mums estate before mooching home. I might then have a picky tea.

sarahzbaker · 16/10/2024 03:17

What is is this about? I am old now?
Back up the truck mate

Mamabearsmile · 16/10/2024 03:21

Love Mooching....ancient word...

LBFseBrom · 16/10/2024 03:21

LTB.