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CF parked on my driveway!

549 replies

SEMPA1234567 · 15/10/2024 14:05

CF has now been parked on my driveway for at least 3 hours! Husband home soon and won’t be able to park!

My question is what can you actually practically do about this, apart from giving them an earful if you spot them returning to their car!! 😂

A quick google says

  1. the police won’t do anything (they might if it’s stoping you getting off your drive but not if they’re preventing you accessing your drive)
  2. My areas police website says try contacting the council . The councils website clearly states they will not remove vehicles or issue parking charge notices for private drives

Also you are not allowed to block them in as this is an offence to stop them leaving and obviously you can not damage their car as this would be criminal damage.

Assuming you don’t want to break the law 😂 what are you meant to legally do if someone parks on your drive??

Has anyone successfully got any type of justice against a CF?!? Or can I now just go around being a CF never paying for parking and just using other peoples drives?!?

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Balloonhearts · 16/10/2024 00:55

Food colouring in vaseline under the door handles. No damage, just very inconvenient and messy.

JFDIYOLO · 16/10/2024 01:09

@YabaJaba and do you get pissed off when you visit another country at all the lazy foreign words people will insist on using?

Whether it's a sport, a hobby, a discussion group - You join a community, you learn the terms.

EdithBond · 16/10/2024 01:49

Get a gate for the drive. Put bins or something across it until you do.

But nothing much you can do this time. Is it a big problem right now? I live in a terraced street without drives and people manage to park OK.

IainTorontoNSW · 16/10/2024 04:44

"CF has now been parked on my driveway for at least 3 hours!"

Correct me if I'm wrong, but in social media here, CF means "close friend".

If it is a close friend's car, get on your phone and tell him/her to please move their car or not park there unless he/she is visiting you.

It's a diabolical liberty to use your driveway access for a free park otherwise.

Run4it2 · 16/10/2024 05:20

On Mumsnet CF is cheeky fucker

YabaJaba · 16/10/2024 06:38

JFDIYOLO · 16/10/2024 01:09

@YabaJaba and do you get pissed off when you visit another country at all the lazy foreign words people will insist on using?

Whether it's a sport, a hobby, a discussion group - You join a community, you learn the terms.

What are you on about?

🤣🤣🤣

Jennyathemall · 16/10/2024 07:09

SEMPA1234567 · 15/10/2024 15:09

I’d say it’s pretty clear they’re out spaces, we’ve lived here 6 years and no one else has ever parked there (well not that I’ve seen! 😂)

They’re paved with pebbles/stones, surrounded with a paved boarder and a hedge that goes all the way around the space (green bit on diagram! 😂).

The stones on the floor a very obviously decorative and something put in by the owner of the house, nothing like what you’d get on a public road.

So actually not private spaces at all unless you’ve seen something in writing to confirm they are allocated to each house? What you are saying is you’ve used it as if it’s private for years but now someone is parking there - by the sound of it they are well within their rights to do so.

Jennyathemall · 16/10/2024 07:10

Lemonadeand · 15/10/2024 17:39

I really can’t believe the audacity of some people! Who parks on a private drive?!

Look at the diagram - it isn’t a private drive.

LlynTegid · 16/10/2024 07:11

Even if it is not a private drive in this case, I think the law needs to change so that those who do without permission either can legally be blocked in, or better still, points on a driving licence.

Jennyathemall · 16/10/2024 07:11

Opentooffers · 15/10/2024 15:58

So by your own diagram it is 'blocking' your driveway, not 'on' your driveway as stated for dramatic effect. Still out of order and annoying though.

It’s not blocking any driveway - there is no driveway. It’s a parking space outside their house.

Jennyathemall · 16/10/2024 07:12

LlynTegid · 16/10/2024 07:11

Even if it is not a private drive in this case, I think the law needs to change so that those who do without permission either can legally be blocked in, or better still, points on a driving licence.

If it’s not private who they be getting permission from?

Mistressofnone · 16/10/2024 07:17

Did they return OP?

Shade17 · 16/10/2024 07:37

Balloonhearts · 16/10/2024 00:55

Food colouring in vaseline under the door handles. No damage, just very inconvenient and messy.

And that would still be criminal damage.

MikeRafone · 16/10/2024 07:40

so did they leave?

Fruhstuck · 16/10/2024 07:54

@SEMPA1234567 please can you clarify the point @Jennyathemall was making? Does the parking space actually belong to you or is it just a space outside your house? Your original post says the car is parked on your drive, but that is not what your diagram shows. Do you actually have a drive that the car is blocking? (No drive shown on your diagram.)

SinnerBoy · 16/10/2024 07:59

samarrange · Yesterday 22:56

That's very close to the plot of this Dutch TV commercial:

Ha ha! That's brilliant and I actually laughed out loud!

Igneococcus · 16/10/2024 08:09

So actually not private spaces at all unless you’ve seen something in writing to confirm they are allocated to each house? What you are saying is you’ve used it as if it’s private for years but now someone is parking there - by the sound of it they are well within their rights to do so.
From the diagram it looks to me like the parking space is what used to be front gardens in older houses, even more so because there is hedging around the spaces. Every single newish housing development around where I live is like that now. No front garden but one or two car parking spaces immediately in front of the house, a path to the front door and some space for the bins. It's completely clear from the layout and design that these spaces belong to the houses they are in front of. I'd never park in them unless the owner lets me.

ChaChaSlide101 · 16/10/2024 08:11

Did they come back?!

LookItsMeAgain · 16/10/2024 08:34

Ivehearditbothways · 15/10/2024 22:12

https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/am_i_being_unreasonable/4304470-Random-car-parked-on-my-drive?flipped=1&page=1

@SEMPA1234567
I’ve not read the whole thread so don’t know if this has been linked already buts it’s the best parked on my drive thread. You might enjoy!

That post was great. I remember that one from 2021.

Projectme · 16/10/2024 09:17

What happened when they came back @SEMPA1234567 ?

WhosPink · 16/10/2024 09:33

JandLandG · 15/10/2024 16:00

AN infrequent visitor to MN at times over the years, but this has astonished me.

A car - an item worth thousands of pounds - is left, unwanted, on someone else's private and exclusive property causing great annoyance and inconvenience ?

Come on!

Show me some pics, pls...I don't believe this.

Who'd take that risk?

WHo'd let them get away with it?

And this is coming from me...I hate paying for parking. I've parked in sketchy places all my life. No way would I leave my car like that - you'd have to be mad.

Current parking arrangement at one of my workplaces is 12 quid or the industrial estate nearby.

Industrial estate every time for me...but never on someone's drive.

Are we talking like a private estate where you need a parking permit or something? Not a piece of private and exclusive property?

Otherwise, I don't believe this....I demand proof!!!!

It's happened several times to friends of mine in South London. Always an untaxed vehicle or one where the vehicle description don't match the vehicle (i.e. on cloned plates). Police aren't interested. They obviously don't confront the drivers, because confronting the kind of people who drive around in untaxed cars or with cloned plates in South London is not a healthy lifestyle choice.

MrsClatterbuck · 16/10/2024 09:50

Igneococcus · 16/10/2024 08:09

So actually not private spaces at all unless you’ve seen something in writing to confirm they are allocated to each house? What you are saying is you’ve used it as if it’s private for years but now someone is parking there - by the sound of it they are well within their rights to do so.
From the diagram it looks to me like the parking space is what used to be front gardens in older houses, even more so because there is hedging around the spaces. Every single newish housing development around where I live is like that now. No front garden but one or two car parking spaces immediately in front of the house, a path to the front door and some space for the bins. It's completely clear from the layout and design that these spaces belong to the houses they are in front of. I'd never park in them unless the owner lets me.

This. To me it's obvious they are private. Not sure roads service or councils are putting down decorative stones on parking spaces or putting hedges around them.

Yazzi · 16/10/2024 10:03

SEMPA1234567 · 15/10/2024 15:00

For everyone saying block them in, unfortunately I can’t! Without stoping the neighbours getting into their spaces or blocking the road! Hope digram helps!!

OP I wish mumsnet would pay you to draft all the diagrams for the Mumsnet parking dramas!

Pixiedusty · 16/10/2024 10:08

OP if you have lots of trees/birds nearby you might get lucky if they do a huge dump on, oh, the car parked on the drive 😄

Portakalkedi · 16/10/2024 10:25

I guess OP has not come back because the diagram shows it's not actually a driveway, but a space on the (public) road .... still, a dramatic title gets more interest doesn't it?

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