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To be annoyed by this parking?

110 replies

LilyOfTheValley33 · 14/10/2024 09:08

Am I being unreasonable to be annoyed by this parking? We live quite near a school which has no parking and so parents use our road to park on when dropping off/picking up. We get a lot of people parking by/across our drive as per the attached picture. It’s debatable whether it’s actually across our drive, but it makes it tricky to swing out of the drive especially if there is a car parked the other side of the drive too.

To be annoyed by this parking?
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widelegenes · 14/10/2024 11:15

TheHangingGardensOfBasildon · 14/10/2024 09:41

Also, I presume that you're parking according to the Highway Code and reversing in to your drive?

If you're one of the many people who prefer to make it much more difficult and dangerous for themselves by driving in, so they then have to reverse out, you can't really complain that another driver's parking is restricting your vision when leaving your drive, when that was your own choice.

You should reverse onto your drive where you can, it is not the law to have to reverse.

MinervaMcGonagallsCat · 14/10/2024 11:16

Looks fine to me. They are not across
Your drive.

Wellingtonspie · 14/10/2024 11:19

They shouldn’t be blocking any part of the dropped kerb so they are parked incorrectly.

But like a lot of drivers they give no fucks as long as they are parked where they want.

Lifestooshort71 · 14/10/2024 11:23

They shouldn't be across your dropped kerb but they're not bothered. Think you're going to have to live with it tbh 😏

Whatwaswrongwiththatusername · 14/10/2024 11:24

But aren't their back wheels and back half of car still over the dropped kerb? Which, technically isn't allowed and surely the size/placement of that dropped kerb was to allow full and safe movement of the car(s) in and out?

That's what I would make of that particular photo, tbh.

NailsHairNipsHeels · 14/10/2024 11:29

That doesn't look like it's causing too much of an obstruction other than being so far away from the kerb.
You should still be able to get on and off drive as needed
I live by a school and the cheeky fuckers park in my allocated parking space and get shitty when told to move. They park on double yellows, the grass verge, the corners of the access road then the parents also complain that their little darlings are at risk from all the cars driving on the wrong side of the road because of these badly parked cars.
The best of it is a lot of the drivers live less than a 10min walk to the bloody school.
Parking wardens attend regularly and ticket vehicles but it makes no difference

TinkerTiger · 14/10/2024 11:32

Looks perfectly fine.

BlaiseBaileyFinneganiii · 14/10/2024 11:35

Yeah, I can see it's a little bit annoying because it requires a bit more effort to use the driveway. But it's not an obstruction that should cause an issue to a skilled driver. If you were a learner, I'd understand you might be worried you'd clip it.

I wouldn't feel comfortable parking that close to someone's driveway myself though so I understand your feelings on this matter.

Whyhaveibeencutoutofmamsnot · 14/10/2024 12:05

If it was near me the car would be completely on the pavement and the police/local council wouldn't give a sh*t (have reported several times and no change)

Whatifitallgoesright · 14/10/2024 12:15

Oh you're just showing off because you've got a drive.

TheHangingGardensOfBasildon · 14/10/2024 12:32

rainfallpurevividcat · 14/10/2024 10:39

If you can. We have to drive in and reverse out of the drive as it's a shared drive, just enough room for two cars and I have to park as close to the house as possible on one side. If I reversed in that would be the drivers side and I couldn't get out.

Ah, yes - fair point in your case.

BruceAndNosh · 14/10/2024 12:36

All the people saying there's nothing wrong with it need to raise their own parking standards. The mini has its back wheel and tiny boot over the dropped curb AND is well away from the curb. They've made it very difficult to turn right

ThisHangryPinkBalonz · 14/10/2024 12:37

Looks fine to me

FloofPaws · 14/10/2024 12:42

Ridiculous,
Completely normal to park on the road as that mini has

LovedFedAndNoonesDead · 14/10/2024 12:46

Jammymare · 14/10/2024 09:36

Is everyone saying there’s nothing wrong missing that the wheel is completely over the dropped curb?
I mean it’s mildly annoying and I wouldn’t do anything more than huff internally to myself, but it is still a parking offence.

I agree; while the driveway looks wide and it should be easy to negotiate coming and going, the car is parked over the drop kerb and, if a traffic warden was in the area, they should quite rightly issue a ticket.

TheHangingGardensOfBasildon · 14/10/2024 13:04

widelegenes · 14/10/2024 11:15

You should reverse onto your drive where you can, it is not the law to have to reverse.

I didn't say it was the law, did I? It's just acknowledged as best practice and clearly much safer to have your private drive behind you rather than the open road, wherever possible.

TheHangingGardensOfBasildon · 14/10/2024 13:08

BarbaraHoward · 14/10/2024 11:05

That will never be approved by a school. Parents need to get their kids to school and then carry on to work. They should park considerately but in any area where parking is at a premium everyone needs to maximise every inch available.

This is very pertinent. Even if a car may be technically impinging on a dropped kerb by a few inches - although nothing that stops the householder from using their drive - in a place/at a time when parking is at a massive premium, it's madness to leave 99% of a parking space unused.

Atishooo · 14/10/2024 14:02

Catza · 14/10/2024 11:11

Yep, was told the same by my driving instructor.

Never heard this, was certainly never taught it. The car would be sticking out in the road!

GasPanic · 14/10/2024 14:03

Reverse in, then you won't have any issues getting out. Especially if the road is busy.

CMupnorth · 14/10/2024 15:53

Ebeneser · 14/10/2024 10:32

Wrong. They should not be parking past the dropped kerb.

I assure you if you write to your local enforcement officer they will tell you it’s the level bit. You can confirm this on your local council website.

CMupnorth · 14/10/2024 15:59

MyKidsAreTooNoisy · 14/10/2024 10:38

I am intrigued by the 2 conflicting diagrams! Which is correct.

I used to work in enforcement for this sort of a thing if it helps. The diagram I downloaded is from the council I worked for’s website and is one you’ll see on almost all of them and was the basis of all enforcement in the borough.

WhatATimeToBeAlive · 14/10/2024 15:59

YANBU. We have a dropped kerb and some of the neighbour's visitors park right up to it. It then makes it very difficult to get out as the road is narrow so it's really hard to turn - it's a cul de sac so we can only go one way!

zeitweilig · 14/10/2024 16:02

I despair regarding the folk who think this is fine, because it isn't fine. They're not blocking the drive but they are definitely impairing your view for driving out of your driveway.

GertrudePerkinsPaperyThing · 14/10/2024 16:06

I find it annoying when people overhang my drive like this.

The reason is that someone else will have parked directly opposite, so then you actually need the full driveway to be free to get the “swing” in order to drive away in a particular direction.

Maybe not sound a familiar problem if you don’t live in a busy built up area - but it’s an issue regardless of which way you’ve gone into the drive, but can also make it difficult to back on.

MereDintofPandiculation · 14/10/2024 16:07

Interesting no-one’s commenting on the other end of the car, which is virtually touching the next car along and quite possibly blocking them in.