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EmpressoftheMundane · 07/10/2024 21:04

So buying consumer goods is virtuous. But investing in your child’s education is not.

Pretty messed up thinking. 🤨

Applebutt3r · 07/10/2024 21:06

Another76543 · 07/10/2024 20:18

Adding VAT makes it even more elite as fewer families will be able to afford it - likely the hard working middle class families who scrimp to pay the fees.

Very few. Only 7% pay private, most will continue, a tiny fraction will join the demographic just below being able to afford private. Such is life.

Doidling · 07/10/2024 21:10

I feel for the children half way through Alevels and GCSEs having a change of curriculum just before their exams.
French and Germans are not happy their students over here are being taxed.

User14March · 07/10/2024 21:10

https://damealiceowens.herts.sch.uk

This looks pretty good re: a state school & Thomas Telford etc.

Homepage | Dame Alice Owen's School

https://damealiceowens.herts.sch.uk

TimTamTime · 07/10/2024 21:15

Parry5timesbeforedeath · 07/10/2024 21:01

exactly. one is honest and one is not

A huge amount of the difference in pupil outcome isn't school dependent- it's parent dependent. Motivated parents who value education and help and teach their kids have a huge influence on outcomes. Fiddling around with schools doesn't change parental behaviour sadly.

Another76543 · 07/10/2024 21:32

Applebutt3r · 07/10/2024 21:06

Very few. Only 7% pay private, most will continue, a tiny fraction will join the demographic just below being able to afford private. Such is life.

You have said that private schools are the biggest cause of inequality and that the inequality should be addressed. Now you are saying that a tiny percentage will leave because of the VAT. How will VAT help the inequality if the same number of pupils are attending private school? By saying that the number of children in private education will remain the same, you are admitting that the VAT is doing nothing to address that apparent inequality.

OneDaringReader · 07/10/2024 21:35

TimTamTime · 07/10/2024 21:15

A huge amount of the difference in pupil outcome isn't school dependent- it's parent dependent. Motivated parents who value education and help and teach their kids have a huge influence on outcomes. Fiddling around with schools doesn't change parental behaviour sadly.

100% Parents play a huge role in education - they are their children's first teacher.

Adding VAT to independents isn't going to get people to read with their children or teach them time tables. Or even get them to watch Cbeebies over looking at something low quality on a phone.

72hoursinaande · 07/10/2024 22:00

Applebutt3r · 07/10/2024 20:12

It’s already elite.

Do you count a nurse who is a single parent as ‘elite? Or a first generation immigrant who works three jobs to put his daughter through school?

Applebutt3r · 07/10/2024 22:03

72hoursinaande · 07/10/2024 22:00

Do you count a nurse who is a single parent as ‘elite? Or a first generation immigrant who works three jobs to put his daughter through school?

Yep. The fees are an elite luxury service very few can afford. Any nurse on a single nurse salary able to afford private which is more than a minimum wage must have next to zero housing costs or wealthy parents .

shehasglasses48 · 07/10/2024 22:08

MichaelandKirk · 05/10/2024 21:43

it’s a stupid politics of envy decision that is going to make the state system far worse

Envy? Seriously old argument. Not envious at all. My children both have degrees from Russell Group unis, and I held on to my cash!

ClassyJen · 07/10/2024 22:08

Poor Bridg, still a bit miffed about not getting in to Cheltenham ladies I see. She’s gone full Vector from Despicable Me 🔫

72hoursinaande · 07/10/2024 22:14

Applebutt3r · 07/10/2024 22:03

Yep. The fees are an elite luxury service very few can afford. Any nurse on a single nurse salary able to afford private which is more than a minimum wage must have next to zero housing costs or wealthy parents .

Not necessarily what do you think the fees are? At £10K per annum and with a 25% bursary it might be affordable for a nurse pre VAT increase

Applebutt3r · 07/10/2024 22:28

72hoursinaande · 07/10/2024 22:14

Not necessarily what do you think the fees are? At £10K per annum and with a 25% bursary it might be affordable for a nurse pre VAT increase

Average nurse gets paid £35k at £2,265 per month after tax and National Insurance.

Average fees are now £16,656. Given the cost of living and houses as I said it would have to be a nurse with very low housing costs or rich parents bursary or no bursary.

72hoursinaande · 07/10/2024 22:38

Applebutt3r · 07/10/2024 22:28

Average nurse gets paid £35k at £2,265 per month after tax and National Insurance.

Average fees are now £16,656. Given the cost of living and houses as I said it would have to be a nurse with very low housing costs or rich parents bursary or no bursary.

Edited

Yeah but in this instance the fees are £10K and the nurse doesn’t have rich parents.

72hoursinaande · 07/10/2024 22:39

My point is ‘elite’ isn’t always quite right and it’s not the actual elite who will suffer

Applebutt3r · 07/10/2024 22:43

72hoursinaande · 07/10/2024 22:38

Yeah but in this instance the fees are £10K and the nurse doesn’t have rich parents.

So she’d have £1225 a month to pay for rent/ mortgage, food, bills and everything else. As I said she’d need next to no housing costs and rich parents.

It’s a luxury service for an elite few.

Applebutt3r · 07/10/2024 22:46

And not having access to a luxury service isn’t suffering.

72hoursinaande · 07/10/2024 22:53

Applebutt3r · 07/10/2024 22:46

And not having access to a luxury service isn’t suffering.

It is for a child who has been there for 4 years and has to leave all her close friendships behind. Look that is one example of I’m sure many many and that’s before we get into the children with SEN. Honestly, it’s just not that black and white

72hoursinaande · 07/10/2024 22:59

And the variety of independent schools is massive it’s not all Eton and Harrow there are many inner city independent schools with huge ethnic and economic diversity where parents do choose to prioritise education over anything else but you clearly have a very set point of view

justasking111 · 07/10/2024 23:02

Brothers we knew had a business together. One of the wives filed for divorce wanted a fourth of the business, the house and got it. However, it meant that everyone had to cut back. Our friend was 14 he had to leave private school and go into a not good state school. He said it was awful, he was small and shy. Other kids gave him hell. He never recovered academically leaving school at 16 which was not what his parents wanted.

Petlover9 · 08/10/2024 05:24

Labraradabrador · 05/10/2024 22:31

A big part of the rationale for implementing asap and mid year was to catch people off guard and maximise the initial revenue before parents had a chance to make alternative provision. It is almost like they are afraid of proper scrutiny of the financial or societal impacts of the policy.

wouldn’t be surprised if there is a delay. Also wouldn’t be surprised if there are additional exceptions made for send (beyond just those with school named in EHCP), military families and faith schools, which will add to complexity of implementation while lowering the revenue potential. I would be surprised if they drop this altogether, though, as I Ithink they feel politically beholden to delivering something from their manifesto, even if utterly pointless and flawed.

I was wondering if Lord Ali could make donations to those parents who only just about manage school fees? He appears to have a lot cash to give away!! When I had to pay school fees 20% extra would have floored me, I was scrimping along as it was. Anyone know when Starter is going😁

Petlover9 · 08/10/2024 05:26

STARMER - not Starter. - when will they offer an edit button?

Applebutt3r · 08/10/2024 05:56

72hoursinaande · 07/10/2024 22:53

It is for a child who has been there for 4 years and has to leave all her close friendships behind. Look that is one example of I’m sure many many and that’s before we get into the children with SEN. Honestly, it’s just not that black and white

Pupils move schools all the time. If parents are concerned about pupils moving schools and the cost of private education is an issue they shouldn’t have got into it in the first place. Fees go up regardless of VAT.

Another76543 · 08/10/2024 06:32

Applebutt3r · 08/10/2024 05:56

Pupils move schools all the time. If parents are concerned about pupils moving schools and the cost of private education is an issue they shouldn’t have got into it in the first place. Fees go up regardless of VAT.

What people didn’t anticipate when they entered private education 5-10 years ago was global high inflation, causing fees and other living costs to increase substantially, plus a 20% overnight hike on those increased prices.

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