@80smonster I think where you and I differ is that I don't mind paying the tax to fund state school for people like nurses, carers, teachers, shop workers etc but you seem to object to anyone who isn't a net contributor?
If you re read my post you will see I am vehemently against my friend's situation (and it is a difficult stumbling block in a 40 Yr friendship in fact). My DH are both additional rate tax payers so I do pay my way in terms of tax.