Somebody who has achieved the same grades from a state school as opposed to private has oodles more resilience and ability to put up with achieving in more challenging circumstances
oodles? Please quantify ‘oodles’
shit happens to rich people as well, you know. Kids are abused, they are carers, deal with domestic abuse, drug abuse and alcoholism in the home. Their parents have acrimonious divorces, remarry and subject their children to all kinds of dodgy parenting in the name of ‘blending families’, their grandparents get dementia and their parents get cancer and other diseases. Sometimes their parents die. Their parents are almost always working ridiculously long hours to pay the school fees and teens may be alone longer than is ideal. Friendship issues hit just as hard, bullying still happens and not all classrooms are pleasant places to be. If you’re dyslexic, or you have some other learning difficulty, you still need to work hard to overcome that.
independents are not some kind of utopia the real world bypasses. Resilience can be developed in any environment.