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To be appalled that this isn’t murder?

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Bex5490 · 03/10/2024 20:19

Possible the worst headline I’ve read since the woman in France whose husband drugged her and had her raped by strangers…

But what I don’t understand is why it is manslaughter not murder. A violent act is considered murder if the perpetrator intended to do GBH but the person dies in the process.

Is violently raping a woman not intending to do enough harm?

The world is broken. There are rightly or wrongly teenagers on murder charges under joint enterprise laws for being there when spmeone they know has killed someone. If they go somewhere with the intention of beating someone up, even if it isn’t them that turns it into a murder, they can be prosecuted for it. Yet raping a woman isn’t seen as intending to do enough damage?

https://www.mirror.co.uk/news/uk-news/37-year-old-mum-raped-33808196

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MissMeMiss · 03/10/2024 21:07

@Cockerpooslave what makes you think that?

Bex5490 · 03/10/2024 21:09

BakeOffRewatch · 03/10/2024 21:00

She left behind two teenage sons and an 18 month old daughter. She was only 37. Her little girl will miss out on so many of mummy’s kisses.

OP you might like the book The Secret Barrister. It starts by setting out how the jury is essential in essential in judging crimes and criminals’ guilt by a social standard and expectation. So if enough of us think this is murder, and sufficient intent to cause harm or think that total disregard for the life of a person in intended actions constitutes murder then a jury should reflect that. A jury is then advised based on case law, and cases can be ground breaking in setting or shifting a standard. I see a lot of threads on here on how impossible jury duty is to undertake for SAHM, anyone with caring responsibilities, school hours to commit to, the total lack of money during jury service - I’m sure that the lack of women in jury service because of these societal constraints is reflected in the outcomes. And then you have situations like this “Trial lawyer ‘repeatedly crossed line’ with rape survivor” https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/c4n1l3n8zg1o . When I went to Google to find that article, there are SO many rape trials that come up on BBC News.

Thanks for the recommendation - I must have missed these threads but your point about the type of person how can be a juror is really interesting. Especially if this impacts the decisions made by prosecutors because of what they predict a jury will do.

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Allthehorsesintheworld · 03/10/2024 21:10

Difficult to give an opinion without all the facts but given that the woman was not in a state to consent her ability to object was also compromised. If the man then orally raped her I’d argue ( tho I’m not a lawyer) that he compromised her ability to breathe beyond what she was able to control. What I mean is a sober, completely conscious woman would be able to bite, fight and/or adjust her breathing during this heinous act enough to stay alive. This woman wasn’t in a state to do that. So as death could be expected to occur he should be tried for murder. ( I only read the first link which I thought sounded somewhat victim blaming. Any decent person would have realised she was in a totally vulnerable state and got help asap)
And I’d hang the bastard.

LaerealSilverhand · 03/10/2024 21:10

Hadalifeonce · 03/10/2024 20:53

I firmly believe that if a person dies as a result of someone committing another crime, it should be treated as murder. That includes drunk driving.

The problem with this approach is that it will result in lots of acquittals as juries are notoriously squeamish about convicting for serious offences at the best of times and doubly so when it involves an activity that they all do themselves (driving). This is why drivers who kill are not charged with manslaughter but with the lesser offence of causing death by dangerous/careless driving. When they were charged with manslaughter juries routinely let them off.

RunningOutOfImaginitiveUsernames · 03/10/2024 21:12

Because it's very unlikely to result in death unless they are also violent in other ways (ie strangulation or hitting forcefully).

Ghouella · 03/10/2024 21:12

Cockerpooslave · 03/10/2024 21:02

Genuinely curious why you’d think that? Rape is traumatic, violating and the exercise of violence and control over another person’s body, why is that lesser than a punch?

I do genuinely want to understand as I wonder if your thought process may throw light on why sexual violence against women and girls is seen as less deserving of punishment and more socially acceptable than other types of violence.

I'm not the person you quoted but I think conflating GBH and rape would have the unintended consequence of contributing to the perception that rape is always violent or comes from somebody who obviously intends to harm you.

Ultimately the essential definition of rape is penetration without consent. It's consent of the person being raped (or lack thereof) that's important, not the intentions of the person committing the rape, how the rape is conducted, nor whether harm is perceived by either party. In that sense rape is a very different / separate crime than GBH, though both may be said to occur at the same time in one act.

What I would say is that in the case of whether a murder charge can be applied, intention to rape should be elevated to the same position as intention to commit GBH. That's much more straightforward I think also than having to mix up GBH and rape.

Blueuggboots · 03/10/2024 21:15

@RunningOutOfImaginitiveUsernames, that's manslaughter? Murder has to have premeditation.

Bex5490 · 03/10/2024 21:21

Ghouella · 03/10/2024 21:12

I'm not the person you quoted but I think conflating GBH and rape would have the unintended consequence of contributing to the perception that rape is always violent or comes from somebody who obviously intends to harm you.

Ultimately the essential definition of rape is penetration without consent. It's consent of the person being raped (or lack thereof) that's important, not the intentions of the person committing the rape, how the rape is conducted, nor whether harm is perceived by either party. In that sense rape is a very different / separate crime than GBH, though both may be said to occur at the same time in one act.

What I would say is that in the case of whether a murder charge can be applied, intention to rape should be elevated to the same position as intention to commit GBH. That's much more straightforward I think also than having to mix up GBH and rape.

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I agree with this. If intent to rape had the same status as intent to cause GBH, then this case would be considered murder.

Cases involving statutory rape where someone isn’t able to legally consent I suppose can’t be seen in the same way as GBH. But the act of rape in all its forms should no way be seen as lesser than GBH.

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Penpenpens · 03/10/2024 21:25

There is a distinction in law and it's important it's adhered to as the thresholds for conviction are different. It doesn't mean it's less horrific, and a judge can still give a life sentence should they be found guilty, but I can see why some find it uncomfortable- lots assume manslaughter isn't intentional when that isn't necessarily the case. It is an awful crime though, her poor family.

Scentedjasmin · 03/10/2024 21:26

Some men are absolute pigs! Still so much misogynism and violence around. Can you imagine your loved one being so violated when they were so vulnerable and needed help. I hope that he rots in hell.

LBFseBrom · 03/10/2024 21:28

Bex5490 · 03/10/2024 20:25

Maybe it’s ignorant of me to think it should be murder and shows my lack of knowledge of legal terms. I just think that this has to be amongst the worst crimes. Manslaughter to me implies something accidental.

The rape was not accidental, the death was, therefore manslaughter.

It is a horrible, violent crime. I doubt if the perpetrator will see the light of day again or at least not until he is very old so the consequences will be the same as if it was murder.

Poor woman.

grisen · 03/10/2024 21:30

This is so difficult, because the rape was the crime of choice. However, I’m a survivor of a case that’s being trialed as a rape/GBH/attempted manslaughter (not UK)… it’s awful because the aftermath of the GBH/attempted manslaughter is what I struggle with much more than the rape… but the rape is seen as the worst of the three by the system and that’s why I get support in terms of therapy and such.

MissMeMiss · 03/10/2024 21:32

Also, with regards to rape. It's rarely once.

So I'd like to see consecutive sentences instead of being served as 'concurrent'

Rape is predominantly a crime against women and girls so imo should be sentenced as such

NeverDropYourMooncup · 03/10/2024 21:32

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CannotBelieveImAskingThis · 03/10/2024 21:33

From a legal point, manslaughter has one of the widest sentencing ranges available to judges. Manslaughter can be the OP's original thought and accidental, or it can come about as a result of a lesser crime, or it can be just-not-quite murder. Therefore a judge can give almost any sentence to someone found guilty of manslaughter, from a whole life sentence to a fine or community service.

Hopefully in this case the judge will give a sentence that truly reflects the heinous crime committed.

Lifeomars · 03/10/2024 21:41

I only read the headline of this case as it was just so horrible so this thread has brought me up to date with the utter depravity of this case. It made me remember something that happened to a friend of mine. She was attacked by a stranger who orally raped her. He was never caught. She managed her trauma by using alcohol to block it out. Ten years after the attack she died as a consequence of her drinking or as I see it, a consequence of the rape. The attack happened in the 80's and the way she was treated by the police was appalling. They basically accused her of lying, She was on her way back to her boyfriend's flat after being at a party. Police said she had probably been with someone else at the party and made up the rape to deceive her boyfriend. There was no counselling for victims in those days, so my poor friend just used to obliterate herself with booze.

Genevieva · 03/10/2024 21:43

Blueuggboots · 03/10/2024 20:22

You have to prove intention and premeditation to kill for murder. Therefore it's manslaughter.

You don’t. You have to show intention and premeditation to kill or do serious harm. So if you set out to brutally assault them and they die of the injuries you inflicted, you are guilty of murder, not manslaughter. The issue raised by the OP is the clear sexism in treating rape as less serious than physical assault in a case where rape leads to the death of the victim. It’s a clear discrepancy.

Genevieva · 03/10/2024 21:52

Bex5490 · 03/10/2024 21:21

I agree with this. If intent to rape had the same status as intent to cause GBH, then this case would be considered murder.

Cases involving statutory rape where someone isn’t able to legally consent I suppose can’t be seen in the same way as GBH. But the act of rape in all its forms should no way be seen as lesser than GBH.

OP, if you have a half decent MP, write to them about this discrepancy and ask for a review of why violent rape that causes death is not considered to meet the standard of murder when non-sexual violence leading to death is.

KvotheTheBloodless · 03/10/2024 21:53

If the CPS haven't gone with a murder charge, there'll be a good reason - they probably felt they'd not get a conviction based on the evidence. Manslaughter can carry a life sentence anyway, so it doesn't make much difference whether they go for murder or manslaughter.

Poor woman, what happened to her is utterly vile. May that man rot in prison for his whole life.

ChampaignSupernova · 03/10/2024 21:55

Murder is when the person intends to kill another or cause gbh. Manslaughter is when someone dies but that wasn't the intention. Manslaughter with intent is where intention to murder/cause gbh was there but also loss of control or other factor. I assume the intention of defendant was to rape (can't see anything else mentioned aside from rape so this is assumption of no additional violence) not to actually kill her. He has killed her though so now faces upto life imprisonment.

The maximum sentence a judge can impose for rape or manslaughter etc and whether people think it's suitable is a whole different debate and one probably for another thread where it isn't centered around a specific tragic case.

DramaLlamaBangBang · 03/10/2024 21:56

Manslaughter, rape and GBH with intent all carry maximum life sentences. Arguably the fault lies with the judges who hand out too lenient sentences. Murder has a very high burden of proof. Far higher than manslaughter as you cannot convict on a murder charge unless you prove beyond reasonable doubt that there was an intent to kill or cause GBH, and a jury has to decide that. It is better to have a likelihood of a conviction than for a person to go free because the jury couldn't decide on intent to kill/cause GBH. Once they have a conviction it is up to the judge to sentence. If they are handing out risible sentences when they could give a higher sentence then the fault lies with them, not necessarily the system. Unless you want to do away with trial by jury.

Edingril · 03/10/2024 21:58

Bex5490 · 03/10/2024 20:25

Maybe it’s ignorant of me to think it should be murder and shows my lack of knowledge of legal terms. I just think that this has to be amongst the worst crimes. Manslaughter to me implies something accidental.

Well as much as what happened is appalling I don't think the legal system runs on 'yeah but I say it can't be that because I don't like it'

absolutelydone · 03/10/2024 21:58

What a disturbing story

That poor poor woman.

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