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Stopping the boats.

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Scenicgirl · 30/09/2024 22:05

Honest question.
When Rishi Sunak announced the promise to tackle Channel migrant crossings as one of his five key pledges at the beginning of 2023, and subsequently failed and Keir Starmer appearing not to be concerned about the numbers arriving daily, when other EU countries have taken a much sterner stance sending a clear message, why can't we stop/pause the boats?

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Whothefuckdoesthat · 01/10/2024 12:29

There need to be mechanisms for people to apply for asylum from their own countries, e.g. Afghan and Iranian women living in repressive theocratic regimes 🤦‍♀️

The main problem with living in a repressive regime is that it is repressive, so I’m genuinely interested in how you think this could possibly work, bearing in mind that the two countries you’ve mentioned aren’t known for letting their female citizens wander about as they please? We have no embassy there and internet access isn’t a given, especially in remote areas of Afghanistan, even if the authorities allow access to British government websites and the woman in question isn’t having to escape from her family as well. So, assuming a woman has internet access and a supportive family, and manages to be granted asylum in the UK from her own country; exactly how would she get to us? Do we send her a residence permit and a ‘Good Luck not getting killed/forced into modern slavery trying to get out of your country’ card? Do we contact the Iranians and the Taliban and ask them for permission to land a flight there to pick up all of the citizens that want to escape from them? How do you think that will work out for the women when they turn up at the airport? Or do we just tell them that it’s survival of the fittest, and the onus is on them to smuggle themselves into a different country?

Gloriana1 · 01/10/2024 12:31

Whothefuckdoesthat · 01/10/2024 12:29

There need to be mechanisms for people to apply for asylum from their own countries, e.g. Afghan and Iranian women living in repressive theocratic regimes 🤦‍♀️

The main problem with living in a repressive regime is that it is repressive, so I’m genuinely interested in how you think this could possibly work, bearing in mind that the two countries you’ve mentioned aren’t known for letting their female citizens wander about as they please? We have no embassy there and internet access isn’t a given, especially in remote areas of Afghanistan, even if the authorities allow access to British government websites and the woman in question isn’t having to escape from her family as well. So, assuming a woman has internet access and a supportive family, and manages to be granted asylum in the UK from her own country; exactly how would she get to us? Do we send her a residence permit and a ‘Good Luck not getting killed/forced into modern slavery trying to get out of your country’ card? Do we contact the Iranians and the Taliban and ask them for permission to land a flight there to pick up all of the citizens that want to escape from them? How do you think that will work out for the women when they turn up at the airport? Or do we just tell them that it’s survival of the fittest, and the onus is on them to smuggle themselves into a different country?

But the blokes get out!

So that's cool.

Scenicgirl · 01/10/2024 12:32

SallyWD · 01/10/2024 08:49

Women and children are often in the boats, haven't you read the reports? But they're more likely to die on the crossings so usually men come first and then bring their families if they manage to get established. I was reading about this yesterday.
Also men in their 20s are exactly the sort of people we need to fill the gaps in our labour market. Young, healthy men of working age are far more use to us than elderly people for example. They will contribute to society and pay taxes. Immigrants are far less likely to claim benefits than British people. They want to work. They have to claim the small amount of benefits when being processed because they're not allowed to work. That's a government decision.

I would be interested in the stats to support your statement about the men bringing their families to join them and by what means?

Your statement about "Young, healthy men of working age are far more use to us than elderly people for example. They will contribute to society and pay taxes" is incredulous and needs to be proved then I'm sure people would feel differently towards them.
What on earth makes you think that elderly people should be discarded in favour of these young men, don't you know that elderly people pay taxes too? So your response is to be cruel to people who were born here, worked and paid taxes only to favour young healthy men of working age who chanced coming to this country?
So what would you suggest doing with them when they eventually grow old?
People should not be made to feel discriminated against or apologetic for growing old.

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SallyWD · 01/10/2024 12:33

Gloriana1 · 01/10/2024 12:28

Ok. You work in the field.

Why so many young men?

If life is so perilous for them, you'd think they'd get the women and children out.

You talk about 'safe migration paths' for asylum seekers.

Have you driven through Calais in the last 20 years??

I have.

There's a lot of blokes there.

They are surely 'safe' in France or Germany or Italy.

The men in Calais are in no immediate peril.

www.euronews.com/2023/09/06/why-its-often-men-who-make-the-migration-journey-to-europe
To answer your questions about why more men are making these journeys.

2dogsandabudgie · 01/10/2024 12:45

Scenicgirl · 01/10/2024 11:44

Short of building an extension on GB (hypothetical obviously) exactly how do we plan to accept the millions of people expected?
Because eventually we will run out of hotels, space to build new centres/housing etc so what then? Be told we have to open our homes?
Which is why we need to set limits on the numbers we accept and the government need to get off their backsides to find a better solution because this is going to be a major problem in the not too distant future. But unfortunately, we know the past 2 governments haven't had the backbone to take control.

Yes I agree with this. It's ok for people on here to say well it's only 35,000 people who came over last year, I think that was the number. But that's a lot of people who need housing, GPs, Dentists, access to hospital treatment etc, not to mention that number then increases if they then want to bring family here.

I would bet that a very large percentage are minimum wage workers so they will then need help with housing benefit, wage top ups etc. We cannot keep expecting migrants to do the jobs we don't want to, if that is the case, as that's not solving the problem it's just adding to it.

And where do you draw the line and say enough is enough. When our population is 75 million, 90 million, 100 million?

SallyWD · 01/10/2024 12:46

Scenicgirl · 01/10/2024 12:32

I would be interested in the stats to support your statement about the men bringing their families to join them and by what means?

Your statement about "Young, healthy men of working age are far more use to us than elderly people for example. They will contribute to society and pay taxes" is incredulous and needs to be proved then I'm sure people would feel differently towards them.
What on earth makes you think that elderly people should be discarded in favour of these young men, don't you know that elderly people pay taxes too? So your response is to be cruel to people who were born here, worked and paid taxes only to favour young healthy men of working age who chanced coming to this country?
So what would you suggest doing with them when they eventually grow old?
People should not be made to feel discriminated against or apologetic for growing old.

If someone is granted asylum they are then allowed to bring their families.

Sorry, I think you misunderstood my point about young healthy males. I wasn't saying they were more important than elderly people. I was responding to a pp who said they didn't want "young men" (specifically) coming here. I was trying to ask why not young men? Surely if we have so many job vacancies here (we do) then young males are perfect to fill many of these vacancies. I didn't understand why the pp wanted to reject young males but would seemingly accept other ages and sexes of immigrants.
I was actually saying a young male immigrant might be more useful to the country than an elderly immigrant because they'd be working and paying taxes. I wasn't talking about elderly British people!
Anyway, the fact is I have nothing against elderly immigrants either. They're welcome, in my opinion. I was simply making a point that young males could be useful when we don't have enough people to fill the job vacancies.

candlewhickgreen · 01/10/2024 12:47

Gloriana1 · 01/10/2024 12:31

But the blokes get out!

So that's cool.

If you're using Afghanistan as an example, and we get a lot of Afghan asylum seekers, women can't travel without a chaperone and can't leave the country. There was a conference to discuss women's rights in Albania recently and women were dragged off the planes in Pakistan.

Women are also vulnerable to traffickers who exploit refugees and can be forced into prostitution or forced labour. They're also at risk of sexual assault. Women may be carers or mothers and not want to bring their children or abandon them.

EasternStandard · 01/10/2024 12:50

SallyWD · 01/10/2024 12:46

If someone is granted asylum they are then allowed to bring their families.

Sorry, I think you misunderstood my point about young healthy males. I wasn't saying they were more important than elderly people. I was responding to a pp who said they didn't want "young men" (specifically) coming here. I was trying to ask why not young men? Surely if we have so many job vacancies here (we do) then young males are perfect to fill many of these vacancies. I didn't understand why the pp wanted to reject young males but would seemingly accept other ages and sexes of immigrants.
I was actually saying a young male immigrant might be more useful to the country than an elderly immigrant because they'd be working and paying taxes. I wasn't talking about elderly British people!
Anyway, the fact is I have nothing against elderly immigrants either. They're welcome, in my opinion. I was simply making a point that young males could be useful when we don't have enough people to fill the job vacancies.

If someone is granted asylum they are then allowed to bring their families.

So just the crossings doesn’t give the full picture?

That may be 30k but families will take that up again for asylum

dottiehens · 01/10/2024 12:51

To begin with some would oppose any attempt to stop the boats. Wherever it is and wherever the price the U.K. pays.

2dogsandabudgie · 01/10/2024 12:54

SallyWD · 01/10/2024 12:46

If someone is granted asylum they are then allowed to bring their families.

Sorry, I think you misunderstood my point about young healthy males. I wasn't saying they were more important than elderly people. I was responding to a pp who said they didn't want "young men" (specifically) coming here. I was trying to ask why not young men? Surely if we have so many job vacancies here (we do) then young males are perfect to fill many of these vacancies. I didn't understand why the pp wanted to reject young males but would seemingly accept other ages and sexes of immigrants.
I was actually saying a young male immigrant might be more useful to the country than an elderly immigrant because they'd be working and paying taxes. I wasn't talking about elderly British people!
Anyway, the fact is I have nothing against elderly immigrants either. They're welcome, in my opinion. I was simply making a point that young males could be useful when we don't have enough people to fill the job vacancies.

So if we have so many job vacancies in this country and not enough people to fill them, why do people say that immigrants are doing jobs that British people don't want to. It's either one or the other.

If British people don't want to do these low paid jobs and receive benefits instead why are people against benefits being stopped after 12 months if someone refuses a job. We wouldn't need to rely on immigration then.

AlaskaThunderfuckHiiiiiiiii · 01/10/2024 13:01

@2dogsandabudgie I’ve just posted about what the government is doing in my area, paying care companies subsidies to employ immigrants, the company is giving them all the hours and cutting the hours of the care staff already doing the job and have been for years therefore they are leaving how is that helping?

RaininSummer · 01/10/2024 13:04

Most these young fit men do not speak English and have no work skills so the huge asset the poster thinks. They also get a lot more than 37 pounds once processed and allowed to stay.

Hoppinggreen · 01/10/2024 13:04

Scenicgirl · 01/10/2024 10:23

I'm in full agreement re your remark about the traffickers, it is definitely those who need digging out and dealing with, but as for my reference to "the boats" that is what we are seeing arriving to our shores and since I'm not on 1st name terms with the occupants, it is merely a turn of phrase and not meant to cause offence.

I am not on first name terms with them either but I generally find a better word for people who come here than "boats"

Scenicgirl · 01/10/2024 13:07

Hoppinggreen · 01/10/2024 13:04

I am not on first name terms with them either but I generally find a better word for people who come here than "boats"

Fair enough, do enlighten me.

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ChardonnaysBeastlyCat · 01/10/2024 13:08

SallyWD · 01/10/2024 12:46

If someone is granted asylum they are then allowed to bring their families.

Sorry, I think you misunderstood my point about young healthy males. I wasn't saying they were more important than elderly people. I was responding to a pp who said they didn't want "young men" (specifically) coming here. I was trying to ask why not young men? Surely if we have so many job vacancies here (we do) then young males are perfect to fill many of these vacancies. I didn't understand why the pp wanted to reject young males but would seemingly accept other ages and sexes of immigrants.
I was actually saying a young male immigrant might be more useful to the country than an elderly immigrant because they'd be working and paying taxes. I wasn't talking about elderly British people!
Anyway, the fact is I have nothing against elderly immigrants either. They're welcome, in my opinion. I was simply making a point that young males could be useful when we don't have enough people to fill the job vacancies.

How many of them do you realistically think will be happy to word as carers?

Gloriana1 · 01/10/2024 13:13

SallyWD · 01/10/2024 12:33

www.euronews.com/2023/09/06/why-its-often-men-who-make-the-migration-journey-to-europe
To answer your questions about why more men are making these journeys.

Oh, OK, so men, are more likely to be monsterised, by? Other men?

So it's very cool for them to get out and leave the women and children to all the monsterisation.

Good to know that they're leaving the women and children unprotected until they can send for them.

I dunno, I have a husband and a son and a daughter, if we were all in peril I'd have a lot more respect for them if they stayed to protect us from whatever the danger was.

I wouldn't think to put my son forward. I'd put my daughter forward to escape from an oppressive regime, because it would be more harmful to her. Surely?

Gloriana1 · 01/10/2024 13:17

I do think that anyone who supports mass immigration by young men is a credulous fool.

Scenicgirl · 01/10/2024 13:18

Gloriana1 · 01/10/2024 13:13

Oh, OK, so men, are more likely to be monsterised, by? Other men?

So it's very cool for them to get out and leave the women and children to all the monsterisation.

Good to know that they're leaving the women and children unprotected until they can send for them.

I dunno, I have a husband and a son and a daughter, if we were all in peril I'd have a lot more respect for them if they stayed to protect us from whatever the danger was.

I wouldn't think to put my son forward. I'd put my daughter forward to escape from an oppressive regime, because it would be more harmful to her. Surely?

Exactly this.

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user1471516498 · 01/10/2024 13:31

The "first safe country" rhetoric is very handy for the UK, in that it means that no asylum seekers should come to the UK at all. Probably why it is not in fact policy.

inamarina · 01/10/2024 13:41

candlewhickgreen · 01/10/2024 12:47

If you're using Afghanistan as an example, and we get a lot of Afghan asylum seekers, women can't travel without a chaperone and can't leave the country. There was a conference to discuss women's rights in Albania recently and women were dragged off the planes in Pakistan.

Women are also vulnerable to traffickers who exploit refugees and can be forced into prostitution or forced labour. They're also at risk of sexual assault. Women may be carers or mothers and not want to bring their children or abandon them.

Women may be carers or mothers and not want to bring their children or abandon them.

Yet many men seem to be willing to abandon the women.
Considering the fact they’re not allowed to leave the house without a chaperone, in what position does that leave those women?

poetryandwine · 01/10/2024 13:41

Thank you, @horrorcicada , for a factual and informative post.

AvaJae · 01/10/2024 13:53

1apenny2apenny · 01/10/2024 09:20

Things I don't understand:

  • how would legal routes really help? These people are undocumented as they don't want us to know who they are. If they were all doctors/dentists/insert any skilled worker then they would be keen to show this and get their claim processed quickly. Let's face it they are undocumented, unskilled economic migrants who are mainly male (with cultural norms very different to our own). They would not qualify under a 'legal' route so they will just keep coming anyway.
  • how exactly do the Home Office process people who have no documentation and probably will not say who they are or will lie? I honestly wonder how this works? I realise it's slow but I'm not surprised.
  • what do we know actually about how many speak English, have family here? We are led to believe this is the main reason however councils spend £££ on English lessons and frequently when interviewed they can't speak English (unless the MSM are choosing those who can't speak English). I'd like to see the stats.
  • why are they housed and fed when English people, some who fought in the war are left with sub standard housing, struggling to live and eat?

What would I do? Setup large camps in warehouses or static caravans with basic food, shared toilets and showers. I would they are the bottom of the list for housing, organise working groups do get them out cleaning streets, graffiti etc. in fact make it uncomfortable.

Kier Starmer intends to provide housing for veterans.

https://www.housingtoday.co.uk/news/keir-starmer-promises-to-house-all-military-veterans-in-need-domestic-abuse-victims-and-young-care-leavers/5131790.article

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https://www.housingtoday.co.uk/news/keir-starmer-promises-to-house-all-military-veterans-in-need-domestic-abuse-victims-and-young-care-leavers/5131790.article

swimsong · 01/10/2024 13:58

peppermintteacup · 01/10/2024 05:23

Make a blanket policy that no migrant will be housed in any of the 5 largest cities in the UK.

And then make a PR campaign abroad to spread that.

Congratulations on the daftest suggestion on the thread. A thread that started so well before MAGA-lite arrived.

Obviously it would've been better if Johnson, the lazy fecker, had bothered to renegotiate the Dublin Agreement.

en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dublin_Regulation?wprov=sfla1

Scenicgirl · 01/10/2024 14:07

peppermintteacup · Today 05:23
Make a blanket policy that no migrant will be housed in any of the 5 largest cities in the UK.
And then make a PR campaign abroad to spread that.

Oh yes, great idea because all the people who live in the pretty towns and villages will welcome them with open arms.

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candlewhickgreen · 01/10/2024 14:12

inamarina · 01/10/2024 13:41

Women may be carers or mothers and not want to bring their children or abandon them.

Yet many men seem to be willing to abandon the women.
Considering the fact they’re not allowed to leave the house without a chaperone, in what position does that leave those women?

The age of the men coming from Afghanistan are quite young, they're more likely to be sending over their sons hoping he'll bring them over or send over money.

There are millions of women without chaperones in Afghanistan most noteably widows, but any close male relative can act as a chaperone. It's expensive to pay for smugglers and their family may have given them the money to go.

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