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To think it's nonsense to believe that people chose homelessness?

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credflow012 · 25/09/2024 13:44

My friend is studying homelessness as part of a project in his sociology class. We were having a discussion last weekend and his belief was that anyone can become homeless but that he doesn't have much sympathy for the long-term homeless because most of them were addicts.

I found this ignorant and a bit offensive. Yes, people with substance-use disorder are overrepresented amongst the homeless but from volunterring with the homeless in college, I know that many started using after becoming homeless not the other way round. Mental illness, childhood trauma, and physical disabilites are very common in the chronic homeless and knowing how terrible healthcare is for the mentally ill and disabled even in many developed countries, I can't imagine how I'd personally be able to get out of that situation.

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ChiffandBipper · 26/09/2024 22:10

If people are choosing homelessness, it's because staying in their previous situation was an even worse option.

Elleherd · 27/09/2024 10:14

^^Totally.

St Annes 'over nighting' graveyard prayer

"The grave, great teacher, to a level brings
Heroes and beggars, galley-slaves and kings,
But Theodore this moral learn’d ere dead:
Fate poured its lessons on his living head,
Bestow’d a kingdom, and denied him bread."

Poor king brought low, protect me now until first light,
As I shelter here this cold dark fearsome night.
None sew for me, I have no kingdom, I have no bread,
None will carve a stone for me when I'm made dead.
I've crossed my fingers and hope not to die,
from cold, or evil, if I'm discovered where I lie.
Pass on what kindness you where shown,
Keep me alive under your resting stone.

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