Fair enough, but:
Low self esteem in part because you didn't feel part of the Elite class? Really?
Despite being the top of a very well to do establishment?
Earning hundreds of thousands a year? Putting you in the top (2%?) of earners in the entire country.
A long marriage, no previous divorces
Prestige, respect, honor, gravitas, adulation
I guess he's saying he had the feeling of being an actor through life?
I can accept that, but I would like to ask him this as a survivor myself:
What do you think the level of self-esteem is of those whose abuse and exploitation you got a sexual high from? What level do you think it is today, tomorrow, twenty years time? Fifty? What do you think they will achieve, career wise, education wise? In their relationships?
I personally hope he embraces life long therapy. Throws himself into his faith more and deals with his demons.
But above all, I hope he manages to feel true remorse. Lamenting your very minor in-the-grand-scheme-of-things-ability to go to Oxford smacks of 'I deserve.' I do get feeling 'less than' in the presence of the better educated and born-to-wealth types. Completely. But humility would help you realise you're among 90% of the population on that score and feeling, if anything, a sense of pride for the monumental achievements to date despite that. He had achieved it all!
It would be a terrible waste and a very great shame if he doesn't achieve some true sorrow over his actions and those hurt by them. It is hugely sad to witness such a monumental example of self-destruction.