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To think surely other people must also think it’s gross to…

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UmmJsTL3 · 15/09/2024 18:15

use re useable wipes for a baby/toddler?? I get saving the planet etc etc but surely too far?!

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OrangeSlices998 · 16/09/2024 13:22

UmmJsTL3 · 16/09/2024 06:26

Well all I can say is out of many mums I’ve met since having my dd, only one used reusables and one tried it and went back to disposables pretty fast. So I actually don’t think I’m that alone in this view!

I’m sure lots of people find them tricky to use or find the washing a faff especially if their husband/partner doesn’t do any of it.

My husband was very capable of getting involved with the washing and we both liked using them and used them for 2 kids. We’ll use them again for no 3!

Maybe it’s just my circle but locally I know at least 5 other families that used them, not all exclusively, so I think it depends on what you see and what you try and your support system.

justasking111 · 16/09/2024 13:32

We used to have a van man who would collect dirty nappies, wash and return in our area.

Tryonemoretime · 16/09/2024 14:17

UmmJsTL3 · 16/09/2024 06:26

Well all I can say is out of many mums I’ve met since having my dd, only one used reusables and one tried it and went back to disposables pretty fast. So I actually don’t think I’m that alone in this view!

Is following the crowd a great idea? Why not show them the better way to do things....😏

BrimfulofSasha · 16/09/2024 14:28

Gigi58 · 16/09/2024 08:08

I say this politely but I personally don’t think they are like for like so I’m not sure why this comparison keeps being made.

Washing one’s face with a cloth and even underwear - which I don’t recall soiling since a very young child - is not the same as a disposable nappy or wipe which is sometimes initially covered in faeces before the cleaning process begins. Some nappies are easier to deal with than others (without going into too much detail), but poonamis as they’re known are pretty common too.

I understand they can both be cleaned but they aren’t really that comparable, in my opinion.

I meant the type of cleaning cloths you use to clean your toilet, not flannels.

Toiletbrushdisaster · 16/09/2024 16:03

I was lucky enough to live in the country when my children were small. No disposable nappies then( I think I was given a sample one for my last child ,but they were useless) I used to tip the contents of a soiled nappy down the loo as much as possible. Soak nappies in a bucket of napisan . Loved the smell of napisan ,does it still exist? and then boil the nappies in an old cast iron pot ( kept for that purpose!
) on the Aga .
The nappies looked lovely and white blowing on a long line in the orchard . Don't know if I'd want to do it if drying was an issue though. I can't get on with wipes of any description. They feel slimy. White dishcloths for kitchen and flannels for face .

Jeezitneverends · 17/09/2024 13:34

MagdaLenor · 15/09/2024 19:52

Why would you put dirty nappies in an empty bin and leave it for two weeks?

Are you being deliberately obtuse?

Spoink · 17/09/2024 14:03

We used reusable wipes with DC, they're brilliant, far more effective at actually cleaning poo v disposable wipes that just kind of move wet poo around and take zillions. You can do with one reusable what it takes about 5 disposables to do. Then they just got chucked in the giant wet bag and went in the wash.

Whatever you use, you have to deal with shit one way or the other, no escaping it. Also we used reusable nappies with DD1 (didn't with DD2, not because they weren't good but because I wasn't v well for a while and we wanted to make life 'easier', although looking back I'm not sure it was that much anyway!) and didn't have a single poonami. They're really good for containing even the most explosive nappies.

Theoddnessofmnisamazing · 17/09/2024 14:35

I just really struggle to understand why a bit of cloth that's been thoroughly washed and sterilised is such a horror.

justasking111 · 17/09/2024 16:24

Our council collect nappies weekly. They give you a blue bin for that purpose. Medical waste they collect in yellow bins. Is this unusual?

MagdaLenor · 17/09/2024 16:33

Theoddnessofmnisamazing · 17/09/2024 14:35

I just really struggle to understand why a bit of cloth that's been thoroughly washed and sterilised is such a horror.

I've no idea; it's only recently in human history that we've had disposables, and millions around the world still never use them.
I wonder if some people are just hyper squeamish about bodily functions? Although it's strange from women who've given birth!

MagdaLenor · 17/09/2024 16:34

Jeezitneverends · 17/09/2024 13:34

Are you being deliberately obtuse?

No need to be rude.
I realised the point and another poster clarified it for me.
Without being personal or rude. Funny that.

Custardandrhubarbcrumble · 20/09/2024 07:45

Another one here who thinks wheelie bins overflowing with plastic bags full of plastic bags full of plastic nappies covered in shit that are going to still exist in 500 years time are way more disgusting than some pieces of cotton washed and dried, with the poo flushed away into the sewage system.

Nappies drying on the line are a lovely sight. We never bothered with soaking ours. Just place in a lidded bucket next to the loo and wash every day or two. Washable wipes also great. I have teenagers and am still amazed at the number of people who keep packs of disposable wipes around the house even when they don't have babies. Just wash your hands with soap, or use a washable cloth to clean other things!

Barrenfieldoffucks · 20/09/2024 22:06

We did similar. Flick whatever can be flicked down the loo down the loo, chuck in a lidded bucket. Every day, or every other day run a rinse wash, then a longer wash wash with either laundry sanitiser along with normal washing powder, or bio. Another rinse and spin after, on the line. Lots of those little octopus sock hangers on the washing line for all the various liners etc. It was really quite easy. We had a selection of different brands, mostly bought secondhand, along with tonnes of wipes.

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