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To think it’s unprofessional to deliver stuff with a lit cigarette in your mouth?

116 replies

wishiwasinthe80s · 14/09/2024 16:29

πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚ I know this is proper pearl clutching.

Just taken in a parcel and the driver had a lit cigarette in his mouth. I must have had thousands of deliveries over the years and that’s never happened.

it’s unprofessional right?

OP posts:
ThePrologue · 15/09/2024 07:29

Postman yes. Midwife, not so much

Riapia · 15/09/2024 07:38

aperolspritzbasicbitch · 14/09/2024 16:59

Was it a delivery from Evri??

I've had this before - I've also complained about it before because the guy WAS smoking in the van, to such an extent that my parcel stank, I had to take it outside to open and leave the packaging outside.

Only on MN.
πŸ˜‰

aperolspritzbasicbitch · 15/09/2024 08:37

I don't think that taking a cardboard box that stinks of cigarette smoke in to my back garden and opening it, then leaving the box there, is outlandish as some of you are trying to make out...

TroysMammy · 15/09/2024 08:43

Gemmy96 · 14/09/2024 19:37

Pay minimum wage, get minimum effort is all I can say.

If I wrote what I think about you then I would get a ban.

DearGoldFish · 15/09/2024 08:44

TroysMammy · 15/09/2024 08:43

If I wrote what I think about you then I would get a ban.

no bad thing

aperolspritzbasicbitch · 15/09/2024 08:46

Also, why are people acting like it's the worse job in the world? Lots of people are paid the absolute minimum - would you be ok with your Friday night takeaway being delivered to you by someone with a cigarette in their mouth?

DearGoldFish · 15/09/2024 08:47

aperolspritzbasicbitch · 15/09/2024 08:46

Also, why are people acting like it's the worse job in the world? Lots of people are paid the absolute minimum - would you be ok with your Friday night takeaway being delivered to you by someone with a cigarette in their mouth?

no i wouldn’t be ok with it
and i wouldn’t like my parcel stinking of smoke
but i wouldn’t report it if a one off
if repeatedly, then yes i would

TroysMammy · 15/09/2024 08:48

DearGoldFish · 15/09/2024 08:44

no bad thing

And precisely what do you mean by that?

DearGoldFish · 15/09/2024 08:49

TroysMammy · 15/09/2024 08:48

And precisely what do you mean by that?

pretty clear i think πŸ˜†

ACynicalDad · 15/09/2024 08:49

Grim, I’m all for the next level of smiling ban.

sunsetsandboardwalks · 15/09/2024 08:50

aperolspritzbasicbitch · 15/09/2024 08:46

Also, why are people acting like it's the worse job in the world? Lots of people are paid the absolute minimum - would you be ok with your Friday night takeaway being delivered to you by someone with a cigarette in their mouth?

I honestly don't think I'd even notice - certainly not enough to care about it, anyway.

People smoke - being exposed to it for two seconds when you answer the door isn't going to harm you or cause a problem.

TroysMammy · 15/09/2024 08:54

DearGoldFish · 15/09/2024 08:49

pretty clear i think πŸ˜†

I can always tell who the new people who sign up to Mumsnet are so enlighten me with your wise words.

betterangels · 15/09/2024 08:55

ACynicalDad · 15/09/2024 08:49

Grim, I’m all for the next level of smiling ban.

That would be pretty sad...

Kittynoodle · 15/09/2024 08:57

Wow what a lot of fuss!
poor man isn’t doing any harm (apart from to himself)
people need to lighten up! There are a lot worse things going on

cookiebee · 15/09/2024 08:57

Many on here would have hated it years ago, cigs behind the ear or hanging out of the mouth of pretty much any bloke delivering stuff or labouring in public

(milkman strolls to the back door as housewife is bent over sweeping the kitchen floor with a dustpan and brush, fag in hand)

”Alright darling, is your β€˜usband at β€˜ome?”

housewife β€œooooh you sausebox hahaha” said barbra Windsor style.

Deliverymen are so dull now πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

FOJN · 15/09/2024 09:01

You should report him to his employer then congratulate yourself when he loses his job.

I personally long for a society in which everyone lives in fear of being reported if they accidentally irritate/offend/inconvenience someone.

DearGoldFish · 15/09/2024 09:04

TroysMammy · 15/09/2024 08:54

I can always tell who the new people who sign up to Mumsnet are so enlighten me with your wise words.

honestly? can’t be arsed

DearGoldFish · 15/09/2024 09:05

cookiebee · 15/09/2024 08:57

Many on here would have hated it years ago, cigs behind the ear or hanging out of the mouth of pretty much any bloke delivering stuff or labouring in public

(milkman strolls to the back door as housewife is bent over sweeping the kitchen floor with a dustpan and brush, fag in hand)

”Alright darling, is your β€˜usband at β€˜ome?”

housewife β€œooooh you sausebox hahaha” said barbra Windsor style.

Deliverymen are so dull now πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

how many years ago are you referring to?!

cookiebee · 15/09/2024 09:09

DearGoldFish · 15/09/2024 09:05

how many years ago are you referring to?!

Just far enough back before everyone became uptight prat’s who are offended by everything and have no sense of humour I guess!

DearGoldFish · 15/09/2024 09:10

cookiebee · 15/09/2024 09:09

Just far enough back before everyone became uptight prat’s who are offended by everything and have no sense of humour I guess!

the example you outline sounds…. pretty gross by any measure!

cookiebee · 15/09/2024 09:11

DearGoldFish · 15/09/2024 09:10

the example you outline sounds…. pretty gross by any measure!

πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚ I love Mumsnet sometimes

TroysMammy · 15/09/2024 09:13

DearGoldFish · 15/09/2024 09:04

honestly? can’t be arsed

I can be arsed to find out so go on lovely tell me or do you have maths homework to do?

ACynicalDad · 15/09/2024 09:13

πŸ˜‘auto correct being evil.

DearGoldFish · 15/09/2024 09:18

TroysMammy · 15/09/2024 09:13

I can be arsed to find out so go on lovely tell me or do you have maths homework to do?

you sound a little…. scary so…. i pick maths homework!

DearGoldFish · 15/09/2024 09:19

After i’ve squirted next door neighbours wretched cat with a water gun for shitting in my garden that is! I’m off, got to act quickly!