Would you have sex-missionary with someone if offered money

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If so, how much would it have to be?

Discussion at work quite a few years ago, inspired by the Demi Moore film. I was younger and had more money than now. If someone asked you to sleep with them for x amount of money-say half a million, would you? Missionary only, over quickly
I was aghast and said no, most said of course they would.

Now, I think I feel differently

Would you?

I’d do it, I wouldn’t care if they were hideous either, as long as they showered beforehand. That money is already spent in my head, mortgage paid, DS could go to University, not worrying about DM’s expensive care home fees anymore, the possibility of financial security in old age. No problem.

But it’s not someone you don’t want to have sex with. It’s an offer you can take or turn down.

Sign me up!!

And probably have done 😂

Think of all the people (mostly women) who already reluctantly have sex with their (despised) partner to keep a roof over their (and the kids) heads. Surely if they had the opportunity to sleep once with someone to give them financial freedom they would.

This.

I know a handful of women who have married high earners they aren't attracted to, because they want the lifestyle. Sex is a job to them.

Surprised at all the yes answers.

you’d really sell your body for some sweaty, gross man that thinks he can buy consent to use? 🤢

It’s a no from me!

Is it payment upfront or after?

I'm genuinely grateful for your reply.

Especially the small part, must be horrid.

I'm genuinely grateful for your reply.

Especially the small part, must be horrid.

Yes I would, probably for about 20k. I've slept with plenty of people drunk in my youth for free that I regret ( with absolutely no psychological damage or self esteem damage done ) so being paid for it would be a bonus.

I think it depends on the type of person you are and how you see sex. I am a confident person in myself with plenty of self worth and would just see it as a business transaction. I see sex as lots of different things, something intimate to share with your partner and also a way of blowing off steam and experimenting with a non partner etc.. If anything I would pity the person who has to pay for it and almost feel like I was taking advantage of them.

But that's just me, it boils down to so many individual traits and preferences and would not be the same for everyone.

For sure then I could retire 5 years early. I don't know what hecwould get out of it 😂II'm too old for acrobatics though.

you’d really sell your body for some sweaty, gross man that thinks he can buy consent to use? 🤢

Absolutely. I'd try to get him to do it few times too until I got to about 5 million at least.

@moonplop I like your style

Depends what they look like for me! And no kissing. So I guess the answer is no, because why is a good looking guy going to be paying for it?

It would depend a lot on the man - David Beckham yes, Donald Trump no.

I had the discussion with DP last night. He said he wouldn't do it himself and wouldn't want me to do it either. I said I would do it but wouldn't want him to do it! So we settled on a no all round!

I was quite surprised as he's a very practical, logical person in general life. But he definitely sees sex as a much more intimate, emotional experience than I do. It is that way for me with him, but I've had plenty of meaningless sex and not regretted it, whereas I think he has regrets about the sex he's had that hasn't been with someone special.

I wouldn't. I don't need the money - I'm capable of supporting myself, if not super rich - and I don't want it enough to have sex with someone for it. I accept that that's quite a privileged position.

Yes, without a second thought actually.

I just asked DH if he’d sleep with someone for £500K. He looked over a bit puzzled and said of course he would. What if I objected? I asked.
You wouldn’t!

He's right. 😂

I did sex work online and phones years ago. I chose it but I was also 18 yrs old and had and was currently still being sexually abused. I didn’t do it for the money. It was control. Survival

I would sleep with someone for half a million but not while married. I would be more concerned with my marriage than the sex.

Sorry, I should have been clearer, "someone I'd want to have sex with with no money changing hands."

I would if it was with Chris Hemsworth.

@Chipsahoy yes dh knows I would expect 50% of whatever he 'made'

@Chipsahoy sorry my last post was meant for @HerVagestyTheQueef

No, and after reading Rachel Moran's incredible book Paid For, I think it's probably quite naive to think it wouldn't affect you.