Would you have sex-missionary with someone if offered money

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If so, how much would it have to be?

Discussion at work quite a few years ago, inspired by the Demi Moore film. I was younger and had more money than now. If someone asked you to sleep with them for x amount of money-say half a million, would you? Missionary only, over quickly
I was aghast and said no, most said of course they would.

Now, I think I feel differently

Would you?

Well, then you'd end up very rich!

Wouldnt give a crap if people knew either, I’m in my perimenopause, over 40s life stage where I don’t care about others opinions enough anymore. The gossip would be yesterday’s news soon enough anyway

Yup- same here. I wouldnt give a crap either, I'd be laughing at them as I zoomed by in my Porsche.

I wouldn't, not for any amount of money.

But I do think that that's because of my privileged life. Don't get me wrong, I'm not rich by any means, I don't own a house for example, but I have a job and earn enough to pay my bills and rent. If I really had nothing at all and it was a choice between that and being able to provide for my children, I might think differently.

Yes haha, would have to be at least half a million though!

I mean to be fair I'd do it for a large bar of Dairy Milk and a Costa Lattè 🤷‍♀️

Alas, knowing men, I can guarantee some would.

For 500k, absolutely. A couple of minutes of wham bam thank you ma’am could buy a nice home and I could relax and enjoy life instead of being trapped in a rented shit hole and miserable.

Think DP would be pissed if I turned it down.

Knowing my luck, it's more likely to be Sloth 😂

No way.

Of course I would! DH and I have had this discussion after watching the movie and agreed we would both it.

Edited to add that we would probably be annoyed with the other if we didn’t do it.

With my backing DH would go gay for pay (he said it would have to be £1m+ though!

Only if my child was starving and I had no other options.

I’m surprised how many people have said yes, considering MN attitude to sex workers is normally pretty vile.

How many women here would be OK with their husbands or partners shagging another woman if were offered a similar amount of money?

Or not even 500k, say 10k? What's the cut off point?!

I think this fall sunder three categories really:

1 - Single
2 - Married behind partner's back (if you thought you could get away with it)
3 - Married with partner's consent

For myself, it would taint the money, and everything I bought with it.

You might say, with half a million you could buy a house outright and have the security of not having to pay any rent or a mortgage. But then I'd be trapped in that house and it would be a constant reminder of what I'd done to get it.

Same here.

I've got a dire crap kitchen that hasn't been renovated in 75 years. Just the thought of new fitted cabinets would get me so aroused I'd give them the shag of a lifetime! 🤣🤣🤣

And not care who knew it.

How many women here would be OK with their husbands or partners shagging another woman if were offered a similar amount of money?

I would. If we had both discussed it openly, honestly, and agreed it together I wouldnt mind.

The issue I have with cheating is the lying and betrayal. It's completely different if it's something you have both discussed.

Totally fine. His body. We discussed it ages ago because of the film.

I think a finger in and out of my ear would be worse! 😆

I’d do it (agree with PP at around the £100K mark) and have no regrets

Single, yes. The midwife had her arm up to her elbow in me. She didn't even pay.

Married with DC. Nope. Too much to lose.

If someone was willing to pay me £500k for quick sex, I would be telling people !

I am 63 and a bit saggy. I would not do it for less though - no bragging rights in a tenner.

I'd be 100% ok with my DH doing this as long as we were open and honest about it.
It would be transactional with no feelings behind it and we could give our children and ourselves a wonderful and stress free life.
It would have to be for a substantial amount though.
Nothing below £500k

Many women (and men) will marry a wealthy partner purely for financial security. In that marriage you might be expected to wash their dirty socks/pants, provide them with children, cook them meals every night, tolerate their family, perhaps deal with unpleasant behaviour from them PLUS sleep with them frequently. I know plenty of women who are with men simply because they cannot afford to leave. I'd sooner have the cash and freedom than feel shackled to a miserable life forever.

I think simply exchanging sex for money is a quicker and more honest way of dealing with things.

What happens to all those bits of you afterwards? What happens to women who have had sex with a lot of people, are we wasting away into nothing because we keep giving bits of ourselves away?

You might feel you give a bit of yourself away to every partner. Many of us don't feel like that.

"Look at her in her porsche. Dirty cow shagged some random bloke for half a million."

"Did you get his number?"

Gossip would be jealousy more than anything.

🤣🤣 love this! A new kitchen and Mr Millionaire shagger would soon be bankrupt once word gor round amongst my mates!