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..To be mortified at the treatment of rape victims at the Edinburgh Rape Crisis Centre?

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TorghunKhan · 12/09/2024 16:22

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/clynyky7kj9o

No women only spaces for 16 months. Basically women, RAPED women - were told they could not definitely see a woman to help them with such an awful crime, they might have to see a man in a dress, and if they objected they were to be 're eductaed' by the man in charge - a man who himself applied for, and got!! a job which was supposed to be only filled by a woman.

It's shameful, disgusting, but whats worse is how many people put up with it!! Who thought this was ok?! why did nobody do anything, or say anything FOR YEARS

Woman with head in her arms sitting on a bed

Edinburgh rape crisis centre failed to protect women-only spaces

The centre unfairly dismissed a worker who believed victims should know the sex of staff who deal with their case.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/clynyky7kj9o

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GargoylesofBeelzebub · 22/09/2024 11:51

Imagine a male CEO having the phone numbers of multiple vulnerable young female service users? Everyone would see what a safeguarding huge red flag that is.

PollyDactyl · 22/09/2024 11:53

GargoylesofBeelzebub · 22/09/2024 11:51

Imagine a male CEO having the phone numbers of multiple vulnerable young female service users? Everyone would see what a safeguarding huge red flag that is.

I have got the rage all over, again.

Angry
Ereshkigalangcleg · 22/09/2024 16:38

x.com/hightreebud/status/1837820599697072343?s=46&t=SPorwN-mokktL467rcZ57g

Brilliant, fairly long thread on Twitter, highlighting the reality lie of "women only" rape crisis services in Scotland. All the receipts.

IwantToRetire · 22/09/2024 18:48

I've posted before but will repeat there are 3 rape crisis centres that are women only (in the biological sense).

And to repeat again the women who run the services persisted with providing this service during all the time that the SNP and others where putting pressure on women's group to become trans inclusive.

And they did it without the backing of a millionaire.

And they probably could have done with more support at the time.

But having repeated this fact which is easy to find on Rape Crisis Scotland's own directory of groups, have no idea how anyone, let alone the CEO of the organisation that promotes that directory could go on to claim all RCCs in Scotland have women only services. Those they dont make it quite clear they are trans inclusive.

AskingQuestionsAllTheTime · 22/09/2024 19:02

I have occasionally been "had" by things purporting to be for women only and turning out to mean they are for women and transwomen because the organisers hold that transwomen are women.

WandsOut · 22/09/2024 20:55

x.com/jk_rowling/status/1837827858284093847?s=46

Amazing thread by JKR laser focused on the unethical behaviour by Sandy.

TwistedWonder · 22/09/2024 21:05

WandsOut · 22/09/2024 20:55

x.com/jk_rowling/status/1837827858284093847?s=46

Amazing thread by JKR laser focused on the unethical behaviour by Sandy.

JKR really is such an icon. A truly strong women fighting for all of us.

Binglebong · 22/09/2024 21:25

GargoylesofBeelzebub · 22/09/2024 11:51

Imagine a male CEO having the phone numbers of multiple vulnerable young female service users? Everyone would see what a safeguarding huge red flag that is.

Worth reporting to the ICO?

user47 · 22/09/2024 22:53

WandsOut · 22/09/2024 20:55

x.com/jk_rowling/status/1837827858284093847?s=46

Amazing thread by JKR laser focused on the unethical behaviour by Sandy.

She quotes Andrea Dworkin - Ionic

murasaki · 22/09/2024 23:39

As ever, she nails it.

WandsOut · 23/09/2024 08:16

www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-13879363/JK-Rowling-blasts-arrogant-Rape-Crisis-boss-row-controversial-support-centre-led-trans-woman.html

Look at the comments - every single one in support of JKR. Two years ago it would have been a mixed bag with people in the comments not really knowing about what was going on.

Now, everyone can see the Emperor has no clothes and an erection.

Sharon Cowan over at the uni is too comfortable in that influencing position of power, bringing the Uni into disrepute as a bully of survivors of sexual assault. What can be done about her?

Sunburstclocklover · 23/09/2024 11:36

MrTiddlesTheCat · 12/09/2024 17:58

I can't get over that a man with no therapeutic training skills whatsoever was allowed to join in with therapy sessions for women who had been raped and got to ask them if they orgasmed as they were being raped. Then went on to describe these experiences as the fun, enjoyable part of his job. He's a very sick man.

Yeah a lot of people seemed to just ignore these uncomfortable facts about this massive red flag of a man! The daft women who appointed him are still in post drawing their salaries too.

TwistedWonder · 23/09/2024 11:39

WandsOut · 23/09/2024 08:16

www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-13879363/JK-Rowling-blasts-arrogant-Rape-Crisis-boss-row-controversial-support-centre-led-trans-woman.html

Look at the comments - every single one in support of JKR. Two years ago it would have been a mixed bag with people in the comments not really knowing about what was going on.

Now, everyone can see the Emperor has no clothes and an erection.

Sharon Cowan over at the uni is too comfortable in that influencing position of power, bringing the Uni into disrepute as a bully of survivors of sexual assault. What can be done about her?

As much as the DM has its many faults, it’s been one of the very few MSM outlets to really shine a light on what’s going on with the TRA movement and show its readers what’s plain to see to anyone with eyes.

They’re bound by the ridiculous rules led of calling an obvious man ‘she’ but always make sure they show their readers photos making it clear exactly who we’re dealing with here.

Delphinium20 · 23/09/2024 16:45

The insidiousness of these men who weasel their way into women's most vulnerable spaces is astounding, and I'm not surprised that some women fall for it, but once the writing is blazing neon on the walls, isn't it better to have a mea culpa rather than double down and say an author is being mean to me on X?

nothingcomestonothing · 24/09/2024 17:16

This woman and the others failed by SRC and ERCC deserved so much better then, and deserve so much better now. Brindley has no shame

https://x.com/JournalistJill/status/1838544394103775301

x.com

https://x.com/JournalistJill/status/1838544394103775301

AccidentallyWesAnderson · 25/09/2024 14:08

nothingcomestonothing · 24/09/2024 17:16

This woman and the others failed by SRC and ERCC deserved so much better then, and deserve so much better now. Brindley has no shame

https://x.com/JournalistJill/status/1838544394103775301

I think this needs another bump. Powerful letter.

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