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Oasis

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ArmchairOlympian · 31/08/2024 21:32

Am I the only person who would rather stick pins in my eyes than go to an Oasis concert?
Durgey, dull, same same music, enormous egos - no thanks I’d rather stay at home and I’m a 90s teenager!

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JaneJeffer · 31/08/2024 23:14

Prior to this oasis had never done more than arenas, and now they’re selling out stadiums?
I saw them in a stadium in 2000

ArmchairOlympian · 31/08/2024 23:14

Werweisswohin · 31/08/2024 23:12

Attention seeking?
Boredom?
Frustration?
Unresolved issues?

None of the above. Just a Saturday night anonymous post. Not really anything more, but thanks for the character assassination.

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ArmchairOlympian · 31/08/2024 23:15

How much are the tickets out of interest?

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CandyLeBonBon · 31/08/2024 23:15

Honestly op, nobody cares if you like them or not. Same as Taylor Swift. Or Adele. You do you!

I'd have loved to go and see them but it didn't pan out but fans like to chat about their fave bands don't they? I don't get the hype with Taylor Swift but tons of my friends love her. More power to them I say. Love what brings you joy, and if not, walk on by eh?

YearsWentByFast · 31/08/2024 23:17

Attention seeking?
Boredom?
Frustration?
Unresolved issues?

Yes, some of all of the above I suppose. I just feel sad for OP then really.

Werweisswohin · 31/08/2024 23:17

ArmchairOlympian · 31/08/2024 23:14

None of the above. Just a Saturday night anonymous post. Not really anything more, but thanks for the character assassination.

Someone asked for reasons why someone might start a thread like this. Do you see all the little question marks? That means I'm not assuming which, if any, motivated your particular pointless thread.

ArmchairOlympian · 31/08/2024 23:18

YearsWentByFast · 31/08/2024 23:17

Attention seeking?
Boredom?
Frustration?
Unresolved issues?

Yes, some of all of the above I suppose. I just feel sad for OP then really.

Don’t feel sad for me love, I’m none of the above. Just because I’m not an oasis fan doesn’t make me a sad, unfulfilled, lonely old spinster regardless of what the cool girls say.

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Werweisswohin · 31/08/2024 23:20

ArmchairOlympian · 31/08/2024 23:18

Don’t feel sad for me love, I’m none of the above. Just because I’m not an oasis fan doesn’t make me a sad, unfulfilled, lonely old spinster regardless of what the cool girls say.

Another reason....trolling.....and stop wittering in about this 'cool girl' rubbish which only you seem to see.

CandyLeBonBon · 31/08/2024 23:20

Don’t feel sad for me love, I’m none of the above. Just because I’m not an oasis fan doesn’t make me a sad, unfulfilled, lonely old spinster regardless of what the cool girls say.

Well @ArmchairOlympian SOME might say....

ArmchairOlympian · 31/08/2024 23:20

Aren’t most threads pointless? Or are the ones asking for advice on breastfeeding or teachers burn out much more valid?

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LoggedOutAgain · 31/08/2024 23:20

ArmchairOlympian · 31/08/2024 21:59

Yeah that’s it Jane.

maybe I’ll start another thread about not being able to get tickets, as 29,000 threads on that is ok

I don’t like Oasis. But I accept that many people do. It is a big reunion that has been long awaited. Of course the media are going to be all over it.

Why does it bother you so much? I dislike Oasis so I won’t be going to see them. Simple!

It is like all the anti-Taylor Swift threads. What’s the point? Why does everybody have to like the same things?

SmashingPumps · 31/08/2024 23:20

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HeySummerWhereAreYou · 31/08/2024 23:21

gretathegremlin · 31/08/2024 22:35

I don't hate them. If it was going to be £30 up our local party venue where all the tribute acts go for a cheesy night out I'd be in.

I can't be doing either this level of expense and hassle though, much as my 16yo would have liked to see them, having never thought there was even a possibility.

I have simply reminded myself that despite the hype and nostalgia, it's not worth the trouble when the only songs I like are limited to one good album and I don't much care for the individuals in the band.

Well, this is it see. I like them too, but CBA with all the faff and expense and utter ludicrousness of it all... If they were about 5 or 10 miles from where I live and it was about £25 return in a taxi - and I could just start out about 6:00 in the evening and be back for 11.00 or something (and the tickets were like, £30 to £40 then great ...)

But I can't be bothered with the hassle and the expense. Same with Taylor Swift. As much as I like her, there's no way in hell that I would have gone to all the expense and the hassle of going to one of her concerts.

It was like logistically, an absolute nightmare going to one of the concerts and you have to be incredibly dedicated and obsessed with her. Same with Oasis. I do like them and have quite a few albums, and there are lots of great songs ... And I loved them in the 1990s... But I just couldn't be bothered with going to see them. Waaaaay too much like hard work!

As I said earlier - I do feel like when I went to take my daughters to concerts in the noughties and early 2010s, it was just a lot easier to do it. AND cheaper... Tickets ranged from £25 to £43. I know time has moved on but that translates to about £42 to £77 now ... Yet the cheapest price of a concert ticket for Oasis and Taylor Swift appears to be £150 or more.

And they soar as time goes on - to multiple 100s, even 1000s. And it seems like VERY few people get them for the 'original price.' I know a number of Taylor Swift fans who paid £250-£300 for their ticket for her concert. This never happened 10+ years ago. Concert tickets starting out at a certain price, and doubling and tripling almost instantly...

When I used to take my 2 daughters, (noughties and early 2010s,) I would ring up Birmingham NEC or NIA, and order and pay for the tickets over the phone (probably waited for 10 minutes in the queue on the phone,) and they would send them out at 3 to 4 weeks before the concert.

We'd then get the train about 4:00pm, and get there to the venue for maybe 5.15pm to 5:30pm. Go and get some merchandise, and a concert programme, and maybe go and get a slush puppy or a coke and a hot dog or something. and then go into the venue. Watch the tribute band - and then the act would come on around 7.30pm.

We'd leave about 10:30pm to get the last train. Sometimes we'd stop in a Travelodge and we could stop out as late as we like and then just go and get some fish and chips on the way back to the Travelodge - and then come back the next day about midday. (The room was about £35-40.)

It just. seems like such hard work now. It's like weddings. They have gone from being very simple - and cheap and cheerful events close to home, that everybody quite enjoyed - to being an absolute marathon. Often 12 hours long, and sometimes even longer than that (two or three days when people have them hundreds of miles away.)

They are often not close to where the couple and their families live, and you still need accommodation even if it's 'only' 40-50 miles away, as it's too far and expensive to get a taxi, so you have to get a hotel. Some are abroad, and they often cost people 4 figures to attend. Possibly several thousand pounds.

LoggedOutAgain · 31/08/2024 23:22

ArmchairOlympian · 31/08/2024 22:06

This thread appears to have attracted the crowd of MNs who are so too super cool for school.

Your OP is far more trying to be cool:

Am I the only person who would rather stick pins in my eyes than go to an Oasis concert?
Durgey, dull, same same music, enormous egos - no thanks I’d rather stay at home and I’m a 90s teenager!

This is all so sixth form.

YearsWentByFast · 31/08/2024 23:22

Don’t feel sad for me love, I’m none of the above. Just because I’m not an oasis fan doesn’t make me a sad, unfulfilled, lonely old spinster regardless of what the cool girls say.

It's not the not being an Oasis fan that makes me feel sad for you. Obviously. It's that it must be miserable to feel so bothered by things like a band reforming and hating them so much. It just seems so pointless.

malificent7 · 31/08/2024 23:22

I thought that until I went to see Liam for a friend's birthday. He was absolutely brilliant. I was pleasantly surprised!

Werweisswohin · 31/08/2024 23:23

ArmchairOlympian · 31/08/2024 23:20

Aren’t most threads pointless? Or are the ones asking for advice on breastfeeding or teachers burn out much more valid?

Yes, those threads are more valid.

LittleYellowCloth · 31/08/2024 23:23

ArmchairOlympian · 31/08/2024 23:18

Don’t feel sad for me love, I’m none of the above. Just because I’m not an oasis fan doesn’t make me a sad, unfulfilled, lonely old spinster regardless of what the cool girls say.

Are you still not getting that it’s nothing to do with being an Oasis fan or not? People aren’t saying don’t post that you hate a thing because they love that thing. But because posting you hate a thing is utterly pointless, because everyone has reams of things they hate, and writing them all out on a forum is an exercise in futility, other than to make yourself even more miserable by focussing on things which you dislike. Go and watch or listen to something which does make you happy, and I guarantee your life will be better than having an argument that nobody else is having on this thread.

Sethera · 31/08/2024 23:26

Quite liked them in the 90s, still quite like them - not enough to spend a fortune on seeing them live but enough to feel a pleasant wave of nostalgia if 'Roll With It' comes on the radio.

HeySummerWhereAreYou · 31/08/2024 23:26

YearsWentByFast · 31/08/2024 23:22

Don’t feel sad for me love, I’m none of the above. Just because I’m not an oasis fan doesn’t make me a sad, unfulfilled, lonely old spinster regardless of what the cool girls say.

It's not the not being an Oasis fan that makes me feel sad for you. Obviously. It's that it must be miserable to feel so bothered by things like a band reforming and hating them so much. It just seems so pointless.

Yeah this. ^ How pathetic really, to start a thread on a message forum declaring to the world how much you LOATHE Oasis, saying you'd rather stick pins in your eyes than see them. Basically deriding and mocking anyone who likes them. How miserable and rude.

SmashingPumps · 31/08/2024 23:27

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ArmchairOlympian · 31/08/2024 23:28

Ok point made, thanks for an interesting discussion and Werweisswohin.
I’ll be accused of flouncing but just off now as early start tomorrow and this sad old bint needs her sleep.

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JackRabbitSlim · 31/08/2024 23:29

LoggedOutAgain · 31/08/2024 23:22

Your OP is far more trying to be cool:

Am I the only person who would rather stick pins in my eyes than go to an Oasis concert?
Durgey, dull, same same music, enormous egos - no thanks I’d rather stay at home and I’m a 90s teenager!

This is all so sixth form.

I would include many of the replies in that too.

HeySummerWhereAreYou · 31/08/2024 23:32

ArmchairOlympian · 31/08/2024 23:28

Ok point made, thanks for an interesting discussion and Werweisswohin.
I’ll be accused of flouncing but just off now as early start tomorrow and this sad old bint needs her sleep.

Night night, sleep tight, don't let the bed bugs bite! 🐛